Workplace rule: don't touch the boss's "mine line" with anything.

Workplace rule: don't touch the boss's "mine line" with anything. Military strategists often say: know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle. In modern enterprises, if you want to feel at home in the workplace, you must handle the relationship with your boss. In a sense, knowing your boss is more important than knowing your job. After all, no matter what kind of enterprise, personal development and promotion are inseparable from the recognition of your boss at the decision-making level.

If you want to handle this special relationship, you need enough wisdom. One of the most important golden rules is: never touch the boss's bottom line. Don't cross the boss's bottom line even if there are 1000 legitimate reasons, because it is another world! You know, the boss's bottom line is to look, to test, to warn, not to touch. Jianghu has its own rules, and the workplace has its own path. The topic of boss's bottom line is sensitive and mysterious. Many people in the workplace think that ability represents everything, and they are not afraid to offend their bosses if they do their job well. If they really think so, it's all wet. As the saying goes, dragons have scales. The dragon will kill anyone who touches the lamella. The boss of every enterprise has the same psychological bottom line as the balance, and those who touch the bottom line will also be run on. For those professionals who don't know the world, not knowing the rules of the workplace is not a good thing for their future. There is only one result of pushing the boss's bottom line, and that is the final result. Throughout the ages, I don't know how many princes accidentally crossed this mine line and unfortunately died here.

So, what is the boss's bottom line?

The boss's bottom line refers to the boss's basic position or criterion, which is the minimum that the boss can tolerate and endure. In modern enterprises, the rules of the game in the office are all made by the boss. In this case, the boss's bottom line is often solidified into the most basic values of the enterprise, which is a minefield and a warning line, and no one can touch and cross it rashly. Once an employee touches the boss's bottom line, it's like crossing the line, and the consequences will be very serious. Of course, the boss's psychological bottom line is not only between the boss and employees, but also between the boss and the vice president who sing and dance together, and there is also a red warning line.

In the American drama Grey's Intern, there is an interesting line: Generally speaking, lines exist for a reason: for safety, protection and transparency, once you choose to cross this line, you have to take risks. What this sentence wants to express is that no matter what you do, you need to grasp a degree. Once this degree is exceeded, the result of things will become very bad. This line is the bottom line, which means the bottom line when translated into Chinese. This is a very vivid word. In English, bottom also means ass, and its usage here is just in line with what China people say about a tiger's ass touching. As we all know, many times, the boss's bottom line is often compared to the thunder zone and the tiger's ass. Of course, it is best not to touch the tiger's ass, otherwise the consequences will be very serious.

In American TV dramas, we often see bosses warning their subordinates seriously or angrily: Don't cross the line! In the workplace, it is very important for subordinates to understand and master the boss's management style and know the boss's preferences and the bottom line. Every boss has his own psychological bottom line, and no one likes others to touch his bottom line. Any boss is the same. Some bosses can tolerate failure, but getting into trouble may be their bottom line; Some bosses can give full authorization, but they will never tolerate high praise. Once this line is broken, things will change qualitatively, and even a gentle boss like a sheep will go on the rampage and get angry like a lion. To some extent, the boss's bottom line is actually the boss's last line of defense.

In fact, every boss has a psychological self-orientation, and every boss hopes that his psychological self-orientation will be recognized by his subordinates. When subordinates acknowledge the subjective orientation of the boss, the boss will feel respected. On the contrary, once the boss's psychological orientation is denied or opposed by the outside world, the boss will be very angry, and when he is fed up, he will directly remind his subordinates to pay attention. The way the boss reminds his subordinates often means a very intense means. From minor to serious, he will be furious and furious, and finally the subordinates who touch his bottom line will be expelled from the company. There are many similar cases in the industry, such as Skyworth's Helu, Lenovo's Liu Chuanzhi and Sun Hongbin. Although both Lu and Sun Hongbin have made outstanding achievements in their respective enterprises, () but because of arrogance or toughness, they inadvertently touched the boss's bottom line and undermined the stability of the company's inherent atmosphere, the boss had to take care of the overall situation.

Therefore, in the workplace, employees must accurately grasp the boss's bottom line, be careful not to touch the boss's psychological sensitive points and not to challenge the boss's psychological bottom line. The reason is that the consequences of this behavior are very serious, and neither the boss himself nor the employees themselves want to put themselves in this embarrassing hostile state.

And those employees who know how to grasp the boss's bottom line will get more opportunities to turn their career ideals into reality, because once the boss accepts you and affirms your way of doing things, he will be willing to leave you more opportunities. Most employees who are self-righteous and dare to touch the boss's bottom line have no good results, and most of them have been swept out of the house.

But the problem is that the boss's bottom line is often a hidden line compared with the bright line of corporate culture and company vision that the boss is willing to actively promote, which invisibly brings many obstacles to employees and requires employees to carefully observe, ponder and rationally analyze in their daily work. However, although the boss's bottom line is hidden, it is not completely untraceable. So, how do we explore the boss's bottom line? We can start from the following aspects:

⊙ Close observation method: those who are pro-Mexico are black, and those who are pro-Zhu Zhechi are black. Careful observation of the style and work style of the closest and most trusted people around the boss can often tell where the boss's bottom line is.

Observation of details: Anyone who is careful and good at acting will show his true colors sometimes. When the boss is excited, ecstatic or sad, his emotions often represent his true inner thoughts, which is also an effective way for employees to grasp and judge his psychological bottom line.

Clever communication method: In an enterprise with a long history, there must be many old employees, regardless of their positions, who have become the best carrier of corporate culture invisibly. Their observation of the boss's preferences is often in place, which is also one of the most accurate information channels for employees to understand the boss's bottom line.

Of course, there must be ways and means of everything, and dealing with the boss in the workplace is the same. Although the bottom line of each boss varies from person to person, there are still some similarities that are worth your reference.

First of all, as a qualified professional, you should clearly realize that as an employee of the company, there is a relationship between superiors and subordinates, between leaders and those who are led. This relationship must be strictly followed and cannot be confused. Therefore, employees can't get too close to the boss or go too far, which will help the boss and employees to think rationally and correctly. Because of the limitation of work content, position and angle, the ideas of ordinary employees sometimes have one-sidedness For the whole company, if a person is not careful or doesn't know how to deal with this situation, the boss will think that enthusiasm is beyond his power. Even a department head trusted by the boss must clearly know that the power delegated by the boss and his trust in you are limited. Even for the benefit of the company, the boss won't want you to help him make a decision. Once overstepped his authority and offside, the boss will feel that he has not received due respect, resulting in a sense of anger or crisis. Once you make the boss unhappy, the boss will naturally not make you feel better.

Second, we should know how to maintain the dignity and face of the boss. Workplace is Jianghu, Jianghu needs face, sometimes face is more important than power and money. At any time, as an excellent employee, we should always pay attention to maintaining the dignity of the boss. The boss's dignity and face are inviolable.

The boss is not always right. When the boss makes a mistake, he should pay attention to the communication method. As a subordinate, there is no need to argue with the boss about everything, especially not to correct the boss in public. Giving the boss a step down and maintaining the boss's face is actually leaving another way for himself. If the boss is wrong, he should be given a step down. It is better to save face for the boss passively than to fight for face for the boss actively.

When you get along with your boss, you must distinguish between talking about work and personal dignity; When there are differences, let the boss feel that you still recognize his authority. As long as you think about your boss everywhere, he won't feel it. When talking with your boss, you should pay attention to mild tone, avoid going to extremes, be analytical, well-founded and have a clear view.

At the same time, be careful not to get excited, always remind yourself to maintain a peaceful and friendly attitude, pay attention to attitude, methods and timing, and remember that the boss is an authority and decision maker, and bumping into the boss is an offense that cannot be tolerated and forgiven. Explain your point of view to the boss, not in an overly positive way, but in a discussion tone. It is better to say yes in public than in private. When things are settled, it is better to say yes when brewing. It is best to say yes calmly when you lose your temper, and it is best to say yes when you are depressed.

As mentioned above, if you want to feel at home in the workplace, be reused and promoted, you must know how to give your boss face and communicate with him on different occasions and in different places. Don't touch the boss's bottom line because of your own impulse. Doing so will only put you between Scylla and Charybdis.

In the smoke-filled workplace, only by being an excellent engineer, constantly digging stealth bombs on the battlefield and avoiding stepping on the boss's mine line can we embark on the golden road of our dreams.

Don't stay, go if you want, and don't look back.

1, when you are cold, your sick heart leaves the people around you.

2. Be such a woman. Loved. It hurts. I cried. Laughed. Then continue to be strong.

3, if one day, you are sad for my fall. Please remember how my confidence was erased.

4. You don't know what dependence is until you drop your belt.

5, the child is having a hard time, which is caused by sweeping pornography.

6. There are only two kinds of feelings in the world. One is that you are tired of being old, and the other is that you forget the Jianghu but miss crying.

7. Cherish the person who is willing to put up with your temper and coax you.

8. Sometimes, because of dependence, I look forward to it, and because of expectation, I am disappointed.

9. "The best smell in the world is your smell when I hold you."

10, please cherish those who can be together, because some people want to be together, but they can't.

1 1. I can take your call in the middle of the night. I can worry about whether you will get angry or wake up suddenly in the middle of the night. I'm afraid you will suddenly leave you and say I love you or not.

12, two people together, not for who can conquer who, but for the interdependence and support of two people.

13, life is like a super girl, and those who persist in the end are pure men.

14. Don't look back if you want to go/Shuo/

15, as long as you are still there, as long as I still love.

16, I am in uncontrollable pain.

17, time will slowly precipitate, some people will gradually blur in your heart, learn to let go, and your happiness needs to be fulfilled by yourself.

18, I said that I came and went, and I forgot people when I was eating happily. Be proud of your heart moving without worrying, and be proud of your blind date. Sima Xiangru's "Changmen Fu"

19. If you think too much, you will become very negative.

20. The teacher taught me very well when I scored 100. And I failed because I didn't work hard. Damn, unscientific! ! !

2 1, watching TV at home is not lonely, but sitting pale among lovers is really hard.

22. liking someone is a feeling, but not liking someone is a fact. The facts are easy to explain, but the feeling is unspeakable.

23. It is better to treat them as being together forever than to know the real ending. -Xue Xisi's Unfinished Legend

24. I know there are a lot of tears-it becomes difficult to laugh.

25. Why are you in tears? Because giving up on you is a choice I have never made.

Your smile no longer belongs to me. He can give you a lot. Please forget me.

27. Live and die sooner or later; If you die, you will live forever.

28. How much happiness and sadness time flies away. What I can't take away is only the memory and the faint fragrance in the silence.

29. liking a person is not to reply to everything he says, but to study the following suspicious replies 19. People will meet 29.2 million people in their life, and the probability of two people falling in love is 0.000049, so I don't blame you for not loving me.

30. Unrequited love is a bad cold that no one handed porridge.

3 1, I'm really hurt this time, I'm really awake, and I'll try to be free and easy.

32. I can't get into your heart.

I love you, even though I know you don't love me, that can't stop me from loving your heart.

Maybe all this is just a joke in his eyes. With scars full of cocoons, I licked my wounds and comforted myself all the way.

35, not for your pity, not for your sympathy, just for you to remember, I will always be your strongest backing.

I hope I can accompany you from short hair to long hair to waist, from school uniform to wedding dress.

37. It is better to erase the person who made you cry than to wipe your tears.

38. I'm more scared every day. What can I do to like you better than I do?

39. You never understood. My shell-only heart still hurts so much.

You gave me a smile, I thought you promised me forever.

4 1, you walked barefoot through my years and surprised all my hearts.

42. I hope that one day at my funeral, I can have a friend who can tell me for life.

At the wedding ceremony, the master of ceremonies asked the bride and groom who would be the master of the family and took a step forward. The bride smiled and did not move, but the groom took the initiative to take a step back.

Some people say that time is a good medicine for forgetting, but when I drank this medicine, I found that I was sad for no reason. The lonely cicada, who thought she couldn't sleep, kept moaning in the dark and broke everyone's heart.

45. I would rather let go with a smile than insist with a cry.

A word of positive energy: never waste your life.

1, slacker, get up! Don't waste your life, there will be enough time for you to sleep in the grave later. Franklin

Fish are silent in the water, wild animals are noisy on the ground, and birds are singing in the air. But human beings, it has the silence of the ocean, the noise of the earth and the music of the sky. Tagore

3. Everyone is an explorer who sails for discovery. Emerson

Life is like a flame, which burns out gradually. But when a child is born, it will have a new flame. Jack London

We can't wait for happiness to steal our life! Lincoln

6. When people devote themselves to helping other lives, human beings are moral. Adeg

7. Man shapes himself according to the decision to change the environment. Gao Shanshan Dubos

8. Old people believe everything, middle-aged people doubt everything, and young people know everything. Wilde

9. The real perfection of man lies not in what he has, but in what he is. Wilde

If everyone lives for himself, the world will cool down. byron

1 1. Man can climb to the highest peak, but he can't live there for long. Bernard Shaw's

12, life makes everyone stand on a horizontal line, and death makes outstanding people show their heads. Bernard Shaw's

13. If a person doesn't waste any time, he can live for a long time even if he is young. bacon

14, everyone is the product of his past. Rostow

Classic Quotations: Never be a slave to love.

Introduction: Love is not an escape, but an effort. We don't evade the responsibility of giving each other happiness, but strive to realize the obligation of making each other happy. When you say you want to leave so as not to hurt the other person, you have done the greatest harm to the other person. Don't be considerate because you are afraid to leave each other. Love is a kind of responsibility, and you can't leave easily.

1, love can win time difference and distance, as long as you insist, as long as I insist.

2. When you fall in love with someone, you can't help trying every means to please him and exchange your humility for even a moment's smile. We are willing to be humble in front of a person, but if you have been selfless, the other party has always accepted it frankly, and you have wronged yourself, and the other party has always ignored your dignity. I'm afraid this kind of love is not love.

Everyone's love includes friendship, just as all friendships also include love, you can't take them away. -but not all, no matter how warm your friendship with a man is, it can't become love.

4. I feel alive because I love someone wholeheartedly. This is the biggest reward we get from love. As for how much love the other person can give us in return, it is not the most important thing.

Some people say that loving and being loved is a kind of happiness. I want to know the meaning of happiness. I want to know when I can have real happiness. What I ask for, what I long for, can only be a beautiful fantasy forever. I am silent and evasive, all about the meaning of love. I am just a butterfly trapped in a cage by fate, and there is no reason to fly.

6. Love sometimes seems to be waiting for a bus. The bus you don't want to take stops for you, but you really want to take it, but you can't wait, like a deliberate prank. When the bus finally arrived late, it seemed that two or three buses were coming in a row, which made people wonder what to do. No matter which bus you take, you can't erase the faint disappointment, always worrying about whether missing is the best choice.

7. The saddest thing in the world is that two people fall in love but miss it because of silence. Happiness will not wait. If you love someone, you must express it boldly. If you miss a beautiful love because of silence, you may suffer for life. If you have love in your heart, say it out loud. Only by bravely expressing your love can love have no regrets.

8. There are some things that everyone says are wrong, but you are willing to believe. Some people, everyone says it's not worth it, but you are willing to pay. Trust this thing is to look at the position, not right or wrong. When you love someone, you believe everything he says. When you hate someone, you hate everything he does. Therefore, whether to trust a person depends not on what he does, but on whether you love him or not. Love is right, but not love is wrong.

9. There are some things that everyone says are wrong, but you are willing to believe. Some people, everyone says it's not worth it, but you are willing to pay. Trust this thing is to look at the position, not right or wrong. When you love someone, you believe everything he says. When you hate someone, you hate everything he does. Therefore, whether to trust a person depends not on what he does, but on whether you love him or not. Love is right, but not love is wrong.

10, there is the best feeling, knowing that a person will not leave you easily. No matter what setbacks and disputes you experience, go around and come back. True love is just a kind of "guarantee" that two people give each other. Those who leave easily, even if it hurts, actually think about things that are too easy to lose, those things that are not yours.

1 1. When a person needs you, he doesn't love you, but uses you. When a person wants you, it is not love, but possession. People who really love you actually don't care what you know, what you have, or even your shortcomings and strengths. That's how he fell in love with you without regrets. No use, no possession, just want to be nice to you. Love is good to people, with no regrets.

12, the love of each of us is a process of knowing ourselves. At first, you will like grandiose superficial kung fu. But slowly, I will find that those are actually not important. What really matters to you is nothing more than stability, reliability and safety to the end. Therefore, the best advantage of a lover is nothing more than his loyalty, persistence and warmth. It is best to fall in love with someone's heart.

13. A person who loves you wants to be with you anytime and anywhere, even if he is doing nothing. And a person who doesn't love you wants to leave immediately after using you, and doesn't even want to waste a second. Therefore, the sign that others love you or not is to see if they are willing to accompany you to do boring things.

14, many people love each other as if it were their last true love, but in fact, breaking up is faster than anything else. The end of love is often not meeting the right person, but that you are too tired to change people. Therefore, love is the same every time, the only difference is everyone's mentality. The last person you married was actually the guy who didn't even bother to say love.

15, whatever you do, don't be a slave to love. I especially despise some people. Speaking of love, my family doesn't want to work or even die. Did your parents raise you for decades to make you devote yourself to the baiwenhang? Even if it's mean, it's worth it. Others are kind to you and will repay you a hundred times. Let others go as far away as possible if they are not nice to you.

Some people believe in true love, but the more they love, the more painful it is. Give up, don't want to give up, and you can't stand it if you go on. This is why you are entangled and sad. In fact, it is not true love that is destined to be together. The key to a good life is to love others. Choice is the most important part of love. All the pain is because you made the wrong choice. Being happy every day proves that you made the right choice.

17, two people love each other but often quarrel. Is this true love? Maybe at some point, you are true love, but in fact, this love is not enough. Because two people will quarrel, because they are unwilling to compromise and change for each other in life. But choosing a person is choosing a way of life. To love each other is to accept everything, shortcomings and advantages of each other. Falling in love with someone is the way to love TA.

18, when a person really falls in love, she will definitely become a fool. Because of the throbbing and possessiveness of love, all the reason in people's hearts will be burned and people will become fools. And this is the most suitable place for love. So, if you find that your lover has always been rational and smart in love, be careful. Cleverly falling in love with you is actually not enough love. Perfect love is silly love.

19, if someone wants to marry you, there is no need to wait until the hair grows to the waist. If someone loves you enough, Wuren moon cake will be swallowed in one gulp. If someone is willing to do it for you, they will continue to do it after all the hardships. Therefore, when others say a set of reasons in front of you and find one excuse after another to delay. There is no doubt that he just doesn't love you enough.

20. Don't lose confidence in love because of other people's experiences. Don't even stop believing in love because of bad luck in the past. Because for everyone, there is no reference to how others are doing. In the end, life still depends on yourself bit by bit. As long as your lover is still there, then love really exists. Take care of your love, don't give up easily, it's as simple as that.

2 1, true love can stand the test and needs to be tested. How many feelings, because of the distance, slowly fade away; How many feelings, because of the long time, slowly fade away; How many feelings, because of the intervention of family members, slowly disappear. What is yours is yours. The more you persist, the easier it is to lose. We have worked hard, cherished and have a clear conscience. Leave the rest to fate.

22. Some people show up and leave. Then everything went back to the original point, with only heavy memories. If you lose a relationship, don't be sad, don't be sad, understand that what you lose is love, not true love. True love is hard-won and lingering. How did you get through these troubled cities? Maybe some things will never belong to you! We don't know much about life.

23, love, there are no rules to speak of, love is not like sending troops to fight, you can handle it with 36 tricks, love is just the touch of two new souls. In fact, love is very simple, but it is also very complicated. It is joyful and sad at the same time, but different people have different understandings and feelings.

24. Love is not an escape, but an effort. We don't evade the responsibility of giving each other happiness, but strive to realize the obligation of making each other happy. When you say you want to leave so as not to hurt the other person, you have done the greatest harm to the other person. Don't be considerate because you are afraid to leave each other. Love is a kind of responsibility, and you can't leave easily.

25. You are like a hedgehog. When I held you and blood dripped on you, you said I hurt you, but you didn't know the blood was mine.

26. If you really love someone, you will be willing to change for him. If a person goes his own way in front of you and ignores the behavior you don't like, then he doesn't love you. So if you don't care enough about him or he doesn't care enough about you, then you don't love him or he doesn't love you. Don't think you are careless or believe that he is a careless person. Cowards will become brave when they meet people they really love, and similarly, careless people will become cautious.

27. Being interested in the other person and not saying it is the highest state of love. Because at this time, people are enjoying the hot psychology of winking, eye contact and the pleasure of touching their fingers. Once you say it, the taste will fade, because after two people agree, all behaviors are allowed, and psychologically, they will gradually become numb in the end.

28. When many people break up, they are always very painful, depressed, crazy and humble. But many years later, when you look back, you will find how ridiculous you were at that time. The fate of a lifetime, the opportunity is only once. You left the unreliable person, but the opportunity was left to the worthy one. If you don't give up your mistakes, how can you find the right one? So breaking up is fate's favor for you. Losing love is not pain, but luck.

29. True happiness is around you and in your heart. In the impetuous life, we are either happy or sad, or sad and happy. Zen teaches us to use a normal mind. Whether we are proud or frustrated, it is inevitable in life. There is no need to worry about it. If we look down, there won't be so many troubles in life. In the noisy city, sit by the window and have a cup of tea quietly, wander in the world of music and enjoy the fragrance of coffee alone.

30. Be kind to a person desperately. If you are afraid of doing something wrong, the other person will not like you. It's not love, it's flattery. I love each other more after breaking up and can't live without him. This is not love, it is unwilling.

Editor's Note: When you fall in love with someone, you can't help but try your best to please him and exchange your humility for even a moment's smile. We are willing to be humble in front of a person, but if you have been selfless, the other party has always accepted it frankly, and you have wronged yourself, and the other party has always ignored your dignity. I'm afraid this kind of love is not love.