My wife says she feels like a prodigal, how should I respond to her?

Never say: No, you are not a loser. How could it be? If it's okay, you might think it's too perfunctory. If it were me, I would say: What do you think? Let me explain why I say this. It's like you go shopping with your wife. If she picks out a piece of clothing and wears it, and then asks you if it looks good? If you say it doesn’t look good, she will definitely tell you that it’s too expensive and you don’t want to buy it. If you say it looks good, she will definitely have other reasons. After all, not every piece of clothing can be said to look good. In fact, she had the answer in mind when she was pretending, so we kicked the question back to her and let her think about it.