Apart from sex and love, it is the key to warming up feelings.

This is the key to emotional warming.

Marriage analysis/bisexual skills/self-growth

0 1, men are actually very fragile.

There is a line in the movie "The Lost Girl" that goes like this:

"Two people love each other, but they can't manage a marriage. This is the real tragedy. "

It is important to love deeply, but if you don't manage with your heart, no amount of love will dry up.

In my opinion, the most important thing to manage a good relationship is communication.

When two people are together, they need communication to make love flow and get to know each other better.

On the other hand, without communication, there is no sense of security. If you are afraid of two people getting along with each other day and night, you will never get close to each other.

02, how many feelings are lost to have something to say.

Found that many couples have this phenomenon:

Everything is in my heart and I don't want to tell each other. As a result, both sides became more and more silent. Unconsciously, I am alienated.

Some people may choose silence to avoid quarreling, but they don't know that those forbearing emotions will be the last straw to crush the camel.

For example:

She has a very cold boyfriend. No matter what she says or does, the other person only has one sentence, that is, she has no opinion. Every time there is a contradiction, she is always annoyed. However, the less she talked, the angrier she became, so she began to hide her emotions, waiting for her boyfriend to find her depressed.

03. Feelings are consumed by words.

But the boyfriend never noticed that the last two people were sulking. It's very tiring to get along with each other repeatedly like this. When two people are together, they are most afraid of having something to say, hiding their thoughts in their hearts, pretending that nothing happened and covering up the past. As a result, the surface was calm, but the problems accumulated over time until they got out of hand.

In fact, many people won't say it, but sometimes they don't want to say it, and some things are hard to say. This is how feelings are consumed. Don't say what you should say, don't ask what you should ask, and slowly exhaust your enthusiasm and trust, leading to the alienation of the two.

04. Communicate well.

In the TV series "Please Teach Me for the Rest of My Life", the way Gu Wei and Lin Zhixiao get along is worth learning.

The relationship between Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue is natural. They have never loved each other and killed each other in four years. They all know how to express their feelings and are good at communication. At a party, because Gao Tian and Gu Weimen are well matched and good partners at work, a colleague joked about Mu Yuan's relationship.

In this regard, Lin Zhixiao was very angry. Gu Wei publicly announced that Lin Zhixue was his favorite person and explained that he and Gao Yi would always be colleagues. Gu Wei and Linzhi School may have contradictions and misunderstandings, but they will also make things clear. Instead of any bad blood, they will be sweeter every day.

05. There is no shortcut to a good relationship.

It takes a lot of thought to communicate with the opposite sex, from strangeness to familiarity to understanding. In this process, differences are inevitable, and quarreling is not terrible. What is important is whether two people can communicate well, and finally come to a conclusion that both love and marriage need to be managed with care, and both men and women understand and tolerate each other.

As a man, if you feel that the other person is always complaining and strict, you can explain yourself to her; At the same time, talk to her more and think more about her efforts. As a woman, if you feel that the other person often ignores you and stays at home, you can tell him directly that you also need to care about your company. At the same time, think more about his contribution to the family.

06. Good feelings need to be managed.

You know, a good relationship is not only maintained by sex and love, but also requires responsibility, frankness and understanding. There is no shortcut to happiness, only management. Both sides of the opposite sex should be able to speak and listen, and keep good communication at all times, so that their feelings can last forever.

It is said that love can only be met, but not foreseen. Since the future is unknown, grasp the present, and in the accompanying days, talk well, communicate with your heart, stay in love, and leave no regrets.