I am learning to repair cars when I am 17 years old. I am timid, introverted and have low self-esteem. I talk little and am not good at words. When the master talks to me, I will not talk back or talk

I am learning to repair cars when I am 17 years old. I am timid, introverted and have low self-esteem. I talk little and am not good at words. When the master talks to me, I will not talk back or talk back. I listen to the master and do whatever he asks me to do.

Everyone who has just debuted will encounter this kind of situation, but you are the worse one

But if you analyze it carefully: there are two main reasons for you

First, you don’t know how to be a good person: If you clearly do a good job, but this situation occurs, it is obviously that you have not communicated: maybe you think you do a good job, but the other party just thinks that you do a bad job. It’s because your “goodness” is not the same! What you think is good obviously doesn't meet your boss's requirements. It was obvious there was a clear lack of communication. It's okay for a person to be introverted, but if he doesn't even ask basic questions, then he's not called an introvert but a "speech-impaired person"!

What you have to do now is to talk to your master and boss in a calm manner. You have to express your thoughts: For example, if it is not clean, how can it be clean? I am a newbie and I don’t know much about this. Boss, please teach me personally and I will know how to do it later. Okay...

For another example, I really want to study hard and work hard here. If there is anything I do that is not good enough or bad, I can say it directly. If it is not good, I will Corrected immediately! I also hope that my bosses will give me this opportunity. People never attend meetings. As long as you give me the opportunity, I will continue to make progress

Furthermore, I should also be able to observe my words appropriately. You are If you go to learn a skill, you have to carefully observe and think about what the master needs. If you really don’t want it to be so complicated, you can also ask directly. Don’t use a bad tone such as complaining, but take the initiative to ask when handing over the tools (be sure to ask the master before handing over the tools). Before I ask for it from you, there is an attitude problem when being asked (asking proactively). Master, what tools do you need for the next step? I will help you get something. You should work diligently at ordinary times. No one likes lazy people. If you really want to If you keep doing it, you have to experience it with your heart. After a long time, you will naturally understand it.

The second thing is that you think too highly of yourself: I think that the master is not very good and his craftsmanship is not very good, so it is nothing. Learn what I can learn, this is just a small company, something like that.

What you need to understand is: No matter how bad they are, they are still better than you. After all, it doesn’t mean they can repair, and this skill can’t be learned in a short while. For people who are better than you, you have to use your respect. Ask questions with an attitude, and you will not look down on others for any reason! ! !

If you want to look down on others, you must first be like others, okay?

If you have a thirst for knowledge, you will overcome many problems!

The most important thing now is that you need to know whether this job is more important or whether you need to learn a craft!

If your work is very important, then you have to have a correct attitude. They are all your boss, and you have to follow them, so you have to do what the boss does!

If craftsmanship is important, then it is even more important to correct your attitude. If you don’t adjust yourself well, how can you learn craftsmanship from others, how can others teach you, and how can anyone trust an unreliable person? What about you

If the most important thing is not to let yourself get offended, then say goodbye to them and find another job!

The most important thing is that you need to understand what you want! ! ! !