What if husband and wife live like enemies?

Before marriage, everyone's expectations for marriage are beautiful, especially women. But after marriage, some women do get the marriage they want, but some women are getting more and more upset.

There are two sources of women's anxiety after marriage: one is all kinds of messy trivial things in life, which makes them physically and mentally exhausted; The other is that what men do makes women feel dissatisfied and even disgusted. If you think about it carefully, it is nothing more than these two reasons, especially when men make women dissatisfied, and women will be even more unhappy.

In the end, many couples become like enemies, which is actually the result of accumulated troubles.

In this case, it is necessary to solve it from the psychological level. Otherwise, the two people will just have an external quarrel, a cold war and a conflict. The problem will never be solved, but it will become more and more serious. Moreover, in this case, if two people always have negative feelings about each other, it will make the problem worse.

The best way is for those who are still guarding the marriage and who have not made mistakes to take the initiative to solve the problem. In other words, in marriage, if there is a problem in the relationship between husband and wife, the rational one should play the role of the other's psychologist.

It will take some time to solve the problem of husband and wife enemies. Because healing a person from the psychological level is not effective in a short time. Even if it is really the relationship between a psychiatrist and a patient, it can't cure a person's psychological problems immediately. However, the relationship between husband and wife can't be that serious. As long as we persist in repairing the relationship between husband and wife and prevent things from getting worse, it is only a matter of time before the problem is solved. All problems in the relationship between husband and wife can be repaired. However, some husband-wife relationships have deteriorated to the point where there is no need to repair them, which is why many people choose to divorce. But not all couples have to have problems before they get divorced. You can choose to repair.