What people hate is not change, but being changed

Slandering others is like spitting blood, which first pollutes your own mouth.

If you can let her go, you will be a free person in the world.

When a person has passed the bottom line of suffering, has no awareness of the warmth and coldness of the world, and her time has passed, forcing her to no longer waste even one minute on useless things, it is true that The only thing left is the so-called success.

Life is a process of cultivation

Living a day in vain with nothing to do is like committing the crime of theft.

You must always forgive all living beings, no matter how bad they are, or even if they have hurt you, you must let go in order to gain true happiness.

I chatted with you, but you ignored me in the end. I wanted to chat with you again, opened it and saw that the last message was from me, and I was too lazy to talk to you. It felt like I was fawning over you. of.

Adversity is a necessary process for growth. Those who have the courage to accept adversity will grow stronger day by day.

A winner never gives up, and a quitter never wins.

To forgive others is to leave space in your heart for recovery.

What people hate is not change, but being changed.

Love is not about finding someone to live with, but about finding someone without whom you cannot live.

In my opinion, love is like a Rubik's Cube. I always want to try but can't solve it.

Wise men regard letting go as progress, fools regard letting go as despair - as much as you can let go, there will be as much happiness as you can.

Small happiness is around you, and being easily satisfied is heaven.

You can make wealth in a way you don’t like, and you can cure diseases with medicine you don’t believe in, but you can’t get happiness from people you don’t love.

The biggest difference between doing and not doing is: the latter has the right to comment on the former.

A liar must have a good memory.

If it is gold, it will always be spent; if it is a mirror, it will always reflect light.

What is clear to the bystander is only the onlooker’s own guess.

Life is so short, and living life-threateningly is the only way. I don’t want to die slowly of old age - Sanmao.

To express your temper is called instinct; to suppress your temper is called ability. Look at beautiful articles and pictures.

Walk by, pass by, don’t miss it! Choose what you love, love what you choose! Don’t regret it, move forward, there will be a different kind of sky!

Doing all ordinary things well is extraordinary, doing all simple things right is extraordinary.

Some people fall madly in love without even touching it, while some people fall asleep enough without even touching it.

Your position in my heart will never change at any time. Being soft-hearted is a disease, being moved is poison!

People should be like lentils in the workplace. No matter how hard anyone steps on them, the result will still be the same, flat.

Being jealous of others will not add any benefits to yourself. Being jealous of others cannot diminish other people's achievements.

Text message from ex-girlfriend: I’m getting married. I said I want to walk into the marriage hall with you, so you can be the best man...

There is no right or wrong, only Willing or not.

A person who is thoughtful at work, a considerate person by his boss, and a caring person by his colleagues.

The experience of life is like a pencil. It is very sharp at first. It becomes smooth with more experience. If it cannot bear it, it will break.

The experience of life is like a pencil. It is very sharp at first. It becomes smooth with more experience. If it cannot bear it, it will break.

Anger often clouds our judgment.

Sometimes forgetting is the best relief and silence is the best way to tell.

If you can let her go, you will be a free person in the world.

If we still have the chance to walk around a few times, we will still come back to each other.

To be respectful to others is to dignify yourself.

But I can no longer tell whether you are friendship or missed love.

When credit disappears, the body has no life.

Treat everyone equally, be confidant to a few, and do not be indebted to anyone.

There is no shortcut to happiness, only management.

While waiting, time passes as usual, but it is lengthened by our thoughts.

Please put the sunshine in your heart and let the spring water flow in your heart.

A liar must have a good memory.

The sky without clouds is still the sky; the clouds without the sky are no longer clouds.

If you once sang the praises of the dawn, then please also embrace the darkness. Growth is not about changing yourself, but about constantly improving yourself.

1. Don’t lose yourself in the busyness. Appreciating life while studying will make your mood bloom like a flower.

2. Like a rat in a hole.

3. If you are jealous of others, it means you are excellent; if you are jealous of others, it means you are incompetent!

4. The difference between possible and impossible lies in one’s determination!

5. When we encounter unhappiness of one kind or another, we might as well calm down and think about why we do these things.

6. Think about Bald Qiang, think about Big Big Wolf, what reason do you have for not being strong?

7. The roc rises with the wind in one day and soars up to ninety thousand miles.

8. Many times you are just someone’s love partner rather than a love partner!

9. Don’t give up. If you give up today, you will give up for the rest of your life.

10. Sometimes the whole world makes you feel discouraged, but I believe in music, just like some people believe in fairy tales.

11. There is sky above and earth below. Standing in the middle is yourself. Be a human being and do your best.

12. When traveling on the great road, the world is for the common good. (Book of Rites, Gifts and Luck)

13. After a night of hard work, the street lamp accepted the solace of the first ray of morning light with no shame.

14. Our future is not a dream.

15. A gentleman is likened to righteousness, and a villain is likened to profit. Confucius

16. The only shortcoming that we will not correct is weakness.

17. The ancients left no stone unturned in their knowledge, and only when they are young and old can they become successful. Lu You

18. The power developed by a person with faith is greater than that of 99 people who are only interested. Patience is even better than brain power.

19. A healthy body is the cornerstone of achieving goals.

20. Suffering is the teacher of life. Through suffering, you can move towards joy. Beethoven

21. There is no innate confidence, only confidence that is constantly cultivated.

22. Believe that wherever you can reach in your dreams, one day you can also reach it with your steps!

23. Let everything take its course, be calm when things happen, be calm when you are proud, be calm when you are frustrated, be aware of hardships and twists and turns, and gain enlightenment after going through all the vicissitudes of life.

24. What people hate is not change, but being changed.

25. A few more minutes of preparation last night will save a few hours of trouble.

26. Facts have proved that in this world, feelings can withstand the wind and rain, but they cannot withstand the ordinary; friendship can withstand the ordinary, but cannot withstand the wind and rain.

27. Where there is a will, there is a way.

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28. The children of the poor will become masters early

29. I am confident, so I am successful, I can do it, I will do it

30. Optimistic people can After regrouping and making a comeback, pessimistic people often fail miserably because of lack of self-confidence.

31. People are not afraid of insignificance, only of being humble. Life is fair. If you want to live a wonderful life, you need an enterprising heart.

32. The essence of failure is that there is no failure at all, but the conditions for success are temporarily lacking.

33. No matter how high the sky is, there is nothing to be afraid of. Standing on tiptoes, you can get closer to the sun.

34. The strong wind knows how strong the grass is, and it will wither after the cold weather. (The Legend of Wang Ba in the Book of the Later Han Dynasty)

35. Growth is not about changing yourself, but about constantly improving yourself.

36. People with ambitions fight against the world, while people without ambitions resent everything.

37. People should be like lentils in the workplace. No matter how hard anyone steps on them, the result will still be the same, flat. .

38. Many things are frozen in a warm and beautiful attitude, staying in our dreams.

39. The past is forgotten like smoke, and the selfless world in my heart is wide. Tao Zhu Love is not about changing the other person, but growing together

1. Happiness is all comparative. Just like a bottle of ordinary mineral water, when you drink it for the first time, you feel nothing, just like other things. But after you taste the sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty flavors, take another sip of that mineral water, and you will sigh, this is happiness. feeling. Happiness is very simple. You have it from the beginning, but you don't know it. When you have gone a long way, you look back and find that happiness is very simple, it is just the taste of a bottle of mineral water.

2. As long as I can still paddle, I will not be drowned. As long as I can still stand, I will not fall.

3. There is always innocence without being struck. It is difficult to be a good person before poverty

4. Love is the induction between the souls and can influence all things in the world. Love is so beautiful, even if it hurts, it will eventually melt away. Regarding love, in the quicksand of the early years of love, there are always bits and pieces of romantic luster. With the burning flame of happiness, love becomes more and more vigorous along the way. We are in the prime of our youth, so those expectations and waits come as expected.

5. Never be curious about things that may have a bad ending, otherwise it may kill you.

6. You will be reluctant to let go, but if you don’t let go, you will be hurt the most.

7. Those oaths sworn, those songs listened to, and those loved are all insignificant in the universe of time. It was not until later that I deeply understood that remembering is actually the best thing. of forgetfulness.

8. Human eyes are composed of black and white parts, but why does God want people to see things only through the black part? Because life must see through the darkness to see the light.

9. Setbacks will come and they will pass. Hot tears will be shed and they will be put away. There is nothing that can discourage me, because I have a long life, and you, you will definitely come.

10. Women should not be too strong. Some women have too strong self-esteem. She has a tough attitude when it's someone else's fault, and she has a tough attitude when it's her own fault. She always thought that asking for help from others was a sign of despicability, and she would never ask for help from a man. Such a woman is a headache. A smart woman will know when to be strong and when to show weakness. You should be so strong towards outsiders, but if you are so strong towards the person you love, do you still want him to protect you?

11. True purity does not mean innocence, nor does it mean ignorance of the dangers around you. But after seeing all kinds of suffering and ugliness, he still retains his original kindness and innocence and sticks to his principles.

12. Things that you think are useless now will definitely be useful in the future. Don't take it easy on what you are doing now.

13. It is really difficult to love someone well. You have to care about his warmth and warmth, worry about his safety, pay attention to his progress and retreat, and care about his joys and sorrows.

So, before you choose to love him, have you thought about it? No matter how many misfortunes, blessings, honors or disgrace, you must never leave him; no matter how many temptations and traps, you must never swerve. Holding hands is God's arrangement. You have to walk the road by yourself. Letting go is not an excuse for not loving. Holding hands is forever.

14. Love requires responsibility and ability; love requires interaction and integration. After living for a long time, I fall in love with a habit, which is silent care.

15. We have been traveling, waiting for someone to be our companion on the journey and accompany us through a memory that cannot be replaced by others. There, there are our unique memories, memories of family affection, flowers of friendship, trees of love, and tears of regret!

16. Looking at the sky at dawn and the clouds at dusk, I miss you when I walk and miss you when I sit.

17. Love is not about changing the other person, but about growing together.

18. Understand that childhood dreams are our lifelong concern, and childhood dreams are warm from the beginning. But the soul is like a flowering tree. There are three thousand flowers, but only one will bloom in thousands of turns. Therefore, we don’t need to feel sad about the times, or feel sad about the spring and autumn. We can rely lightly on the intersection of time, and pursue the truest dreams and bloom the truest selves in the passing seasons.

19. There is a subway in everyone's heart, leading to an exit called hope. Then, for the sake of love, they lost their way in the crowded car, kept getting on the wrong car, and got off the wrong car again and again. They were often lost, often lost, and often injured. Fortunately, they recovered quickly. "Subway"

20. From the moment you appeared in front of me, maybe everything looked different, whether it was the morning, the sunshine, the tears, or the singing, They all shine and move because of you.

21. When tears gather into a spring. In the end, my eyes were tired from crying and my heart was hurt from crying.

22. Now that I have set foot on this road, nothing should prevent me from walking along this road. Personalize your mood: Fighting all the way is not to change the world, but to prevent the world from changing

1. The wind may not understand the drifting of clouds, the sand may not understand the vastness of the sea, and the sky may not understand the rain. Down and out, not every love must have a result. Smoking can not understand the loneliness of the hands, wine can not understand the sustenance of the throat, tears can not understand the fragility of the eyes, not everyone will be happy. You may not understand my choice, you may not understand my sadness, because I know that not every pain must be told.

2. Reading is a kind of thinking and cognition. It cannot bring you a direct increase in wealth, but it can help you better understand the world.

3. Every strong person grits his teeth and goes through a period of time when no one helps, no one supports, and no one cares. It's over, this is your coming-of-age ceremony, if you can't get over it, beg for mercy, this is your bottomless pit.

4. No choice can be perfect. Any choice means giving up something else. No matter what you do or choose, you will inevitably have regrets. Don't waste time on regrets and a touch of sadness. Follow the path you have chosen with all your heart and don't envy the scenery and prosperity on other roads. Because indecision is the greatest negative energy in life.

5. Any relationship will be most comfortable and lasting when it returns to its most natural and appropriate position.

6. How to get through the low period of life? Wait quietly; sleep well; exercise, a good body is needed at any time; chat with close friends and basically don’t complain. The main thing is to recall happy times; read more, read some biographies, increase knowledge, and by the way, see how others survived when they were unlucky; take the opportunity to do housework and finish all the tasks that are usually too busy to take care of. Bi Shumin

7. The suffering you encountered today is either retribution from before, or it will be repaid to you in the future!

8. The weakest thing about people is the reluctance to let go. Reluctant to part with a relationship that is no longer exciting, reluctant to part with a vanity, reluctant to part with applause.

We always think that the best days will be very long and we don’t have to leave so soon. Just when we are weak-hearted and lack courage, the best days pass without mercy.

9. If a person works too hard to live for others, he will be in extreme pain. Today if you believe that you are doing a good job and don't care what others think of you, you can really feel at ease.

10. Some people can choose fine food and clothing, simple meals, coffee, red wine, or boiled water. For such a person, if he says he likes to drink boiled water, he really likes to drink boiled water. Some people cannot afford fine clothing, food, coffee or red wine. They say they like to drink boiled water, but if you put a row of Cokes in front of them one day, they will throw away the glass of boiled water.

11. Since I can’t reach you, I can only stand in the most conspicuous place and let you come to me.

12. Time is the greatest healer. No matter how many wounds there are, they will disappear on the skin, dissolve into the heart, and become the most beautiful patterns on the ventricular wall.

13. Life is like a glass of red wine. Those who love life will taste endless beauty from it. Hold it in your hand and observe carefully. There is a feeling of blood in its dark red color. That is life. Traces of it; take a sip and leave it in your mouth for aftertaste. There is a hint of bitterness in its sweetness, which is as complicated and confusing as life; take a sip, and the lingering fragrance will refresh your heart and mind, which will benefit you for life.

14. If there is an afterlife, be a tree. Standing for eternity, without any gesture of joy or sorrow. Half of it is peaceful in the earth, and half of it is flying in the wind. Half of it is shaded and half of it is bathed in sunshine. Very silent and very proud, never relying on, never looking for.

15. Everyone makes mistakes. If you love someone deeply, no matter how they treat you or what mistakes they make, you will forgive them and even find reasons for them. If you don't love someone, they may just say the wrong thing and break up immediately. So, when someone catches your little mistake and breaks up with you, it's not because of your fault, but because he doesn't love you. Forgiveness is only related to the depth of love. How much love there is, how much forgiveness there is.

16. The most regretful thing in life is to give up easily what you shouldn’t give up and stubbornly persist in what you shouldn’t insist on.

17. Life is a puzzle, and this may not be the answer. The experience of knowing nothing is fun. In the days we can see, we must struggle to live seriously and happily in the confusion of being unable to see through life. Floating up and down in such an ordinary yet glorious life, waiting to transform into butterfly wings.

18. The person who makes you cry heartlessly is the person you love the most; the person who makes you laugh heartlessly is the person you love the most.

19. In fact, I am very tired. I am used to pretending to be strong and facing everything alone. I don’t know what I want to do. Sometimes I can talk to everyone happily, and I can be very unrestrained, but no one knows that it is just a disguise, a very deliberate disguise; I can make myself very happy, but I can't find the source of happiness. , just giggle.

20. When you are thin and good-looking, and your wallet is full of money you have earned through hard work, you will suddenly realize that there is no time to worry about gains and losses, no time to guess, no time Think about others, if you bloom, butterflies will come, if you are wonderful, God will arrange it.

21. It takes a certain age to savor many of the tastes of life, such as the touching and happiness of mutual support. But once you understand, everything is far away.

22. What we are always looking for is what we already have; we always look around and miss what we want. This is the reason why it is difficult for us to get what we want.

23. Instead of caring about others’ betrayal and unkindness, it is better to manage your own dignity and beauty.

24. Everyone likes to pretend to be free and easy when saying goodbye. After saying goodbye, they all try to suppress their longing. They can avoid the night of drinking and singing, but they cannot avoid the deserted street.

25. I finally understand why you are not likable. You are not hypocritical enough, you are not sweet-mouthed, and you cannot tell lies with your eyes open. I slowly discovered that it is better to have a good mouth than to have a good heart, because Good intentions are never as good as good words. In today's society, today's people all like the false and don't like the truth. What you can do is not as good as what you can say, and what you can say is not as good as how to pretend

26 , I once heard someone say that when you can no longer have it, the only thing you can do is to make yourself not forget it.

27. When I looked through his past, it was not because I was jealous, I was just sad and had a deep affection that he had never given me.

28. The 18-year-old was ruined by pride and walked on the road paved by his parents. At the age of 25, he refused to change and was ruined by his ideas. He worked in a job with a fixed monthly salary. At the age of 30, my unwillingness to work hard was ruined by laziness, and I watched the success and failure of others day after day. At the age of 40, I feel like my face is ruined when facing a powerful enemy, and I am jealous of other people's wealth. At the age of 50, I regret that I was ruined by worries! I can only live cautiously. Sitting in a rocking chair at the age of 60, everything is too late! In life, one must either pay attention to it or make do with it.

29. I don’t have any procrastination at all, I’m just lazy, very simply lazy, so lazy that I only find procrastination as an excuse.

30. I don’t know how many people behind me have slandered me. Maybe they think that I am a shameless bitch who talks sweetly but is shameless. But there is no way. Some people are in a kind of morbid condition: pouring money on others. Dirty water makes them happy. I've been criticized a lot, but I don't dodge it. But I know that if you love me, you will definitely believe me.

31. We may never have some fun and encounters in life, but it is between these unavailability and gain that we establish our position in this world.

32. Sometimes I miss a friend I haven’t contacted for a long time, look at the phone book over and over, and finally give up. Time has changed, there is no intersection anymore, and there is no reason to connect. Because I'm not sure if the other person is also thinking about you, I pretend to be cool and say that it's better to miss you than to miss you. We are just afraid that we are not that important in the other person's heart. Su Qin

33. Don’t be too kind, don’t be too generous, and don’t be too capable. Over time, people will think that everything you do is as it should be. Even if one day you can't hold it any longer and are tired from crying, no one will feel sorry for you. Because in their eyes this is what you want. Sometimes, don’t be too kind-hearted and don’t think about others in everything! Others won’t think about your feelings and difficulties. They will take everything for granted.

34. There are 20 people in this world. No matter how you act, they all hate you. There are still 60 people who will change their attitude towards you based on your actions. One moment, a passerby will turn into a fan, and another moment, a fan will turn into a negative one. The remaining 20 people, no matter how stupid you are, how sloppy you are, or how big of mistakes you make, they all still like you so much. This is how the world works.

35. Sometimes, when God asks you to end a relationship, it is not to confiscate your happiness, but that God has always seen your unhappiness in his eyes. Even God feels sorry for you and feels that he is not worthy. , so let you go.

36. In this world, no one has an easier life than anyone else. It’s just that some people are holding on silently, and some are shouting to the sky and the earth.

37. Live affectionately in this ruthless world.

38. Let go of your impetuosity, let go of your laziness, let go of your three-minute enthusiasm, let go of your brain that cannot resist temptation, let go of your eyes that are easily attracted to anything, let go of your thoughts of everything Just talk about gossip, calm down and do what you should do, it’s time to work hard!

39. When all the waiting becomes the past, I will tell you many wonderful stories. listen.

40. Fighting all the way is not to change the world, but to prevent the world from changing us.