Why doesn't the husband want to go home?

When my husband comes home late every day for reasons such as "I have to work overtime tonight" and "I have a part-time job", the marriage certificate must have begun to turn yellow. Just like primary school students stay at home after school because they have endless homework and lectures, it is really boring. There are many good-looking, interesting and delicious things on the road. There are probably only one reason why my husband doesn't go home: one is that there is too little attraction at home, and the other is that there are too many temptations outside. Therefore, a husband is like a woman who lingers in front of a dresser for an hour before going out. Even if their wives keep paging, their pace of going home is far less than that of going to an appointment when they are in love. Women usually come to the conclusion quickly that their husbands are showing signs of changing their minds. Perhaps, things are far from as complicated and terrible as she imagined. Maybe the husband after work is just reading the newspaper carefully with a cup of faded tea in his office. Women think it's time to relax. In fact, what lurks in this seemingly calm water is the real emotional crisis-even if the husband does nothing outside, his indifference to home is not as good as his "flower" outside. At this time, women have to find their own reasons. According to the experience and observation of a husband who has been married for five years, if the husband's motivation for not going home is not to go home, but to cheat his wife, it may be the following reasons: First, his wife is too talkative. Many husbands would rather drink peanut beer with a few friends at dusty food stalls on the roadside than go home and enjoy a table of delicious food prepared by their wives for him. It's not that their taste buds are numb to food, but that their wives always nag every time they eat: the living expenses are a little tight this month. What's the matter with you? After working in this company for several years, the salary is still so low, and I saw my neighbor Li quarreling ... Many husbands can tolerate the high decibel noise of the downstairs decoration house, but they can't stand the wife saying that the chicken has increased by 50 cents per catty, and then this month's bonus has been reduced by 100. This is even more annoying than a football commentator introducing five players in a game, so he hides and turns a deaf ear. Second, it is difficult to communicate with my wife. After marriage, women are too poor to cope with work and housework and can't be quiet and patient listeners. When her husband was ready to tell her about his troubles at work, she ran to the kitchen again and again. What she cares about is that there are more ribs soup stewed on the stove and less soup. Besides, there are some things that husbands can't tell women. Therefore, they prefer to drink with friends, especially when they are slightly drunk, and they can talk casually, even including their good feelings for the beautiful new female college students in the office. Third, the wife loves to teach people. A woman's innocent girl will only appear before marriage, and a married woman is more like a strict and critical teacher. She will tirelessly urge her husband to correct all the harmless little mistakes. If her husband doesn't mop the floor and forgets to flush the toilet, it may attract a half-day training class. He hides when he can't be provoked. Fourth, the wife is suspicious. When women and children are together, they like to talk about what it will be like to be admitted to a famous university in the future. When she is with her husband, she likes to talk about the broken marriage and ungrateful husband around her. She is beating around the bush to prevent her from slipping away. In fact, she is not at ease with her husband, and she is not optimistic about her marriage prospects, which makes her husband unbearable. At least when a woman has nothing to hold, her husband will categorically refute her doubts, which will inevitably provoke war. For the sake of quiet ears, it is best to stay away from a woman when her hands and mouth are free. I'm not blaming women for my husband's not coming home, but it's always rational and positive for women to find more reasons of their own. Why does my husband always trot and gasp when he comes home from his honeymoon? Because women at that time were much cuter and more amiable, attracting husbands like magnets. Now, she looks like a cactus, so she can't go near it. A woman is busy looking in the mirror after her husband habitually comes home late to see if her waist is thick and her face is yellow. This may not be the root of the problem. The change of women from the inside out after marriage is the main reason why husbands stay away from them. Of course, there are still some reasons why husbands don't go home. For example, their wages are controlled by their wives, and they even need to apply for special funds to invite friends to tea. So they should enliven their second jobs and make their private money rich. For example, the later my husband comes home now, it shows that he has many social activities and rich nightlife. Only husbands who have neither money nor social life will go home to watch TV as soon as they get off work. Therefore, the husband would rather spend his time on the road than go back too early to show his neighbors his face. Of course, there are husbands who have a wonderful life in the outside world and will not miss every opportunity to steal happiness ... but I don't think this is the most fundamental reason. For husbands, being a householder attracts bees, birds attract nests, and boats attract shore. Their steps to go home will be firm and powerful, which requires husbands and women to do a lot together and change a lot.