What is the reason why boys and girls are ambiguous but don't confess? Can you elaborate on it?

"Boys are ambiguous and don't confess" is a typical phenomenon. I believe many girls have indeed encountered such a situation. Obviously, I have feelings for this boy. I obviously think the other person likes me, but the other person refuses to admit it. The relationship between these two people has been stagnant. Why on earth is this? In fact, most of them can't escape these five reasons:

1, he doesn't think he is good enough for you.

Don't think it's impossible. Since he has the courage to like you, how can he know that he is not worthy of you? This is not an ancient era. Both men and women care about marriage. Never underestimate the so-called self-esteem of men. I once saw a boy, and this was the case. I liked a girl when I first met her, and they quickly developed into an ambiguous stage.

However, as the two sides gradually got to know each other, he found that the girl's family was very good and her own work income was high. In addition, girls' usual consumption level is different from their own, so they are timid and feel unworthy of this girl. Even if they were together, she would break up unfortunately because of these problems, so he completely gave up the idea of repentance. In fact, many boys are like this. Because I have a deep understanding of both sides, and because of my work income and life goals, I feel that I am not worthy of girls, so I dare not confess.

He's not sure about this relationship.

Many boys have a competitive and face-saving mentality, and feelings are often the same. When they are not sure whether they can be accepted by girls, or not clear about girls' thoughts and attitudes, they will choose to maintain the status quo and not make a breakthrough. In this case, we should give him some hints and encouragement to take the next step bravely. Specifically, you can do this: for example, you can take the initiative to pull the other person's clothes when crossing the street, or stare at him with affectionate eyes when he speaks, and when he senses that you are looking at him, go away quickly, and so on.

He may be waiting for a special day.

Don't think this is a high-sounding reason. Sometimes heterosexual men think simply. They don't always confess. Sometimes they don't want to confess, but they are waiting for an opportunity and a special day. For example, what is an acquaintance, how many days, anniversary, Qixi, Valentine's Day, Christmas and so on.

My friend had a particularly painful experience before. At that time, he always liked a girl and had an affair with her, but he never confessed because he decided to surprise her and ask her out on Valentine's Day. But who knows, wait until valentine's day. He summoned up the courage to ask a girl out. The answer is that the girl already has a boyfriend and can't date him.

The girl's boyfriend was with her a week ago. Later, when the girl chatted with him, she admitted frankly that if my friend confessed first, she would choose him, just because they had been together for too long, and the boy didn't say that the girl thought he didn't like her. So, don't think that boys are always dishonest, just don't want to know their relationship. If there is any special day recently, he may be waiting for an opportunity.