Men's five behaviors of "spoiling their wives", but if they account for one or two, women will not divorce! Which ones?

It is a man's duty to love his wife, otherwise why would a woman marry you?

When a woman gets married, she always has infinite longing for a man and thinks that this man will be good to herself. Real life is often unsatisfactory. When all illusions about men are shattered, women will think of divorce to get rid of it.

No matter how busy a man is at work, he should not neglect his care and love for his loved ones, even if it is a little touching behavior.

A woman won't get divorced if a man takes one of the five behaviors of "spoiling his wife"!

1. Give the financial power to the wife.

It's actually quite good for a man to make money and then give it to his wife for safekeeping, provided that she doesn't lose her family.

In real life, men spend money lavishly, so leaving money in the care of their wives can save a lot.

Of course, it doesn't mean that the control of money is entirely decided by women. What a couple want to do with money must be discussed together.

If a man is willing to give his wife the fruits of his hard work, it proves that he trusts his wife and is at ease. Women will also feel the respect of their husbands, and their hearts will be more practical.

It is said that men become bad when they have money. When all the money is in the hands of their wives, how bad can it be?

two: no matter where you are, you will tell each other truthfully.

Married couples are teammates in the same boat. Everyone knows how important it is for teammates to cooperate with each other.

If a husband works outside, his wife will definitely want to know his whereabouts. A good man will tell his wife wherever he goes, and give him a call if he is late from work.

Some people say that this is a sign that a man is henpecked, and I think it is respect and love for his wife.

imagine that if her husband turned off his phone and didn't come home from work, who wouldn't be in a hurry?

most half-hearted people lie to each other about where they are.

Overtime, business trip, social intercourse, these excuses are often the beginning of a person's deception, because he is having an affair with another woman.

You are in his company, and he says he works overtime in the company, but you can't see anyone; You came home early, and he said he was at home, which was obvious even if you lied.

if you find that a person has lied to you about his position, then nine times out of ten there is something fishy.

three: always be the active party after a quarrel.

Tongue and teeth will bite together sometimes, and there will definitely be quarrels between husband and wife.

It is difficult for an honest official to break housework. Some things are not right or wrong, but two people are emotionally unstable.

The most common quarrel between husband and wife is the cold war. If you don't bow your head, I won't take the initiative. Some couples can even stop talking for a month.

everyone's heart is hoping that the other party can take the initiative to step forward, give themselves a step down, and then settle.

I think men can take the initiative a little bit, regardless of right or wrong, they can take the initiative to stand up and solve problems, and they can resume communication and exchange. I believe most women will not be stubborn again.

four: I will help my wife share the housework.

First of all, make sure that housework is not a wife's patent, and men also have the responsibility and obligation to do housework.

In some families, the man is the master and the woman is the master. The man goes out to earn money to support his family, and the woman teaches her children at home.

When a man comes home, he can help with housework and take care of the children if he has free time.

In fact, as we all know, staying at home is not easy. It really takes a lot of energy to do a good job in home hygiene, washing and cooking, and taking good care of children. Many women prefer to go out to work and hire hourly workers to do housework.

A man can understand his wife's difficulties, and a woman will understand her husband's difficulties in making money. This is a mutual process.

five: I won't neglect my wife when I get old.

This last point is really too important. This is the reason why many families fall apart.

Husband and wife have been together for decades, and some men have completely lost interest in their wives and started to neglect them. They are very enthusiastic about the opposite sex outside, and the relationship between husband and wife is no longer intimate.

First of all, let's rule out the physical problems. What women actually need is emotional support. Men can be overwhelmed by getting older, but they can't turn a blind eye to their wives and don't care at all.

Some couples will have to sleep in separate rooms when they are about 5 years old. In fact, I think this will affect their feelings. Don't make such a decision easily.

Spoiling your wife is emotional, not physical; Whether you can do it or not, you must show your attitude and don't let your wife get cold heart.

As the saying goes, most women are content. As long as the married man is kind to himself, he will be happy if he is poor. I'm afraid of marrying a man. I'm not rich, not caring, not motivated, and all kinds of philandering. Divorce is the only way out.

A wife still needs to be spoiled. When you spoil her, she will love you doubly. This kind of marriage will be happier and happier, but unfortunately many couples are too selfish now, only thinking about themselves, and finally divorce!

There are many behaviors for men to spoil their wives, but as long as these five can account for one or two, women are not willing to divorce.