Why is it easier to break up the longer you fall in love? Can you elaborate on it?

1. Long contact time, lack of impulse to get married.

The longer we talk, the weaker the impulse to get married. Psychologists believe that the best time for couples to get married is one to three years. In less than a year, they will lack understanding. After three years, they feel more and more tired and don't want to get married. One to three years is the best time to get married, which can not only ensure understanding, but also produce desire and impulse for marriage.

In the process of getting along, we have long found that marriage is inappropriate, but habits are hard to change.

Obviously, it is appropriate for two people to be together for a while, but in a relationship, it is difficult to keep everyone rational. Especially when you like each other very much, you will comfort yourself. After being together for a long time, the other party will change, and they can also change each other, spending time and experience all the time.

I don't love anymore and want to find a new object.

We have been together for a long time, and some people don't love each other for a long time. Especially if a political party has a successful career, it will feel that it deserves better treatment. He doesn't want to marry each other at all, he just wants to find a better one. When two people fall in love, they should consider whether the other person is suitable or not when they get along. In the process of running-in, they should also be rational, otherwise it is easy to pay a lot of time and energy, and the other party is really not suitable.

Feel out of place

When men and women begin to fall in love, they may not feel inappropriate, but the longer they stay together, the more contradictions there will be, and gradually they will not see each other's advantages. I only see each other's shortcomings, because my dissatisfaction with each other has accumulated for a long time, to the extreme. After the epidemic, we can no longer be together.

5. It reduces the enthusiasm of the other party and is easy to be intervened by other opposite sex.

People are born creatures who like the new and hate the old, and they all pursue novelty. Maybe at first, I will be full of expectations for love and enthusiasm for the other half. But as time goes on, this enthusiasm will gradually cool down, just like eating the same meal every day. Eating too much will make you tired, so you naturally want to change your taste. This decline in enthusiasm will lead to a crisis in the relationship between two people. Once other members of the opposite sex intrude, this relationship will eventually come to an end.