How many "smart people" are digging their own graves?

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I have four friends.

The first friend can be said to be a synonym for being smart and self-righteous. He is not very capable but has a bad temper. He will come to you when it is advantageous and run away when it is not. You introduce her to people but she wants to poach you and will not pay back the money you owe her. As a micro-business person, I still scroll through the screen every day. I can say a few witticisms, engage in a little literature and art, and talk about a little ideal. I laugh and think that I am the best in the world. At the beginning, I will be attracted by her few witty words, but over time, I I hope everyone in my circle of friends has nothing to do with her.

The second friend is sophisticated and tactful at a young age. He is good at talking and dancing, and he is very good at seeking his own interests. She is so proficient, but although she has good methods, she is not very clever. Over time, people in a circle keep away from her. Everyone can talk and laugh together and act like a plastic sister, but unless she encounters a leader who is keen on being flattered and appreciates her, there is no What's the use, postgraduate job hunting, etc. will not let you pass with high scores or hire you with high salary just because you can shoot a horse. If so, then I still advise everyone to leave this circle as soon as possible, because there is no future. Her end result is that if it involves group interest cooperation, other people will stay away from her. There are not many real friends around her, but a bunch of fake friends.

The third friend is dedicated to work, serious and reliable, and has excellent professional ability, but he does not please the leader and is not good at management. Although he was promoted in the end, he also suffered a lot. He has been in the company for four years. I am still a little transparent, always doing more and suffering from hidden disadvantages. However, because of my excellent character and professionalism, I have made many close friends. However, time is like today in my life. I have not recognized everyone in the unit for four years. It is also a bit too unworldly. After all, we cannot reach the level of living in seclusion in the mountains and being crowded with guests.

The fourth friend can be said to be my role model. He is professional and reliable, has a clear understanding of love and hate and is considerate, straightforward and sensible, knows how to be altruistic and does not give in to others, and can talk and laugh happily. She is also very good at listening, rushing to pay bills when eating, and keeping the overall situation in mind when doing things. Of course, she has a bit of a bad temper, but no one is perfect. Based on her conduct, her shortcomings are nothing.

The first two types of friends are all suspected of being smart, especially the second type. No matter how long-sleeved and smooth-tongued they are, and their face-saving projects are perfect, they are not as good as sincerity, reliability, and practical actions, even if they can be quickly opened in a short time. situation, but this kind of cleverness cannot withstand the screening of big waves, and in the end it ruins one's own future and eliminates one's own way out.

As for the latter two, the former is a type of person who concentrates on doing things, but today, when everything is indispensable for being a human being and doing things, it seems a bit too unsophisticated. My fourth friend is the person I admire the most for his way of doing things. She is comfortable and decent. Of course, we cannot expect everyone to like her, but she is indeed the person with the most close friends, the widest connections, and the best career development that I have ever seen.

Many times, many people always It is to use the tactics of palace fighting in the workplace and interpersonal relationships. However, it is difficult to imagine that if a boss is not strong in re-employment and can only be a slut and flatter people, what future will this company or enterprise have? Of course, some people will also say that the system The internal unit attaches great importance to this, but the reality is that within the system, the most important thing is family background, your family background, school background, and work background. If you just hope that you can get promoted and make a fortune by being flattered by your peers, it is not easy. It’s an unrealistic fantasy. If you have this time to dream about power, it’s better to study some side jobs to make some money. After all, those boring Machiavellian tricks can’t get you a raise or give you money to help you afford imported medicines when you’re sick. cost.

And it is even more difficult to imagine that a person would choose to cooperate with someone who is insincere and unreliable, who may shoot you cold arrows at any time, and who is wearing small shoes. No matter how good the conversation is and how comfortable the conversation is, this kind of cost is the lowest The highly speculative way of making friends will also be difficult for people to agree with. There is a long road ahead, but it is better to be with people who are affectionate, trustworthy and altruistic.

My first two friends cut off their own way out and dug their own graves unconsciously. After all, many times, one thing in front of the person and another in the back can easily spread in a circle. Just imagine who will be in the circle. After work, we have to waste time and energy on people who can only play tricks. Even if it is difficult to distinguish them for a short time because of their sweet talk, but in the long run, these smart people will show their true colors, just like my two friends, the first one , almost everyone knows that he refuses to pay back the money he owes, and is ungrateful. The second friend may think that she is a very nice person before they have contact with her, but after contacting her, almost everyone says that this person is two-faced and two-faced. Just maintain a superficial relationship with her.

How a person conducts himself is a reflection of his own pattern. People who are short-sighted only have things in front of them, and they use their own little tricks that can be seen at a glance to brush their presence everywhere. The size of the pattern is clearly discernible, and excellent people will definitely He is a person with a big picture, but with a small picture, being smart is undoubtedly digging his own grave and cutting off his own way out.

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The way my last two friends make friends seems to be a bit "losing". Take my fourth friend as an example. They rush to treat each other when they go out to eat. , every year, she gives fruits and specialties to people who have helped her. She will take the initiative to help others without asking her for anything. She is not sleazy and even a little bit upright, but is very considerate. She likes to be friends with strong people, but she also She has never been a bully. She is high-profile and low-key. She has keen eyesight and profound knowledge. Almost all the compliments I can think of can be suitable for her. I do not hide my fangirl attributes in front of her. I am very confident that she will be able to live a good life in the future. She did very well, and I very much hope that she can live a very good life in the future!

Everyone needs to be satisfied in social relationships, but some people uphold altruism, and everyone benefits from a win-win situation and makes progress together. Some people uphold self-interest, and even benefit themselves at the expense of others. After all, they are still human beings. It's normal, everyone has their own way of survival and survival rules, and some people do harm to others without benefiting themselves. Just because they are not doing well and don't want to work hard, they are mentally unbalanced and want to laugh at others when they are at their lowest point. , taking advantage of others' good times, they cling to others, bully the weak and fear the strong, and follow the trend.

, Lu Yao knows that Ma Li can see people's hearts over time. If you want to make true friends and find family members other than blood relatives, then sincerity, altruism, kindness and generosity are indispensable qualities. I also believe that this is the right way in the world.

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When I grow up, many people put on thick armor and hypocritical masks for themselves, but I always believe that wealth and power are destined, and Life will not bring you, death will not take you away, sometimes it is as fragile as bubbles in the water, but your heart and feelings are.

Your memories are what accompany you throughout your life. Looking back at your life is full of conspiracies and intrigues, and the lack of warmth makes you feel that you have no regrets in this life. You still have old friends by your side, and you have been as strong as ever. The sincerity of the rock and the love that depends on life and death, the relatives and friends who have helped each other, and the joy of helping others make you feel that this life is not worthy of you. This is a matter of personal choice, but I hope that when we complain that the world is full of intrigues and falsehoods, we can first Keep some of your own sincerity and kindness. When we complain that the world is full of deceit and betrayal, we can have the courage to be loyal and loyal. When the world is not good enough, we can work hard to be a lovely and beautiful person while protecting ourselves. Even if you can't change the reality, at least you won't add fuel to the flames and make the reality worse. Don't become that person who no longer believes that kindness and altruism are the right ways in the world. Don't let this world collapse even with its bright ideals.

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