After several years of marriage and having children, my wife still dresses herself up every day. Do you support me?

My answer may offend many people, but I still choose to speak a man's mind.

As a man, it is unacceptable for a wife to dress herself up every day. In the long run, something will happen sooner or later, and there are such couples around.

Xiaojiang (pseudonym) is a thin man, only about 1.6 meters tall, but he married a beautiful wife, Daxiu (pseudonym), plump, white and beautiful, and especially knows how to dress up. She is also the village flower of their village.

I heard that Daxiu married Xiao Jiang at that time, mainly because of her parents. Xiao Jiang is an only child, and her family is a bit tricky in our hometown. Daxiu is a filial girl. In order not to hurt her parents' hearts, she silently obeyed this marriage with tears in her eyes.

After marriage, Xiao Jiang will not let Daxiu do heavy work and dirty work, but will help her mother-in-law cook on weekdays. Even so, Xiao Xiu doesn't like Xiao Jiang in his heart.

Soon, Daxiu had a baby. With the birth of the child, Xiaojiang discussed with his father to tear down the old house at home and rebuild the new house, because Daxiu always said in Xiaojiang's ear that his cousin built a villa-like building, which was very beautiful.

When it comes to architecture, Xiao Jiang is an impatient person. He found his brother-in-law who built houses for others and gave him his own house. On the one hand, I take care of my relatives. On the other hand, my brother-in-law is a good craftsman, and I can get a peace of mind if I do it myself.

Brother-in-law is a strong man. Although he has been doing mud work for a long time, he is not old at all, but looks very manly.

During the period of building a house, Daxiu often helps her brother-in-law, who often plays jokes with her and buys materials. Brother-in-law with a big show. Even if she goes to a nearby town to buy materials, Daxiu always dresses up and goes out in her brother-in-law's car. Those who don't know praise the boss's wife for being beautiful, and the boss will make money.

A man who often walks outside often smears oil and honey in his mouth, and often shows off his jokes, which is something she never felt before when Xiaojiang He was together.

Not surprisingly, when the house was built, the gossip came out. The villagers talked behind their backs, saying that Daxiu was having an affair with his brother-in-law, and was found by a fellow villager and saw them coming out of a hotel in the county.

When Xiao Jiang knew about it, he clamored for a divorce. But when he looked at his son and the big show, his heart melted. Instead, I beg Daxiu not to associate with her brother-in-law, which is not good for everyone.

Some things, the first time there will be countless times, Xiao Jiang had to play dumb and ignore them.

There are more and more people talking in the village. Xiaojiang rented a house in the city with Daxiu on the grounds of sending his children to school.

When they arrived in the city, several men working in the village heard about the drama and went to Xiaojiang's house for dinner. Of course, they buy enough wine and meat every time.

Daxiu talked and laughed with them and secretly had an affair with two of them.

And these things spread from the city to the countryside, and their wives made a special trip to the county to find the big show theory.

It is true to love beauty, but it is inevitable to attract bees and butterflies by wearing heavy makeup and dressing up carefully every day.

Of course, it doesn't mean that a woman who loves to dress up will attract bees and butterflies.

However, if you have something to do, you should make up every day. Unless it is a woman's job and has special requirements for image, it will easily attract men's attention, strike up a conversation and deliberately create more opportunities for intimacy. Even if you don't have those thoughts, it will affect the feelings of two people.

In addition, it is no problem to paint a light makeup on weekdays, which is in line with your living or working environment. It is also necessary for relatives and friends to get together and freshen up.

However, heavy make-up and dressing up are incompatible with the living environment and are not suitable.