Is belonging more important or feeling more important?

Love is the supreme person, despising material considerations, while realists lament that bread can fill the stomach. How to strike a balance between material and emotion and establish a positive and healthy view of marriage and love? In fact, the most fundamental reason for this problem lies in the proper collocation.

"Suitability" is the material basis of marriage and the emotional basis for the continuation of love. Emotionally, only men and women with similar growth experiences will have the same values and will have the feeling of playing the piano and singing. It seems vulgar that "the door is right", but it is actually the touchstone to test the quality of life. Imagine that young men and women who worry about their livelihood all day can easily fall in love? Definitely not.

Recently, the news that supermodel Ming Xi gave birth to a grandchild for the gambling king was the big news that the entertainment media rushed to report, but then it was revealed that all the children in Ming Xi were discharged from the hospital and were still living in the hospital, and then it was revealed that Ming Xi had just returned to work to make money less than half a month after giving birth. If this is true, I have to sigh that this file is also true for Xi Guifei. Ming Xi's marriage with a rich family is full of twists and turns. She was five months pregnant when she proposed, and the proposal was simple and low-key. As we all know, Ming Xi was still working during her pregnancy. When she was exposed to produce photos, she looked haggard. On the contrary, Guo Jingjing, the diving queen, got married and the photos of her children were exquisite. Her husband Huo's words are full of love for his wife.

Guo Jingjing married into a rich family and was very popular. That's because Guo Jingjing is a unique world champion. There can be many rich families, but few world champions. Guo Jingjing's own conditions are suitable for her family, while Ming Xi is not famous except for her famous fall. If all that happened in the gambling king's house later is like this, it can only cheer for Ming Xi, because China people have attached great importance to this matter since ancient times, especially the wealthy families. Perhaps in this case, it is very necessary for Ming Xi to continue his career and work hard, instead of becoming a huge fertility machine!

In fact, we all know that sweet love may only be a matter for two people, but marriage is a matter for two families. In the real secular life, material is often above emotion. If you can't "match", couples will only face more and more practical problems after marriage. Therefore, "matching" has a considerable auxiliary effect on marital happiness. A suitable family is also related to the happiness index of both men and women in marriage. Mutual equality and mutual respect are the comfortable foundation of all happy marriages. If only one party keeps accommodating the other for the sake of marriage, or loses himself for the sake of a so-called rich marriage, such a marriage is unhappy.

Of course, "appropriate collocation" not only means material equivalence, but also emotional collocation is essential. Therefore, if a woman wants to marry into a rich family and have a rich marriage, she must think about her own conditions. In fact, to put it bluntly, if she wants to marry into a giant, it is better to strive to become a giant and become a giant. This is the greatest confidence and capital of a woman's life happiness!