As a supervisor, how can I be serious and relaxed?

First of all, we must know who is the leader and who is singing the leading role. If you and the supervisor * * * accompany the guests to dinner, the attitude of the guests determines everything at this time, and the guests like to be lively. You might as well be active and adjust the atmosphere. The supervisor also appreciates such people. If the guest is serious, don't talk too much and try to leave the words to the supervisor. If there are no guests, accompany the supervisor for dinner or dinner. At this time, the leader is the supervisor. According to his hobby, he likes to be lively and approachable. Even if he pretends to be approachable, you can still talk and laugh. As long as we don't go out of line, expose the shortcomings of the leaders and embarrass them, there will be no problem. If he is serious, he regards the dining table as a meeting room to give you lessons, or the office as a stage to show off his power and prestige, then you regard it as a meeting room or an office. Don't talk, don't talk. If you let him play alone enough, it's over. Just be a monkey, and then you can organize your own dinner and chat. It must be stressful to be with the supervisor, because he is directly responsible for your work, not only the one with boiled pork slices in front of you, but also the one you took home with bacon. In addition, the supervisor has the responsibility to supervise the work of his subordinates. This responsibility keeps all supervisors from separating the inside and outside of the eight hours, so you are right to be under pressure, so that you can be consistent in front of the supervisors within eight hours, otherwise you will be in danger.