End a wrong love (the end of any relationship)

Some people say: "The end of any relationship is by no means accidental, maybe it's a long-term boredom, maybe it's the suffering of people living far apart."

When a relationship started, I always thought it would last forever. When the relationship ended, I found that it was only about a year, or three or five years.

Love is like this, it happens quietly and disappears quietly, making people in it happy and heartbroken.

The person who thinks he loves deeply is constantly disappointed, unable to continue to love, and can only choose to let go.

The man who thought he would grow old together lost his courage and chose to end up in cold and lonely suffering.

Maybe, when you love, you really loved, but in the end, there is only one choice.

In Yi Shu's novel "People are as Light as Chrysanthemum", Joe said to Jiaming, "Do you believe in fate? I flew thousands of miles to find him, and now I have left silently. I didn't come for a reason, nor did I leave for a reason. He only owes me these days. I only owe him these days. "

"He" in Joe's mouth refers to Billner Van Gogh, a professor during Joe's study in England. Joe admires him very much and of course likes him.

Joe returned to Hongkong after graduation, but because he missed Professor Billner Van Gogh, he stayed for a while and then returned to England. In England, after she met Billner Van Gogh again, they got together.

Professor Bill is many years older than Joe. Of course, he has a family, a wife and children. Later, Professor Bill said that he was willing to divorce for Joe. In fact, he just said that he didn't have the courage to do so, but Joe believed it. Later, when Joe learned the truth, he left Professor Van Gogh in Billner.

She said she was tired when she left.

Although Joe always thinks that having him in her life is enough, other people and things are not important. She loved him and thought she would always love him like this, but the problems around her still made her feel very tired and she let go.

Of course, even if she doesn't let go, Billner Van Gogh will let go, because he won't give up everything for Joe, and Joe doesn't want to wait any longer. Although she thinks she can do it, she can't.

Finally, Joe said, "At the beginning, Bill and I were really high-spirited, but we couldn't stand the test of time."

Of course, the relationship between Joe and Bill was inappropriate and wrong from the beginning. However, people always think that they can ignore those and think that love can overcome everything, but it is not. If this relationship is unhappy or unhappy, then it will not last long, and it will end after a short period of happiness.

The affection between Joe and Billner Van Gogh has come to an end, because the affection between them is not as strong as they imagined, but rather the lack of love.

Any relationship ends for a reason, but the reasons may be different, but after all, it is either not love or tired.

She told Chen that she was willing to give Chen time to forget that person, but Chen told Luo Zijun that he was hopelessly in love with another person.

At that moment, Luo Zijun obviously knew that this relationship was coming to an end. Because Chen once said that sentence to her, she also heard it, but before Chen, she was the one who was hopelessly in love with her, but now it is someone else.

People are generally so cruel. When they love, they will give you everything. When they don't love, they will tear you to pieces. But, no love, it's all over. Luo Zijun knew at that moment that the two of them could not go back.

Some people say, if life is like the first time, how good would it be?

However, life will never be the same, unless you meet that person and there is no intersection, then your memories can stay at the first moment, every memory. However, when people recall the same person with different feelings, they often have different feelings about the same thing.

It can be seen that people are so easily influenced by feelings, and feelings are so elusive.

But I always believe that as long as love is sincere, no matter what the outcome, there should be no complaints.

As Joe later recalled her days with Professor Billner Van Gogh, "I don't regret being with Billner Van Gogh for two years. This is love, real love. Now, I am very happy. I seem to be a person without complaints. "

Of course, Joe knows that their feelings are inappropriate, but because she really loved them, she has no regrets.

Of course, I'm not here to advocate that people start an inappropriate and immoral relationship. I just want to express that if the feelings are sincere, there is no need to regret them.

Some feelings are doomed to be fruitless, such as those between Joe and Professor Billner Van Gogh.

Some people may love and not love, some people may be tired of love, some people may feel that they can't love, and some people may not love for some practical reasons.

For whatever reason, once it's over, it's time to put it down. The past is the past.

Because the end of any relationship is not accidental, it has its reasons. In this case, don't be persistent, put it down.

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