How to live in harmony with your mother-in-law after marriage?

I think maybe every girl will be upset, and it will be a bit embarrassing to integrate into another family after marriage, and I don't know what to do.

Moreover, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has never been broken since ancient times, so I think this is a headache for many girls. How to solve the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and how to get along with mother-in-law?

First of all, I don't think you should take what your mother-in-law does for granted, and you can't think that you will become their nanny after you get married, and then you will never take yourself seriously again.

I just don't think you can treat your mother-in-law as your own mother, because your mother can say anything when she is angry, and her temper can be anything. You may be unscrupulous and omnipotent at home, but as long as you are in her mother-in-law's place, you must be cautious, that is, you can't indulge yourself too much.

Then in the place where your mother-in-law lives, you must never order your husband to do so, and then you must not yell at him, because your husband was brought up by your mother-in-law, and it will definitely be a little uncomfortable to see you scold him. Then you may have a particularly big contradiction because of such a thing, so I think we should pay attention to this aspect.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really difficult to deal with, so I think we should pay attention after marriage. Try to communicate and solve any problems, and don't quarrel. Then, no matter what you say, try to have a good tone and attitude, and don't give people the impression that you are particularly fierce, and then your speech is particularly ugly.

It is not easy for every girl, because she has to leave her home where she has lived for decades, go to another family, integrate into their lives and follow their living habits. I think it's still quite difficult, so I think all men should be kind to their wives, because after all, she has made great sacrifices to be with you.