How do parents feel when they don't remember their birthdays?

There is a sense of loss, but it's nothing to get used to.

My parents hardly remember my birthday. When I was a child, because my family was poor, my parents basically worked outside. They are so busy and careless that they can't remember these trivial things, so my grandparents will remember my birthday. Every time my birthday is approaching, they will call my parents to remind them. Then I listened to them on the other end of the phone and suddenly lamented that time passed so quickly. They always felt very lost because they seemed to be ignored. When I was a child, I felt a strong sense of loss, probably because my expectations were too high.

However, if I got used to this kind of thing, I wouldn't have such a strong sense of loss. Maybe it's because I have grown up and can understand my parents. After all, although they don't remember my birthday, they gave me the best. So, even if they still don't remember my birthday, I won't feel so sad. Plus, I can buy a favorite cake by myself, and I can also play the coquetry with them and let them buy me a gift as compensation for not remembering my birthday. It feels good. Of course, there will still be a faint sense of loss in my heart. After all, being born in Japan is a day of expectation.

In short, I will definitely feel a little lost, wronged and sad. Not only I but also my parents. Maybe our family is people who don't know a certain date. My parents don't remember my birthday. Similarly, it is hard for me to think of their birthdays. I remember one birthday, my mother saw photos of her children's birthdays sent by friends of the same age in a circle of friends. At that time, her birthday was approaching, but I completely forgot it. She reminded me very grievance, but I still didn't remember. She was angry with me for a long time. In fact, people are generally so eager to be loved and cared for, especially on the special day of birthday, which always makes people want more. Once they fail to meet their expectations, they will be disappointed and sad.