I broke up with my ex-girlfriend for more than three years. He was my first love. We were together for more than one year, and then we got engaged, and then we got divorced. I just sent this to her.

the past is the past, even if you can't let it go, you can't forget it, it's just the past.

after all these years, you have your own family, and he may have his own family. Do you think it's really appropriate for you to bother him now?

Some things need to be treasured in your heart forever, such as first love. Everyone's first love, whether good or bad, is unforgettable. This is human nature, but you should learn to control yourself. Have you ever wondered what he would think if you suddenly sent him these things?

Maybe he finally let you go and had his own happiness, but this message you have now may remind her of her past memories. You should know that your first love parted ways in the end, so no matter how happy the original process was, it was unfortunate.

do you really have the heart to remind her of those things? Maybe you think it's nothing for you to do these things, but you just want to have a chat with him. You have not wronged your family or disturbed him, but in fact, your behavior is really selfish. You not only betrayed your family to a certain extent, but also may disturb her happiness.

You still have your first love in your heart. Now you are so crazy to find some information about your first love, and you are already very sorry for your wife. Now you have to contact your first love. Do you think you are worthy of your wife?

think about it the other way around. If your wife is obsessed with her first love and has been looking for all the information about her first love, what will happen to you now? Don't tell me that you don't care at all, and you will understand him generously. If so, it can only prove that you never loved him from beginning to end.

if you feel that you have wronged her in the past, don't you think you are adding a mistake to it if you bother her now? Why can't you miss him alone and silently, or remember? Why do you have to contact him to remind him of your relationship?