A sign that your relatives look down on you

Suggestions that your relatives look down on you include interfering in your family affairs and not looking at you seriously.

1. Interfere with your family affairs: Every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite. It is normal for conflicts to occur in a family. At this time, you need to solve it yourself behind closed doors instead of asking others. Relatives say that good relatives will advise you to stay calm, but some relatives are afraid that the world will not be chaotic and will go directly to your home to interfere with your family affairs.

2. Not looking at you seriously: Relatives should keep in touch with each other more often, and provide help when encountering difficulties. This is a good thing, but some relatives always look at people through the cracks in the door and look down on others. Afraid you'll get something from them. When you go to help a relative, it's just out of good intentions, but the other person thinks you are profiting from it. Even if you help, it's just a warm face on a cold butt.

How to deal with relatives who look down on you

1. Stay calm: First of all, we must stay calm and not be irritated by the words or attitudes of relatives. Their contempt may stem from various reasons, such as misunderstanding, prejudice, jealousy, etc. We do not need to be angry or inferior to them for their attitude.

2. Communication and understanding: If possible, we can try to communicate with relatives to understand their opinions and concerns about themselves. If their point of view is wrong, we can explain and clarify it, and if their point of view is true, we can think of ways to improve our own.

3. Keep a distance: If the contempt of relatives has caused great harm to our psychology, we can consider keeping a certain distance. This does not mean that we should alienate relationships, but that we should control the frequency and depth of interactions to avoid further harm to ourselves.