Revisit "Parents' Love": When you are young, you don't understand the meaning of the song, but when you understand it, you are already the person in the song.

I first came across "Parental Love" a few years ago. At that time, I was still young and newly married. I always feel that the love between Jiang Defu and An Jie is not romantic enough. The two people have too different backgrounds, living habits, and education levels. They also had many stumbling blocks and frequent quarrels after marriage. It cannot be considered a beautiful marriage. If it were not for the social and political environment at that time, Anjie would have lived a better life and had a more perfect marriage.

Revisiting "Parental Love", I am already a mother of two children. Now, I slowly begin to understand that romance is an illusion, and daily necessities are life. A perfect marriage should be more about mutual loyalty, mutual understanding and tolerance. These are the energy that keeps love going. It turns out that in this life, it is already very happy to be able to go through love and marriage together like Jiang Defu and An Jie.

Anjie loves to be clean, so Jiang Defu becomes a "three-wash husband"; Anjie has a bad temper, but Jiang Defu endures it and tries to find ways to resolve her temper; when Anjie gets along with his sister-in-law Jiang Dehua, Jiang Defu keeps living Anjie is not used to the public toilets on the island, so Jiang Defu built a toilet for her in the yard; Anjie loves to drink coffee, and Jiang Defu brings her a bag every time she comes back from a meeting; Anjie is sick, and Jiang Defu stays by the bed and refuses Leave until she wakes up...

? Jiang Defu treated him to a treat, and An Jie gave him enough face; Jiang Defu's relatives came one after another and refused to leave. Although An Jie was extremely reluctant, he tried his best. Cooperate; Jiang Defu is transferred to the island, and An Jie follows him, preferring to become an ordinary housewife; Jiang Defu faces returning to the countryside, but An Jie never abandons him; when he learns that Jiang Defu is ill, An Jie trots all the way like crazy, regardless of the fact that he is still wearing high heels...

Their marriage is not without its crises, such as Teacher Xia and the female secretary. However, the appearance of a third party is just a flash in the pan, making the two jealous of each other and deepening each other's feelings again. emotion.

He gives him enough security, and she gives him enough support; he understands her, and she warms him; he recognizes her, and she follows him. Their life was uneventful. Although there were small episodes one after another, they walked through it together hand in hand, and this is how they grow old.

Now I finally feel: their love is ordinary but extraordinary.

The way An Jie and Jiang Defu grow older reminds me of my grandparents. But in this life, grandparents are not as happy as Jiang Defu and An Jie.

When I first came across "Parental Love", my grandma was still alive. Grandma's family was in good condition, and she was pampered when she was a widow because her father was a small landowner. Later, her father passed away and her family fell into decline. My grandfather’s family is a poor farmer, but my grandfather’s father is very capable and a model worker. Grandpa was also young and promising, and was once a prominent figure in eight villages across the country. Maybe it was because of family background that my grandma married my grandpa.

Grandma loves to be clean, a bit like Anjie. For as long as I can remember, she has combed her hair neatly every day without a stray hair; she has worn her clothes snugly without any wrinkles; she has kept the house spotless with no trace of mess; she has complained every day that her grandfather does not love her. Clean, didn't pull down a day.

And grandpa always let him toss and manipulate me, let him complain and nag, and looked at me with a smile, as if he was laughing at himself, without any complaints.

Dad said that when my grandparents were young, they often quarreled and quarreled. Grandma is unreasonable and unforgiving, grandpa is young and energetic, grandma feels it is wrong to marry grandpa, and grandpa feels that grandma is being too overbearing. After many years of marriage, when their three sons and one daughter grew up, got married and had children, they began to live in peace.

When I rewatched "Parental Love", my grandma had passed away. Grandma suffered from severe cerebral thrombosis and was paralyzed in bed all year round. She could not take care of herself and could only eat liquid food and needed to be fed. When my grandma was seriously ill, my grandpa insisted on taking care of her, regardless of his age. He wiped her whole body with trembling hands every day. He pretended to be relaxed and talked to grandma about the family's shortcomings. He reminded my dad to help grandma up every day and let her look out the window. world.

When grandma was seriously ill, grandpa often cried alone behind his back. In his own way, he accompanied his grandma through the last days of her life.

Grandpa said that he regretted that he always quarreled with his grandma when he was young. They had lived together for fifty years and spent more than half of their days in quarrels. Why didn't he give in to her? Grandpa said, grandma loves to be clean, why didn’t he follow her earlier? Grandpa said that grandma was not in good health. Why was he so careless and didn't take her to the hospital earlier? Grandpa said that grandma had been clean all her life, but she collapsed on the bed before she left. She wanted her to be clean.

When my grandma passed away, I had just given birth to a child and was not able to see her for the last time. I sat alone for a long time, letting my tears run rampant, looking at the child sleeping soundly next to me, and thinking about so many things.

The road of life can be long or short. You never know which will come first, tomorrow or the accident. Life is dull, and having someone to have breakfast with you every day is also a blessing. It is the happiest thing to have someone to grow old with you and see your children and grandchildren.

Cherish your current life, cherish your loved ones around you, understand and tolerate each other more, care and communicate more, be more responsible and loyal, and our marriage will also become the "parental love" in the eyes of our children. .