"For the rest of my life, be a complete girl" Then, learn to live and love

The most touching thing about a girl with all five poisons is her independent values. Independent thinking ability. Unique lifestyle. Unique charisma. Also loves reading.

In fact, Wudu is a practice with no end point. It is a process, not a goal.

In the five parts of this practice, there are some scenery that must be picked up, and then, learn to live and learn to love.

1. An independent girl knows how to give.

Why is independence important?

When I was in high school, my Chinese teacher told us that Hu Shi said in his speech at Peking University:

You said you want to fight for freedom. Freedom is for external constraints, and independence is for you. If you are free but not independent, you are still a slave. To be independent, we must not blindly follow others, not be deceived, not rely on the portal, and not rely on others. This is the spirit of independence.

This passage is very simple and very profound. Just like adolescent children, they yearn for an unfettered life, but that is not yearning for independence; many adults live as they please, which is not an independent life. The crux is that they are afraid of hardship, but want to be free.

If a young girl who has not yet entered society and has tasted the various aspects of the world wants to be free, she must understand that dignity and confidence are earned by herself.

The formation of independent values ????often depends on whether you are willing to endure some hardships, and then you must be able to understand a truth:

Paying may not be rewarded immediately, but if you don’t pay, you will definitely There is no reward, all your efforts will eventually become your blessing.

2. An independent girl will know better how to love and be loved.

American psychotherapist Parker once said:

One of the important characteristics of love is that neither loving nor being loved is an accessory to the other. People who give true love should always regard the object of love as an independent individual and always respect the independence and growth of the other person.

Whether you are loving someone or being loved, the saddest thing is to become an accessory of feelings.

Life is long, so be sure to find a partner who respects you and appreciates your independence, not a man who acts as your rib. As the saying goes, a woman is a man’s rib, but can the rib live alone without the body?

Respect yourself and others, and don’t be too proud. It’s not easy for a person to meet someone who treats you well in this life, so you must cherish it and don’t try to make him submit to you. Compare your feelings to yours, so that you can last forever.

People, it is most taboo to fall in love regardless of self-esteem on the days when struggle is most needed. The most regrettable thing is that in middle age when it is most necessary to maintain a youthful mentality, you are completely committed to marriage.

No one who truly loves you will choose to make you lose yourself, and no one who understands love is willing to abandon his soul for you.

3. An independent girl will understand life better.

When my sister first went to Shanghai, she had to take care of herself. She had never really lived alone in a strange city, which made her very panicked during that time.

She said that she was very confused during that time and had not had a good meal or seen the city well.

One day, she told me that she suddenly figured it out because she saw a passage from the year of Qi Jin on Weibo:

I went to the living room to arrange the table and looked around. This rented residence has a small living room, a bedroom, a kitchen and a bathroom. It is small and exquisite, has all the necessary features, is considered clean, and is full of life. I imagine the wealth and loneliness of a person living here, and the triviality and sweetness of two people living here

It turns out that although you will endure hardships and feel stressed when you go out alone, as long as you have the right mentality I understand that everything I do is for a promising future. If I suffer a little today, I may taste a little sweetness tomorrow.

A rented cabin can also be very cozy. If you don’t have much time to cook, you can also give yourself some color occasionally.

Well, this is her who can’t cook, but her cooking is super exquisite.

I asked her when she started to like cooking.

She said that independence is to enjoy life better and understand life, isn't it?

4. An independent girl knows how to be herself.

A girl in the background asked me: If you work hard, but in the end you still can’t become a very powerful person, and you will lose many friends, then you shouldn’t work so hard.

Dear, you have to know that even if you muddle along every day, you and your friends will not be really close, and you will also lose many friends. Most of them will not choose to take them with them when they are developed. You prosper together because you have not helped them. When they are in decline, because you have not worked hard, you may not be able to help these friends you want to keep.

Therefore, your independent struggle and enduring some loneliness are the best choices for others and yourself.

Zhang Haochen has a very good saying:

Someone lights up the world for you, someone removes the dust in your heart. The more independent we are in our hearts, the more important people will be. few. You are not sure when you will lose them. The only thing you can do is to be better to those who are still around you and endure the dullness and excitement of life.

Although the sparrow is small, it has all the internal organs.

As for, if you can't become a powerful person, then just be yourself, and then be an ordinary person worthy of being loved in life.

5. Independent girls will become their own queens.

In fact, there is no need to discuss the Wudu separately. They are just crushed and integrated into every part of life.

Just like your life, work, and love, you all need to have independent values, thinking, and lifestyle coordination, and then slowly acquire your own unique charm. During this period, you really need to read a lot Learn to summarize books, whether they are classics, movies, or any fragments of information, they can enrich your soul.

Finally, to borrow a sentence from Zhang Xiaoxian:

Love him well, and then live a good life. What keeps a person is never humbleness, but living an outstanding and independent life. . Try to be a woman that anyone would love to fall in love with.

For the rest of your life, be an independent girl, strive to be the queen who understands love, understands life, works hard, is her own queen, becomes her own great supporter, and then be independent and at ease, okay? Inspirational sentences about the class: Learn to live and learn to learn

1. Be a capable person and don’t let laziness hurt you tomorrow.

2. Use lines and colors to draw the most glorious life.

3. Details determine success or failure, and attitude determines everything.

4. Scores create brilliance, and sweat condenses strength.

5. Good methods will get twice the result with half the effort, and good habits will benefit you for life.

6. The edge of a sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold.

7. There is no limit to the sea of ??learning that can be crossed by diligence, and there are thousands of people who can climb the mountain of knowledge.

8. Attitude determines height, thinking determines the way out, and details determine destiny.

9. Do what you need to do first, and then do what you like.

10. Create the best class and be the best version of yourself.

11. Great ambitions begin in high school, and a brilliant life begins today.

12. Determination should be strong but not sharp, and it will take a long time rather than haste.

13. Be civilized, courteous, hardworking, and strive to do your best every day.

14. Sweat feeds hope, and struggle determines destiny.

15. The child is determined to leave his hometown, and he vows not to return until he succeeds in his studies.

16. Life may not be spectacular, but it should be loud and clear.

17. If you are confident that you will live two hundred years, you will be like the water hitting three thousand miles.

18. Aspirations should be based on true character, and studying requires hard work.

19. Don’t make excuses for failure, look for reasons for success.

20. One step, two steps and three steps to improve step by step, one day, two days and three days.

21. There is nothing but diligence in writing and writing, and there is aspiration to guide the boat and learn in the sea.

22. Rigorousness replaces looseness, action replaces desire.

23. Good work comes from hard work, but waste comes from play; success comes from thinking, and failure comes from following.

24. Competition is not about who works harder, but who works harder.

25. Although it is hard work, it will turn into gold after repeated hard work.

26. Details determine success, and every drop creates brilliance.

27. We work tirelessly for our dreams.

28. Hard work creates miracles, and struggle creates brilliance.

29. Learn to live, learn to learn, and challenge yourself until you succeed.

30. Determined to live long in Tsinghua University, only through hard work can we clear the lake.

31. I will not stop studying at Tsinghua University, and my heart will become a magnetic needle.

32. Eat the hardships of a lifetime today, and enjoy the happiness of three years later.

33. The end of failure is, the end of hard work is glory.

34. Decide everything, habits make the future.

35. The weak wait for the opportunity, the strong wait for the opportunity, and the wise wait for the opportunity.

36. The dragon sings in the eight continents to achieve great ambitions, and the phoenix dances in the nine heavens to achieve great ambitions.

37. Those who achieved great things in ancient times not only had extraordinary talents, but also had perseverance.

38. Be a strong person and don’t let today’s laziness become tomorrow’s pain.

39. Good habits make a person’s life, but bad habits ruin his future.

40. But accumulate over time and gain from the small things; don’t look around and focus on yourself.

41. Ten years of loneliness in the cold window, happiness will follow once you become famous.

42. Although the matter is small, it will not be achieved if it is not done; although the road is short, it will not be accomplished if it is not accomplished.

43. If you don’t accumulate small streams, you won’t be able to become a river or a sea; if you don’t accumulate small steps, you won’t be able to reach a thousand miles.

44. Those who sow with tears will surely reap with smiles.

45. Don’t make excuses for failure, look for reasons.

46. A person’s life is long, but there are only a few key steps.

47. Knowledge alone is not enough, you must also apply it; desire alone is not enough, you must also act.

48. Attitude determines everything, and habits determine the future.

49. Today’s efforts will lead to tomorrow’s strength.

50. How many times can we fight in life? If we don’t fight today, then when will we fight?

51. After ten years of being unknown to anyone, he becomes famous all over the world.

52. The end of failure is success, and the end of hard work is glory.

53. Hard work creates strength, and attitude determines height.

54. Tomorrow comes tomorrow, and there are so many tomorrows. I was born to wait for the bright moon, and everything will be wasted.

55. To achieve great things, do small things first.

56. Habits change destiny, details create life.

57. Whenever something important happens, the mind must be calm. When calm, the gods will suddenly be relieved.

58. Mentality determines destiny, confidence leads.

59. Although it is hard work to search for thousands of pounds, you can only reach the seal after blowing all the yellow sand.

60. Hard work creates brilliance, and status determines destiny.

61. Life rehearsal, live broadcast every day.

62. Sow life and reap habits; sow habits and reap character; sow character and reap destiny.

63. The great things in the world must be done in detail; the difficult things in the world must be done in easy ways.

64. A gentleman who is strong in the sky will strive for self-improvement; a gentleman who is kun in the land will be virtuous.

65. Hard work every second, diligence creates genius; accumulation of strength, strength creates brilliance.

66. Small things make big things happen, details make perfect.

67. Those who do not have strong ambitions will not be wise, and those who do not believe in their words will not achieve results.

68. You should know that learning is difficult and only depends on your hard work.

69. Literature comes from diligence, and high scores come from hard work.

70. Actions speak louder than words, transcend yourself, knowledge enlightens wisdom.

71. My heart is like a magnetic needle, and I will not stop until I study at Tsinghua University.

72. There is a road to Qingxiao that must be reached eventually, and I will never return without a name on the golden list.

73. Persistence with diligence will bring prosperity and prosperity.

74. I will keep moving forward in my ambition; the more I get frustrated, I will become more courageous and keep trying.

75. I am confident that I am outstanding, I work hard and I will succeed.

76. After the rainbow, success is in the details.

77. A clear conscience, fearless confidence, invincible perseverance, youth and no regrets.

78. Be determined but not sharp. Success is long-lasting but not quick.

79. Use habits and wisdom to create miracles, and use ideals and confidence to gain motivation.

80. Learn through hardship and practice diligently; don’t be afraid of shallow knowledge or short-term ambition.

81. Work hard in minutes and seconds, and harvest in details.

82. Inspiration illuminates life and entrepreneurial destiny.

83. Talent cannot be achieved without learning, and learning cannot be achieved without ambition.

84. Use habits and wisdom for miracles, and use ideals and confidence to gain motivation.

85. The weak wait for opportunities, the strong fight for opportunities, and the wise create opportunities.

86. Mentality determines destiny, confidence leads to success.

87. Every effort is the best closeness, and every drop of sweat is the moisture of opportunity.

88. It takes ten years to forge a sword, just to achieve perfection; once it is unsheathed, it will surely scream in the sky.

89. Inspiration illuminates life, and entrepreneurship changes destiny.

90. I am self-disciplined and confident. I can succeed if I don’t give up.

91. How can you get high marks in the exam without being chilled to the bone?

92. Young people work hard all their lives, and don’t waste time and effort.

93. There is no rehearsal in life, every day is a live broadcast.

94. The youthful heart of Peking University and Tsinghua University, the fragrance of flowers and the singing of spring things.

95. Defeat yourself and refuse to admit defeat, and show your skills in the college entrance examination.

96. Diligence and perseverance will bring prosperity and prosperity.

97. The revolution has not yet succeeded, and comrades still need to work hard.

98. If you don’t win the crown, you will never return it, even if you lose it, you will become haggard.

99. If you have to fight, you can win. If you have to fight, you can win.

100. Habits determine performance, details determine destiny.

101. Human life is long, but there are a few key steps.

102. If you don’t think twice about things, you will eventually regret them. People who can endure a hundred times will have no worries. Talk about learning to live alone

Before getting married, there must be a period of time that belongs to oneself. You can be alone, face yourself, learn to take better care of yourself, and learn more about living alone. , live in peace with your own loneliness and your own frustrations, and try to accept some people and look away from many things. Learn to look forward to life. This is probably the best state I can imagine.

Talk about learning to live alone

1. Some people still think that I am 17 or 18 years old. Do I look that young? It seems that I am really young, I am not in a hurry, I am not in a hurry, I really cannot be in a hurry. Learn to live alone quietly.

2. After all, you should learn to live alone, maybe you should go out for a walk alone. Cure your road-crazy problem. Maybe in the future, Daling, you will also understand where so much love comes from in real life. In life, after all, you have to find a suitable person to live with. After all, it’s just firewood, rice, oil and salt. In the future, Daling, maybe you will also begin to understand that girls, after all, have to find someone who loves them, rather than the life-and-death feeling of love.

3. I have given unreservedly, but I can't get your respect and love. I can't learn to be strong after so long. Learn to live alone from today, come on.

4. Learn to live alone, regardless of whether there is someone around you who loves you. Do what you should do, and treat it with or without love. Some things will be understood naturally when the time comes, so there is no need to get too entangled. The saddest thing is not that others offend you again, but that you always have trouble with yourself.

5. Learn to be self-respecting, self-loving, self-reliant and self-reliant when living alone.

6. Be a gentle woman and learn to live alone, no matter whether there is someone around you who loves you.

7. It’s time to set off, this time by myself. I'm not very happy, maybe because I'm not used to traveling by myself yet. But it doesn't matter, just as I slowly learned to live alone, I can also learn to travel by myself and my friends.

8. You are so old, and you still yearn for someone to share your joys, sorrows and joys. It is really too much. If you have anything to say, just don't say it and bury it in your heart. As time goes by, you will forget it. You have to learn to grow up, you have to learn to live alone.

9. When I grow up, I no longer need your love. I have learned to live alone, so I will not forgive anyone for betraying me.

10. If one person has reached Consummation, why does he need another one? Even if there are two circles with different circumferences, they will be thrown away sooner or later. Therefore, smooth your edges and corners, learn to live alone, don’t expect eternity, accompany you for the journey, and find a place to grow old alone. Life is a performance of one person, and it has always been.

11. Learn to live alone, regardless of whether there is someone around you who loves you. Do what you should do, and treat it with or without love. Good night, campus!

12. It always takes us a lifetime to learn how to live alone and how to become more independent. Learn to slowly leave the people we love and the people who love us.

13. People must grow up, learn to live alone, and have the ability to stand alone. I don’t know if I am becoming more independent or more guilty. After walking for so long, I find that the only person I can rely on is myself. Now I just want to do one thing, learn to live alone, whether there is someone around me who loves me or not. Do what you should do, and treat it with or without love. Along the way over the years, the people around me have changed one after another, and no one exists forever. Live hard and live freely. You will definitely have what you want, and work hard to make yourself better, from ability to appearance. Well, I’m another year older, so keep up the good work!

14. I fell at the bathroom door, my left knee was broken and bleeding, my toes were twisted, and I cried helplessly. I wanted to call my mother, but it was too late, and I was afraid that she would worry, so I held back. When I am sick and injured, I most want my mother to be by my side, and want to be coquettish to her, as if this will make the wound less painful. But after all, you have to learn to live alone. No one can stay with you forever.

15. It has been three years since I graduated. I have hardly thought about my college life, nor have I thought much about my friends scattered in various cities. The most profound experience I have gained in the past three years is to learn to live alone.

16. It’s time to learn to live alone, stop caring too much about others, and always grow up yourself~

17. Although everything is not yours Wrong, but everything is so cruel. You are already an adult. You can no longer lose your temper unscrupulously. You can no longer show your emotions on your face. You can no longer waste your years. You have to make more money on your own. Money, you have to know that staying up late is bad for your health, you have to learn to live alone, and you have to learn to deal with those annoying things after crying. You have to take on the responsibilities of an adult. Hope it doesn't take long for you to recover.

18. Learn to live alone, and occasionally learn to enjoy a life. Calm down and think about what you want, what you pursue, and what makes you happy! Born alone, learning to be happy alone is a kind of ability!

19. Let yourself live a wonderful life. You must learn to live alone, with love or without love. When you think gold is more important than face, it means you are mature. When you can use enough gold to buy When you return your favor, it means you are successful. Treat everyone calmly regardless of whether there is someone around you who loves you. This is something I would rather do without doing anything

20. I have already learned and got used to living alone, cooking alone, watching movies alone, making money alone, and living the life I like. , let go, forget, let go.

21. I will learn to be alone, learn to live alone, and go shopping alone. I will not deliberately look for friends who can be close to each other. I hope you will always be with me.

22. The days ahead are still long. You must learn to live alone, and live well.

23. Love is something that is better to be done in a short time than in a hurry. If there is love, treat it wholeheartedly. If there is no love, you can be alone. Learn to live alone, regardless of whether there is someone around you who loves you. Do what you should do. When fate arrives, reach out and grab it. Before fate arrives, let yourself live a wonderful life. It's not that fate will make life wonderful; it's that life that is wonderful will attract fate. Repost and share, live your life well, and wait for love!

Twenty-four, give it to yourself now. Lose fat, exercise, love yourself, learn to live alone, and travel light.

25. Very early and precocious children are very unhappy. It’s not that they are not happy, they are very unhappy. They learned to live alone or be alone very early, and then worked hard to grow up and move forward hard. , I have probably been alone since I was in high school. Loneliness has not dissipated for so many years. All the people around me who have been watching are passers-by. No one dares to approach easily. The so-called distance really hurts.

26. I abandoned the whole world’s advice to be with you. I thought we could get along with each other, but you ruthlessly let go of my hand. No matter how hard I try, I can’t get your persistence. , I will learn to live alone after you leave. I just hope that the reason why you left is not that you have a crush on someone else. At least you let me know that the person I once liked to the bone is not a scumbag.

27. I must learn to live alone and live well! No one can help you who are weak. Don't go to bed late or disturb anyone. Wait until dawn and continue to do what you need to do. Have you ever noticed that the people you miss most late at night are often the people you will never see again? Famous aphorisms for learning to survive

1. Friendship was like a bright light in my past life, illuminating my soul and giving my life a little brilliance. Ba Jin

2. People do not exist just for love; is the whole goal of a man to control a certain woman, and the whole goal of a woman is to control a certain man? Never! Herzen

3. Be prepared for danger in times of peace, avoid extravagance and be frugal. Wei Zheng's "Ten Thoughts on Admonishing Taizong"

4. There is no beginning for extravagance, and there is an end for failure. "The Book of Songs"

5. If a person has no long-term worries, he must have immediate worries. "The Analects"

6. The ultimate value of life lies in awakening and thinking, not just in survival. Aristotle

7. To be safe without forgetting danger, to survive without forgetting death, to govern without forgetting chaos. "Book of Changes"

8. To live or to die, that is the question. Shakespeare ( )

9. There are too many people to rely on. You have to rely on yourself to survive. Napoleon

10. The ultimate value of life lies in the ability to wake up and think, not just in survival. Aristotle

11. Reputation cannot be measured by money, it is a magic weapon for survival and development. Li Ka-shing

12. Hardships and hardships make you successful. Zhang Zai

13. If I can survive, of course I will still learn. Lu Xun

14. Don’t forget danger when you are safe, and worry about decline when you are prosperous. "Book of Han"

15. Worry and labor can rejuvenate a country, while leisure can destroy one's life. Ouyang Xiu

16. After all the luxury and success, there will be both happiness and peace. Wang Anshi