Thinking about the taxi driver’s detour incident

On May 1, 2021, I traveled to Wuzhen with my family. When I came back, I took a taxi from the scenic spot back to Hangzhou. My family drove by themselves and set off a little later than us. The driver who drove us didn't get on the expressway for a long time. He delivered something once and didn't communicate with us. Then he got on the expressway after driving for almost an hour. He contacted his family on the expressway and said he would be home in more than 20 minutes. , and we still had more than an hour left, I started to notice something strange. We set off first, and there was no traffic jam, why was it still more than 40 minutes late. I was a little unhappy. When the driver got off the highway, he made a phone call and missed the exit. Then he changed lanes and rushed out of the exit. To be honest, I felt nervous, but it was safe. When we finally arrived, I told the driver that you obviously took a detour and I couldn't pay you so much toll. When the driver said there was no detour, I got angry and said that the driver was hypocritical and bad. Then I called to complain and waited for feedback. My emotions were out of control and I was angry.

If you were me, would you be angry?

Or if the driver delivers the goods without communicating with you, will you question it?

Or when communicating with your family, do you immediately question the driver about taking a detour?

After returning home, I happened to see two teachers in the circle of friends who posted two similar comments about the anger of people getting along with each other: