How to overcome girlfriend's pre-marital phobia

Premarital phobia is a common problem whether it is between lovers who have been in love for many years or between lovers with relatively weak emotional foundation. Here I give some practical suggestions to the subject: first, communicate with my fiance more and express this problem in the hope of solving it; Second, keep a good attitude and don't worry too much; The third is to seek the help of a psychologist. After all, there are certain psychological problems, so it is reasonable to seek the help of a psychologist.

1, don't hide the problem in front of your fiance, which is not conducive to solving the problem. Tell the other person generously that he may be a little scared, uncertain about his marriage and worried about the future. He will certainly understand why you think so, and will try his best to dispel your worries and fears. And sometimes this kind of thing will be much better if it only needs a promise from the other party. Therefore, when there is a problem, communication is always the best way.

2, the fear before marriage is unconsciously felt, so we just regard it as a normal little emotion. Moreover, this kind of emotion is mostly temporary and will dissipate naturally soon. During this period, we must first be optimistic about our future life and family development; Secondly, we should keep trust in our marriage partners. The combination of two people must be based on trust. I believe you can create your own beauty together.

3. Psychologist is a relatively new profession, but psychological science is generally accepted. It should be advocated that people should seek the help of psychologists if they have psychological problems. We should also realize that seeing a doctor is more than just taking medicine and injections. Psychologists may know more about your problem and give you more practical advice.