Life is like a stage. You didn't know how great you were until the curtain call.

One of the greatest braveness in life is to keep trust and love after being cheated and hurt.

Don't think that there is something better behind, because what you have now is the best; Don't think that you can get married late just because you are young. Love age is different. Don't give up because the distance is too far, love can accompany you by train; Don't give up because the other person is not rich, as long as you are not incompetent, encouraging the other person can make you rich; Don't give up because outsiders object, happiness depends on your own heart.

There is no unfinished story in this world, only an immortal heart. In the emotional game between two people, it is not necessarily the winner who is finally tempted; And the last person to give up must be a loser.

Hunger can keep a clear head. Loneliness can restore the lack of humanity. Responsibility can solve all problems. Time can give all the answers.

Close your eyes and empty your heart. Let bygones be bygones.

I'm afraid I'm getting old, but I'm not afraid of the long road.

Life goes on.

As long as you don't want to, it is not the time to give up.

Many things look good; If you can't open it, you have to get through it. Don't think that you can't get through without opening your eyes.

Don't envy me, I have experienced it, and I am sure that if I know the inside story, no one in 10 thousand people would like to experience the same persistence and commitment.

The first sign of maturity is to learn to reduce illusions but keep hope, be kind to the present and still look forward to the future. A bright future will come, because you are piling up every perfect today.

Everyone who is really strong has to live without help and support. Everything is supported by oneself, and all emotions are only known to oneself. But as long as you bite the bullet, everything will be different.

Life is like a stage. You didn't know how great you were until the curtain call.

When you go to any stage of your life, you should like that period of time, complete the duties of that stage, let nature take its course, don't indulge in the past, and don't look forward to the future enthusiastically. Life is like this. No matter what kind of struggle and challenge we are experiencing, maybe we have only one choice: be happy despite the pain and believe in the future.

Don't buy useless things, no matter how cheap; Don't depend on people you don't love, no matter how lonely they are.

At the critical point of life and death, you will find that any overtime work, too much pressure on yourself, and the need to buy a house and a car are all floating clouds. Spend more time with your children when you have time, buy a pair of shoes for your parents with the money from buying a car, and don't try your best to change a big house. With the people who love each other, the humble abode is also warm. -Yu Juan's diary of life

From today on, smile every day, except for life and death, everything in the world is a small matter.

A woman becomes a yellow-faced woman prematurely, and her husband must not be a gentle and considerate good man; If a woman becomes a bitch soon after marriage, then her husband is definitely not a man with indomitable spirit.

If love is guarded by one party, no matter how difficult it is, it will always be separated by a wall.

If the wind and rain can't escape and can't escape, then face the confrontation directly and compete with the predicament with strength and will. We have no reason to complain, and the future will gradually become clear. After all, there will be more mud on the road. If you walk over, you will get sunshine. All growth and experience are a kind of happiness and pain. Encourage yourself to face the challenge bravely and make it the proudest chapter in your life.

Life is like a novel with no ending.

Life is like a novel with no ending.

1, you can't get away with anything. There will be no pie in the sky. It's a waste of time to say it. To put it bluntly is bullshit. I am also deeply confused about this. I always thought that without everything outside, I could be careless, have fantasies and have providence. Come back, my fruit. It's ridiculous to think about it now. Even if God's will is inviolable, it will never take care of you without your own efforts. And you, there is no providence at all, or your final result is providence.

2. When you listen to music quietly, you will find that there is a kind of hearing that is defective, because music lacks words, just like a person has lost his soul, which is a kind of lonely beauty. Music plus words will make people enter their dreams to enjoy and appreciate. So music and words add up to perfection. Because it is called a song.

People often ask such a question, what am I living for? In fact, this question is very simple. To live is to live, and there is no purpose at all. Of course, if you want to get a better experience or a better life, you should try to do something or enjoy something. Of course, when we think about these things, we are already alive.

4. Sticking to what is correct and reasonable will surely succeed, but sticking to mistakes without knowing it and not changing it will only ruin your reputation. Zhou Wang's enjoyment, the struggle between fish and people, Qin Ershi's extortion, tyranny is fiercer than tiger's, and the people are in dire straits, and finally they only end up in ruin.

The complexity of my family always makes it difficult for others to understand me, and no one will really understand me. I'm confused. I don't know what will happen if this continues. I am used to it myself, to numbness, to depravity, to entertaining myself and to living alone.

Living in reality, I should have learned it a long time ago. Whether reality will change everything is actually to change reality together. When one day, I no longer remember the pain of acacia, I no longer expect myself to be happy, but I don't live up to a life.

7. Life is like a novel with no ending. Next moment, you never know what will happen.

8. Happy people are flesh and blood, affectionate and righteous. You can live in a humble abode and eat steamed buns, but you will never get bored. He should be a simple-minded person with a simple life. Unfortunate people set up their own desires and luxuries, and half a shelf is exhausted. If you remain poor and simple, you can remain happy, and happiness is unstoppable.

9. I often sing about the wind and dust, and I look at the cold geese. Is there a kind of missing in the world that can not break my heart? In this life, will we all encounter inevitable doom, stare at each other for a moment, care about each other and meet each other, and open the incision from a certain moment. The equipment of the heart is simply self-defeating. If you cut yourself on the way of missing, you can only leave a sadness and spend it silently in silence.

10, what is the highest state of love? This is not a matter of life and death, it is a habit. A woman is used to a man's snoring, but she can never get used to it, and then she can't sleep without his snoring. This is love; Men are used to women's willfulness, even unreasonable, which is love; One person will change and accommodate for another. This is love. Love your lover as much as you can.

1 1. Emotion is a questionnaire with no answer. Hard pursuit does not make life more complete. Perhaps leaving a little regret, nostalgia and sadness will make this answer more meaningful and lasting.

You never know how strong you really are.

1. Dignity is such a thing, you have to have the power to defend it, otherwise, it will be a shameful life.

2. Life is a train to the grave, and there will be many stops on the way, so it is difficult to be accompanied from beginning to end.

The more I grow up, the more I feel that silence is better than telling grievances and unwillingness.

Sometimes alienation is not hate, but love and helplessness. I don't want to wait for failure with expectation, so I have to pretend to be generous and go first.

Life is not your mother, and I won't spoil you. So what if I cry? Dry your tears, stand up and keep running.

6. Bad luck is not terrible. What is terrible is that you still believe this sentence.

7. You will never know how strong you really are until one day you have no choice but to be strong.

8. When you are constantly worried, it means that you need to go out and see the world. See different scenery, meet different people and things, and you will know that your fault is to think too much.

9. If the heart is small, all the little things will be big; When the heart is big, the big things are small; Look down on the vicissitudes of the world and feel safe inside.

10. Don't argue with important people about unimportant things.

1 1. When you get through the hardest things, you are likely to become someone else.

12. If someone influences your emotions, your focus should be on controlling your emotions, not the people who influence your emotions.

13. I used to sleep too much, but now I can't sleep because of the environment, people, things and troubles.

14. We will think about what we are afraid of, and we will hear what we believe. What scares us is not the outside world, but our hearts.

15. Don't be a supporting role because of the twists and turns of life, and don't be an audience because of the ups and downs of the story.

16. If it's really hard, you don't have time to shout tired. If it's really hard, you have no time to feel ashamed. You have time to complain because you haven't suffered enough. There is always too much helplessness and regret in life, because this is life.

17. If you are in a bad mood, come back to me. I'll buy cigarettes, drink and find a place. Remember to come back to me.

18. Man, there is nothing to want, nothing to cherish, nothing to know until it is lost, and nothing to know can be recovered.

19. It's not that someone bothers me, but that I worry myself with someone's words and deeds.

20. it's okay. Everyone may experience some emotional breakdown or extreme moments, and they will overcome it.

2 1. Of all the relationships you want to cherish, just have a clear conscience. /Shu Ming/Qu Ming/

22. There is no need to take it seriously. Except for marrying you, people who say they like you and miss you are all false.

23. What is the concept of mouth shut? Maybe you said you were leaving. In fact, my tears are almost falling, but I still say get out.

24. Don't take yourself too seriously. In fact, many people don't need you.

25. I am afraid that I will still lose to the so-called novelty of company and dedication day after day. Do you find it ridiculous?

26. Sometimes your forgiveness and tolerance are the reasons for the other party to indulge again and again.

27. I am always here when you need me. I can't find you when I need you. Maybe what I want is different from what you gave me.

28. Anything can be simple if you want.

29. The flowers on the balcony withered, so I went to the nearby mountains to pick some beautiful ones. The cinema I used to go to was closed, so I went home and sat on the sofa watching my favorite old movies. Everyone who has been around has left, so they put aside the past and study hard to make money. There are thousands of ways to make yourself happy. Why not let go of dying memories? People will grow up, and things that were once regarded as treasures will gradually become indifferent, just as nothing is indispensable to you.

30. I often tell myself not to hang myself from a tree, and I get lost in the Woods.

3 1. I never hold grudges, but I usually report them on the spot.

I wanted to give the world a warm hug, but I was caught off guard by all directions.

33. How long life is just a story told by others.

34. The most regrettable thing in life is to give up what you shouldn't give up easily and stick to what you shouldn't insist on.

Don't tell others that you had a bad day, and don't say anything to others, because it's useless to say it.

36. Life is like riding a bike. Only by constantly advancing can we maintain balance.

37. Two people like each other because they are happy. If they are unhappy, they still want to be together. This is love.

38. Polite education is not only dry and thin, but also considerate and considerate of others. This test is not only emotional intelligence, but also your kindness.

39. The world is so imperfect that what you want is what you lose.

40. People always cherish what they don't get and forget what they have.

Life doesn't end with retirement.

Life doesn't end with retirement. Life doesn't end with retirement.

Work can be retired, but life can't be retired. After retirement, there will be no more nervous mood and busy figure, and there will be a complete relaxation in my mind. However, in a particularly relaxed environment, we can't really feel the beauty and value of life, just like many people are tired from work and always want to retire early and have a good rest. However, when they retire, instead of spending a lot of leisure time, they often want to find something to do.

In fact, many people who are particularly leisure after retirement do not feel the ease and happiness of life. In fact, nothing can go to extremes. Being too busy and tired will make people exhausted. Excessive laziness can also make a person's body and mind decline.

After retirement, when we feel that there is nothing to do, that is the beginning of our aging. Because a person is like a non-stop machine, it will be flexible and balanced during normal operation, but if it stops running for a long time or even stays idle, it will rust and even never start again.

Middle-aged and elderly people should pay special attention: you can retire from work, but not from life. You should find a more suitable lifestyle and enjoy the best time in your life. Life after retirement is truly their own. Middle-aged and elderly people should actively seek their new position and start a new life journey. As long as middle-aged and elderly people don't stop their wonderful life journey, they will never feel that life has stopped.

Another spring to release residual heat.

Retirement is the second spring of life, and it is also the spring of getting old and exerting residual heat. Retirement does not mean that the glory of life has disappeared. Many old people are using their own words and deeds to explain, in order to see all the glory of the sun, dusk is more beautiful. Cao Cao's old horse is full of lofty sentiments, and the martyrs are full of high spirits in their later years, which is a model in the ancient history of China. Many retired old people give full play to their special skills when their bodies permit, and join in social work again, which not only enriches their retirement life, but also serves the country.

In today's knowledge-based economy and the concept of knowing yourself and yourself, the world's top 500 enterprises attach great importance to hiring all kinds of middle-aged and elderly people with expertise. In China, middle-aged and elderly people have attracted widespread attention, and the market for middle-aged and elderly people is in the ascendant. Gorky once said that the death of a middle-aged and elderly person is equivalent to the collapse of an exhibition hall.

Cicero, an ancient Roman writer, listed four reasons why the elderly were unhappy in his masterpiece On the Middle-aged and the Elderly. The first is that middle-aged and elderly people have given up their long-term careers. Once I quit my long-term career, I will suddenly feel a great sense of loss, thus destroying my vitality. Therefore, middle-aged and elderly people can give full play to waste heat according to their own conditions.

If you are a writer, you can also start writing; If you are an agricultural researcher, you can still deal with things related to plants; If you are a doctor, you can also study medicine to save lives.

In a sense, after retirement, your career will be broader and your life will not end.

After retirement

Walking on the street near the big food market, you can often see an old man riding a tricycle to collect junk. The old man used to be the deputy director of Dalian Building Materials Factory. After retiring, he felt restless and wanted to do something good for everyone. His home is very close to the big food market, so he took the initiative to come to the warehouse rented by the operator of the big food market and clean it for free. The big food market wanted to pay him a salary, but he didn't want it, so the security guard gave him junk like paper shell scrap iron and asked him to sell some money. From then on, he began to collect junk. He has a good reputation and ability, and gradually, the junk collection business is getting better and better, becoming a famous junk collection king in the community.

When many people met him, they all asked the same question: Don't you think the price has dropped from the leader of an enterprise to collecting junk now? He smiled and replied, at first, I was really embarrassed. Once, when I was collecting junk, I happened to see an old workmate. He asked me what I was doing. I blushed for fear of being looked down upon by others. Now I understand that no matter what kind of work, as long as it is good for the people, as long as you are happy.

The stage is in your heart.

Perform on the stage with your own script.

Society is a big stage, everyone is an actor on this stage, and an actor will not only play one role in his life. How to play each role well mainly depends on the actor's correct understanding and accurate grasp of the role change. Retirement is an important turning point in life and a major event that everyone will face today or tomorrow.

On this stage after retirement, middle-aged and elderly people may often feel that society has assigned them a role without scripts and lines. What to say and how to perform on the stage depends on their own self-writing, whether to write a tragedy or a comedy of life, and it depends on our own choice.

While other old people were walking, chatting and playing cards in the park, a teacher in his seventies in Quanzhou, Fujian Province, with a pen in his hand, began to write the script that was performed on the stage of life word by word.

From 65438 to 0998, after retirement, Mr. Lin's family moved from Zhangzhou, Fujian to Quanzhou. In the new environment, Mr. Lin found that the old people around him had little entertainment, and at most they just played mahjong together. Teacher Lin loves reading books and newspapers, so he came up with an idea: to write a magazine for the elderly, an entertaining and practical magazine for middle-aged and elderly people.

So from 1999, I began to subscribe to newspapers and magazines such as Straits Metropolis Daily and Quanzhou Evening News to extract useful information.

In 2002, Mr. Lin systematically sorted out the data accumulated in recent years, updated some outdated data and reduced the original longer data.

Now, Mr. Lin has sorted out more than 300 pieces of information with more than 600,000 words, covering population, economy, living standards, science and technology, life knowledge, medical care and so on.

On the stage where there is no life script, why are some actors excellent and others mediocre? The key is that excellent actors have their own life goals and are actively practicing them, so only actors without life goals don't know where their future lies.

After retirement, middle-aged and elderly people should have their own ideals, ambitions, hobbies and pursuits. Because a person with spiritual pursuit can really enjoy the happiness and happiness of life.

On the stage after retirement, middle-aged and elderly people might as well reposition themselves, find a role that suits them, give full play to their potential, and complete a high-level, high-quality and colorful drama by themselves.

Find your own role

Time flies, whether you like it or not, retirement is the way to go after all.

Nowadays, middle-aged and elderly people are no longer satisfied with their merits, food and clothing, but persistently pursue retirement. So how to actively find a new life orientation after retirement and let the sunset penetrate the old age?

1. Values should be reestablished.

A person's life is a series of intertwined processes, and the key lies in how to choose. When faced with many things, goals and actions that need to be chosen, they often face difficulties, and the choice and decision depend entirely on personal values. Therefore, to arrange a good life after retirement, we must first re-establish our own values, because values will affect behavior, and because social roles have changed, the value orientation of the elderly after retirement will also change.

Evaluate yourself accurately

You can accurately evaluate yourself according to your physical condition, thinking ability and mental state. Position yourself reasonably and strive for something, but don't try to be brave and win.

Keep childlike innocence

With childlike innocence, you will always smile and feel happy, thus promoting the central nervous system to be in good condition, the normal operation of the human biological clock, promoting the secretion and regulation of the endocrine system, avoiding the adverse stimulation caused by mental stress and anxiety, and enhancing the body's disease resistance.

Define your role

Some old people think that they have been busy all their lives, and they can finally bring up their children and have a successful career, so they can unload their burdens and stay at home; Some old people think that when they were young, they worked hard for their families and jobs and were busy for others all day. As for my own interests and preferences, I have to put them aside. After retirement, they chose to develop their hobbies at will, satisfy themselves and realize themselves. Some old people are full of energy, and with skills, they will not stay at home, but return to society, seek new jobs, make a difference in their later years, and exert their residual heat; Some old people are eager for knowledge, enter middle-aged and elderly universities, and continue to charge after retirement. At present, there are also retirement employment agencies in the society, and the elderly can make full use of them to find jobs that suit them.

Tang poetry enriches life.

Teacher Zhang takes care of her granddaughter after retirement. Taking care of my granddaughter is both a dedication and a pleasure. The grandparents and grandchildren are talking and laughing. They should go to the bookstore after a nap every day. In order to cultivate children's interest in reading, Teacher Zhang specially applied for a library card. At first, he mainly borrowed some books with fresh colors that children like, such as Three Thousand Questions of Naughty Blue Cat, San Mao's Wandering Story and Bedtime Story. Later, he bought some Tang poems and taught his granddaughter to recite them. Learning to recite, Mr. Zhang unconsciously became interested in Tang poetry. When I recited Tang poems at home, I went to the bookstore to copy different versions of famous Tang poems that were easy to recite. In the past few years, Mr. Zhang copied more than 2,000 Tang poems and recited hundreds.

Sometimes she walks under the trees by the roadside, sometimes she goes to the park to see flowers, and sometimes she walks by the river. She will be touched by the scene and recite several Tang poems aloud, which can not only express her ambition, but also deepen her impression of Tang poems. Sometimes she holds poetry meetings at home and competes with her wife to write poems, not for publication, but to exercise her brain and make her retirement more colorful in her later years. By learning to recite Tang poems, she realized a lot of philosophy of life, purified her soul and had endless fun.

Deduct the life of middle-aged and elderly people better.

There must be good intentions, and then an old man came and registered for the English class in the new semester.

The staff asked the old man: Do you register your children?

The old man replied: no, I want to learn by myself!

The staff asked curiously: How old are you today?

The old man smiled and said: 78 1

The staff said: You are so old. If you want to master English, I'm afraid it will take three years.

The old man said seriously, do you think I will be 75 years old in three years because I don't study?

Some people always want to learn something and do something after retirement, but they always think it is too late and have no time, so they give up their ideas. In fact, learning is a person's life's work. As the saying goes, everything is difficult at the beginning. When you really take the first step, everything will come naturally.

Reading can increase knowledge, cultivate temperament and find spiritual sustenance. It's wonderful to read a good book and feel the profound artistic conception in it. Reading can arouse the soul and is a three-dimensional aesthetic enjoyment.

Yuan Hongdao, a gifted scholar in the Ming Dynasty, said that only by giving human feelings can people be happy. So some people send chess, some people send skills, and some people send articles. It depends on personal hobbies and conditions. Reading, writing, painting, fishing, dancing, planting flowers, raising birds and other cultural activities are hobbies that cherish life and make a difference. They reflect the value of life from different angles and make the lives of middle-aged and elderly people more fulfilling and beautiful.

Only in this way can life be better.

Some middle-aged and elderly people always shut themselves up at home after retirement. In fact, middle-aged and elderly people can try to get in touch with people of similar age and feel very happy to communicate with others. In fact, it is not difficult to get out of the circle surrounded by yourself. As long as we do it from the following three aspects, middle-aged and elderly people will soon have many friends and make their lives better.

First, do something. There are many forms and contents of active aging, which can vary from person to person.

Old farmers can develop courtyard economy and cultivate mountain forests; Old workers can teach technology and serve the establishment of township enterprises; It is an act for old experts to accept re-employment by virtue of their expertise; It is an act for the old factory director and manager to be the staff and consultant of the enterprise leaders. It is an act for retired scholars to write books and make statements; It is also a meaningful behavior for middle-aged and elderly people to take care of housework for their children and grandchildren and support their children to struggle in their respective posts.

Secondly, learning is an ivy league that enriches the lives of middle-aged and elderly people. Being old and eager to learn will open the eyes of middle-aged and elderly people, open the door to loneliness and let the spirit lead to society and the world. Reading books at home, reading newspapers, watching TV, listening to the radio and browsing various news information online are common learning methods. It can open a window to the society, so that people can travel around the world without leaving home, understand the changes and judgments of history and society, and observe the rapid changes of modern politics, economy, science and culture every day. It's a good way to learn to go to middle-aged and elderly schools. In recent years, universities and schools for middle-aged and elderly people have been established all over the country. Most of the courses offered are actually needed by middle-aged and elderly people, including politics, economy, culture and art, as well as health care for middle-aged and elderly people.

Also, joy is a new song that arouses the hearts of middle-aged and elderly people. Middle-aged and elderly people have worked hard for their careers and families all their lives. They are often busy with labor and work, and have little time to learn the way of happiness. When you are old, you should broaden the source of happiness. As the saying goes, laugh for ten years. Life lies in sports, not only sports, but also sports that make people happy. Having fun in old age can make the life of middle-aged and elderly people valuable. There are many ways to have fun. At present, there are many activity rooms and stations for middle-aged and elderly people in the community. These places are good places for middle-aged and elderly people to study and entertain, which can help them break the loneliness in life and make their hearts younger.