Helping others is actually helping yourself.

"The beauty of a gentleman is not the evil of an adult. The villain is the opposite." The more mature a person is and the more tolerant he is towards everything in the world, the more he understands the beauty of helping others.

The beauty of adulthood lies in the kind heart that provides help in times of need, and the beauty in the generous heart that adds icing on the cake. Truly mature people know how to help each other.

"A single thread cannot make a thread, and a single tree cannot make a forest." Only by supporting each other can one write the word "人".

"If you want to establish yourself, you must establish others; if you want to achieve success, you must reach others." If you want to stand firm, you must first leave a foothold for others; if you want to prosper, don't forget the people around you. .

Mature people all understand this truth: personal power is limited, and only by combining the power of others can a more brilliant career be achieved.

When Li Hongzhang's Huai Army was first formed, its strength was very thin. Zeng Guofan transferred the elite Hunan troops he had personally trained as "gifts".

The Huaijun Group, which developed on this basis, really became the capital for Li Hongzhang's future success.

When Li Hongzhang's Huai army gained a firm foothold, Zeng Guofan recommended him as governor of Jiangsu. It can be said that Li Hongzhang's lifelong achievements all started with Zeng Guofan's support.

And Li Hongzhang was also sincere to Zeng Guofan. When attacking the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom, the Hunan army led by the Zeng brothers was unable to win for a long time. The imperial court ordered Li Hongzhang to send troops several times. In order not to take away the credit from his teacher, Li Hongzhang repeatedly delayed.

In the end, Zeng Guofan's younger brother Zeng Guoquan occupied Tianjing and made great achievements. Zeng Guofan said with emotion: "My foolish brother Guoquan's face and achievements are all thanks to you!"

Life is nothing more than you helping me once and I giving you a hand. Over time, you and the people around you will become better.

There is a kind of adult beauty, which is called giving timely help.

Among Qi Baishi's many paintings, the story behind one of them, "Sending Help in the Snow", is much talked about.

Back then, Qi Baishi, who was nearly sixty years old, had just arrived in Beijing from Hunan, and his life was very poor. He was not from a scholarly family, but from an ordinary peasant family.

His painting style was not accepted by the painting circles in Beijing at that time, and some even thought it was too vulgar. If the paintings could not be sold, there would be no source of income and no place to live. He could only bounce between several temples, feeling depressed.

Later, by chance, Qi Baishi met Mei Lanfang. Although they only met once, Mei Lanfang admired him very much. Once, Qi Baishi was introduced to a wealthy family and painted a longevity portrait for the owner.

In the room full of dignitaries, wealthy businessmen and wealthy people, no one noticed Qi Baishi in the corner, who was dressed in ordinary clothes. As soon as Mei Lanfang stepped into the living room, she walked up to him and started talking.

This move attracted everyone's attention, and Mei Lanfang took the opportunity to introduce Qi Baishi to everyone. Since then, Qi Baishi's reputation has gradually spread.

Afterwards, Qi Baishi specially drew a picture of "giving charcoal in the snow" to Mei Lanfang, and wrote a poem on it, "Now I am neglected in Chang'an City, but fortunately Mei Lang knows my name."

Mei Lanfang and Qi Baishi had no previous friendship. For an unknown person like Qi Baishi, they could help or not. But Mei Lanfang was kind-hearted and could not bear to let his talents be drowned. She did not hesitate to lend a helping hand to help him realize his ambition.

The more mature a person is, the bigger the picture becomes. Wherever one looks, it is not just oneself, but also others and the overall situation.

The more mature a person is, the more willing he is to help others and the more willing he is to see those around him become better.

No man is an island. To help others, you actually help yourself.

As a human being, there is no limit to words and deeds. If you lend a helping hand to others when they are in trouble, your own path will become wider and wider. The fuss over everything ultimately ruins the future of both parties.

The best relationship between people is to complement each other. Perfection makes people rich and happy.

The rewards we get from fulfilling the virtues of others are far better than working alone.