How to tactfully refuse a gift from a leader?

. A successful gift should at least be given away, but the reality is not satisfactory. Especially when leaders ask for help, the probability of being rejected is often higher. It doesn't matter if some ideas are wasted. The biggest fear is that neither side can do it. As a rejected gift giver, I feel ashamed and embarrassed.

Then send three points to talk about how to tactfully deal with the rejection of giving gifts to leaders:

First of all, give some tips to the leadership ceremony:

1. Gift-giving occasion: Never give a gift to the leader's family for the first time. This home is a very secret place, not our own, and you won't be allowed in. Be sure to choose another place, such as the office or when traveling together, or when you are alone. Don't stick to giving gifts, deliver them to your door. Most people can't knock on the door of the leader's house, unless they are small-level officials who are particularly greedy for money, and they hate extortion. Even if you give them to him, they will not remember your kindness! Therefore, the mailing address and telephone number of the main leaders are asked. Will the leader feel that he has been caught?

2. the purpose of the gift: the gift is not good. It's easy to make people doubt your motives and refuse, so pay attention. Those points reduce the alertness of the recipient, and the first request should not be made with the gift. The second is not to give gifts suddenly.

The rejection of the recipient can generally be discussed in two situations. One is to refuse when it is acceptable, and the other party may not really want to accept it. The other is to reject it sternly, and the other party is really unwilling or unacceptable. For the former, what we need to do is to find good excuses and reasons to make the recipients feel at ease and confident.

For the latter, we have no room for manoeuvre. What we need to do is to ease the awkward atmosphere and humor ourselves.

Second, how to respond flexibly to the refusal with room?

First, change donors. When the other party refuses to accept you, we can push the gift to our family. Like his wife or something. Of course, the premise is that my wife and parents are not around at that time. For example, we can say this. When I came, I thought about our relationship. It's really inappropriate to give gifts, but my wife forced me to confess to you. I usually chat with my wife and say that the leader has always taken care of me and is the leader of my workplace. If you don't accept it, I won't be able to work for my wife when I go back. Or it can be said that when I came back from my hometown, my mother insisted that I take it. Now that I have it, let's put it here first, or my mother will complain that I can't handle things and it's not easy to go home. You know, old people pay great attention to etiquette. In short, it is enough to express such a main meaning, and I am not particular about it myself. But my family pays great attention to etiquette. I'm embarrassed if you refuse. Whether the fact is as unimportant as everyone knows is just a kind of rhetoric. Under normal circumstances, the other party will not refuse to talk to this point.

The other two are transfer recipients. In addition to deliberately describing the giver as his family, we can also describe the recipient as the other's family. For example, the other party's wife, children and parents, we can say so. It's not for you, it's for the children. By the way, it's outrageous to come empty-handed Is it wrong to bring something to the child? Don't refuse. Many times, caring for other family members will give people a more sincere and caring feeling. It is also easier to close the distance, and maybe the other person will follow your words and reveal something. For example, the elderly at home are in poor health. If you happen to have a way to recommend something to try and help each other in turn, then your gift will be basically stable this time.

People who really don't want to accept gifts are most afraid of this gift. People's interests are endless, so there is generally no room for refusal for the first gift. In the face of the recipient with this attitude, all we have to do is assure him that there will be no next time, and maybe your gift will be given away. Let's look at a case together. Last Spring Festival, Xiao Chen sent local products to the leaders. Because the relationship is not particularly familiar, after getting it to the other party's office, it was euphemistically rejected by the other party. At that time, the atmosphere was awkward, but Xiao Chen didn't want to give up and decided to try again. So Xiao Chen said sincerely, I really took the liberty to lead the team this time, so I think this local product is quite good. I thought I should bring it to you. I really took the liberty. But just this once, it won't happen again. You have to accept this gift no matter what. After hearing this, the leader did not refuse, but finally accepted it. These methods are quite humanized. I'm sure the other party will feel at ease after listening. If it makes sense, this gift can be sent out. The gift is sent out, which means that you have a good start in what you want to do, so sometimes you can't be too realistic and learn to be flexible.

Third, how to respond humorously to the refusal of "saying nothing"

In the face of the firm refusal of the other party, we summarized some humorous words for your reference. When people refuse to give gifts, they can use similar words to break the embarrassing situation and make the atmosphere relaxed. The gift for the leader has been returned, so we can say that you are really a good leader who has remained uncorrupted. You won't accept this little gift, so it's really reassuring to follow you. Or you say so, you don't accept this little gift, are you unwilling to let me spend money? No, I'll change something else for you.

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