The other party said he was too polite, so why should you reply with high emotional intelligence?

When someone helps us, and after we say thank you, the other person tells us "that's too polite", our reply can be divided into two situations, and we can take different steps in different situations. method to answer.

If the other party has a good relationship with us and the other party says "too polite", it is very likely that in this case, based on our relationship, it is indeed too polite. On the basis of a certain degree of affection, , we can answer casually, "Hahaha, right? I think it's okay." "Yes, isn't this how we usually joke?" "No, no, thank you for helping me such a big favor?" "... A more relaxed answer like this will do. It will alleviate some of the embarrassment of making the other party mistakenly think that we are too polite.

If the relationship between the other party and us is not very close and we only interact with each other occasionally, the other party will say "that's too polite". This can be regarded as a polite word from the other party. After all, we are not very familiar with each other, so we need to express Thank you. You can say thank you politely, and you have to say thank you politely at this time. At this time, it will be a bit awkward for you to say something to me. In order to alleviate the embarrassment, we can say this: I have helped so much, shouldn’t I be grateful for this? Just be polite. "This way you can avoid the constant politeness later, and you can also express your gratitude properly.