Tell me how bad some of your relatives are.

My sister has always said how filial she is to her parents. She criticizes her eldest brother for being unfilial every day, and her second brother can't control it. On the whole, she has bought something for the old man, and she can't wait for the whole world to talk about it. However, my parents lived with me, especially in 2008, and my mother began to get confused. At 10, she hardly recognized anyone. At 1 1, she urinated everywhere.

1 1 bought a new house at the end of the year, 12 renovated it, and then didn't move in for a day, so my parents moved in. My mother scribbled on the wardrobe, curtains and walls. My sister said, "Wipe all your mother's wet wipes, or I'll repaint them later." The old man lives with me, and they come to see him once every month or two. Sometimes I want to travel in the summer vacation and ask her to come and take care of me for a few days, but I'm not available and have something to do.

I taught at 16, but I really can't. I asked them to take turns taking care of it. As a result, she said everywhere that I have no conscience, my parents are old and my son can't afford me. When she told me how good she was to me, I didn't know how grateful she was to me. When her son was a child, sometimes she would let him stay for one night on Saturday, that's all. Isn't that what an aunt should do? As an uncle, my niece gave me 2,000 yuan (08- 1 1 year) when she went to college, and I lent her 80,000 yuan when she bought a house. As a result, I didn't buy a big house on the second floor with 164, but bought one on the third floor with 104. I wonder who has no conscience. Finally, my father let them take turns, because I don't teach at home, and they should not take care of the elderly for so many years.

After quarreling with her, she didn't say a word for more than two years. Until 18, 1 1, when my mother died, I was still inciting my second brother to agree with me.

/kloc-in June, 2008, I gave birth to Bauer, and my daughter-in-law was hospitalized by caesarean section. My mother was hospitalized on June 8 (at that time, my father called me and said that your mother was ill, and the three of them asked me to come over and discuss what to do. I said, discuss what, come to the hospital if you are sick, and discuss whether to treat it or not? In fact, my mother has been suffering from Alzheimer's disease for too long. She only eats liquid food, and her digestive system has deteriorated. I paid 5700 yuan for hospitalization, 4000 yuan for hospitalization, and 1700 for eldest brother. My elder sister and second brother didn't pay a penny, which is not enough. I didn't take into account that I took most of the money, and no matter that our two treasures were still in the incubator, my daughter-in-law was in the hospital, and Dabao was at home to go to school, so I needed to go to work. I brazenly asked the four sisters to take turns to accompany my mother in the hospital. I gritted my teeth with a smile.

Considering that my parents are taking care of them outside, no one cares about them, no one talks to my dad, the broken house where I live leaks rain, and no one is around at night, our neighbors on the second floor just want to sell the house, so they borrow money to buy it and prepare to take my parents over. At that time, the establishment was "just me."

165438+1October 10, everything was ready. I took my parents home when the heating was turned on, but I didn't know that my mother was in June 1 1 and left. I always thought mom had a heart. She is afraid that I will take care of two old people after I take her home, and there are two small ones at home, which will make my daughter-in-law and I very tired. Finally, she will complain, fearing that they will say how long it will take to take the old people home, and my mother will be gone. It must be the youngest child who abused them and didn't take good care of them. That's why I left at this time. I stayed in the shabby house they gave my parents to live in (the old house in the fifties and sixties, without toilets and kitchens, it leaked when it rained), and they had no place to throw dirty water on me.

Mom died, and they didn't pay a penny for all the funeral expenses. My aunt's cousin said that when my uncle died, each of them took 3000 yuan first, which means we have to pay compensation. The person in charge I asked asked who to spend the money on, but no one made a sound. I smiled. "Take my head." My mother's funeral cost 17 thousand, I paid 14 thousand and my father took 3 thousand. The three of them didn't pay a penny!

I bought a wreath in the middle. Originally, my eldest brother paid 240 for four. As a result, my sister said that everyone should be filial, and I gave him all the money for the wreath my eldest brother bought. But then, the day before the burial, many relatives came, and you arranged to stay in a hotel outside. Why should I pay for your room? It's shameless to die like this.

She hasn't been to see her father once since her mother died and was buried. She always said that my aunt raised her. I asked my aunt, I asked my uncle, and she called her nonsense-she didn't go to my aunt to find a job for her until 18 years old graduated from high school. Who raised you without graduating from high school?

Thank her for her firm belief in God. Can all believers be so unfilial? You can pretend to be a good person in front of outsiders as a believer, but is it really cruel and heartless?

I wonder if anyone has seen so much.

Some people may say, are you absolutely right? Of course, for example, when they are unfilial and don't take care of the elderly, I don't have a friendly discussion, but an angry quarrel. The second child sometimes gets dizzy and is scolded for not being sensible and not knowing that his father is hard. But is there a contradiction between this and whether it should be filial?