Don't be hated since childhood. Tell me.

My mother has been nagging every day since she was a child. When I grow up, I feel that this is not love at all. Only when you are free will you prosper. The idea that love is an obligation can only kill love. Just one sentence: you have to love someone enough to make you hate this person.

My mother has been nagging me about how to be nice to her in the future since I was a child. I hate it. Now I think she's really nagging, but think about it, when I was out of town, I just wanted to listen but I couldn't hear her. Everyone will make the same mistake. It is also a kind of happiness to know that someone can nag in your ear. You should know how to cherish and be considerate. Maybe you will feel that way when you are a parent in the future. Cherish it, children want to raise and are not close. ...

My mother didn't like me since I was a child. You didn't like me since you were a child. You have hated me since you were a child. You didn't love me since you were a child. You are my mother.

My mother, she doesn't love me at all. Every family has conflicts.

It's just that you magnified your pain.

No mother doesn't love her children,

You should believe it.

Maybe you didn't pay attention to your communication style,

Maybe she's a little hasty,

This is the reason for your misunderstanding. ...

I grew up, and so did my mother. Am I ashamed? When it comes to this matter, everyone has an inferiority complex. No one wants to be born with a job. Maybe she has her pain. If you are not young, then work hard and let your family have a good life.

Growing up, adults beat, scold and nag. What harm depends on what it is, generally there are six kinds:

First, there is a generation gap. Parents use the tone of nagging or reprimanding. Children are in a rebellious period and think that they have grown up and don't need to let go. As a result, they can't communicate and the language is unreasonable.

Second, I don't want my parents to worry about themselves. I think I should solve my own problems. I always say I'm fine and there's nothing to worry about. In fact, this is also a kind of harm to parents.

Third, I think it's useless to tell my parents, thinking that they can't help.

Fourth, maybe his parents had done something like reading his diary or opposing puppy love before, and they were too strict in discipline and distrustful of their parents.

Five, every time you lie, you can get benefits or avoid problems and be happy for a long time. This is also a subconscious means of self-protection and self-interest maximization, but it is not good and will lay a major hidden danger for future people.

I don't want others to know what I'm thinking. The old scoundrel can't see his tail. Such people are terrible, but fortunately they are rare. Judging from your description, it is impossible, not to this extent. Follow-up: If you grew up like this ... it's not that you don't want to communicate with others ... but that you don't trust anyone ... including your parents ... Do you think this is a mental illness ... Answer: Maybe you suffered a heavy blow in your childhood, maybe you were beaten and scolded for telling the truth, and your dignity was accused to pieces, so you resisted, but you just couldn't directly resist, so you had to use lying as a means. In the eyes of us adults, it is great. From its perspective, it is caused by distrust of parents. Can you agree to confess leniency and resist leniency? ! If you give goodwill to others, others will return it, and goodwill can persist. If your kindness is used and laughed at but not rewarded, evil people will not be punished if they get benefits, and good people will be hurt, then who will be kind?

After my daughter grew up, my mother began to look down on me, but I haven't changed since I was a child. My mother is bored when she looks at it. My daughter often quarrels, but she doesn't want to quarrel. Your mother may think that you are an adult, and all your words and deeds should be divorced from childishness. On the one hand, she believes that you have grown up, on the other hand, she is a little anxious, but on the whole, she hopes that you will mature as soon as possible, because from now on, you will be integrated into social life and independent. If you nag again, you can talk to your mother and ask her modestly. Don't be willful. I think she will change some methods. The real society is very complicated. Young people in their twenties, especially girls, really need to listen to their elders to avoid detours. This kind of problem is endless, for reference only, I wish you success.

I have been afraid of what my mother will do since I was a child. Now that you are old, you should learn to communicate. Parents sometimes don't pay much attention to the influence of their own ways on their children, so it is very important to learn to communicate and tell her what they really think. She probably doesn't know what you think by now. When she knows that what she did affected you, maybe she regretted it, maybe she changed, at least you can know what she really thinks.

Go and communicate with her. She will always be your mother and love you forever, so she will make you afraid and harmless.

My mother arranged everything from childhood to adulthood, and now when I grow up, she suddenly wants me to arrange it myself. Maybe she is aware of this problem, too.

So I don't want you to rely on her from now on.

It's time to be independent.

Don't complain about your parents

They love you, too

From now on, think for yourself and pay attention to yourself.

I really don't know what to do.

Ask your parents again.

Take your time like that

Maybe you can feel the joy of being your own master.

They are getting older every day now.

There are some things I can't do.

Sometimes you give some advice when they buy clothes.

They will be very happy.

My mother left me when I was a child and never looked for me when I was a child. Why? Maybe your mother has a new family.

New sensation

Or you have a brother or sister you've never met.

through the years

Your mother may be stuck with someone or something.

Cann't get away

That's why I haven't seen you again.

Doesn't mean she doesn't love you.

She also has many difficulties and secrets in her heart.

These are all unknown to outsiders.