Word control: I hope the flowers grow well in the garden and grow old before drinking all my life.

1. Don't love worldly glitz, don't write about red dust, don't sigh that the world is desolate, don't make people feel sad, just watch the flowers bloom, wait for the flowers to fall, be warm and cold, and be as clean as ever.

2. The thoughts of time flies, dormant on both sides of time, silent and speechless, dancing with the scenery season after season, looking at the clouds rolling and relaxing, watching the flowers fade. How much prosperity, how much love, looking back, has become disconsolate.

3. If it is sunny and sunny, just enjoy the idle clouds. If the rain knocks on the window, listen to the wind. If there is love in the fleeting time, the heart will bloom with the flowers. If time passes, cherish the past.

4. Nothing grows here. Later, you came here and miraculously everything grew. This is my heart.

5. Please leave yourself a clean answer in the gap between the desolation of the past and the fleeting time.

6. I hope the flowers grow well in the garden, and I will grow old before drinking all my life.

7. Give life to time, not life.

8, the still water is deep, and the songs are sung; Three lives are sunny and round, and once you are sad and happy. The river is lonely, the banks are dark green, and you are standing everywhere. Lights and stars, voices and songs are endless. Dark clouds cover the moon, and people are nowhere to be seen, so I can't tell you how lonely I am.

9. It's so safe not to love in the past, not to welcome in the future, and not to live up to the present.

1. May all the joys accompany you, with your head up in spring and your head down in autumn; May all happiness follow you, the full moon is a painting, and the lack of the moon is a poem. A good mother affects a child's life

A good mother affects a child's life:

One day, a friend who is a university teacher talked to me about his child in the third grade of primary school. Both husband and wife are doctors, and his friend's wife is still a turtle, but his son's grade is the last in the class. He asked me why, and I said that your wife is too capable. He thought it was a joke. He thought I was referring to his wife's busy career, so he said, no, my wife accompanied him to do his homework every day, that is, every time it was less than five minutes, she flew into a rage and shouted at the children, how could you be so stupid! . I said, you see, that's the problem. Your son's mother is too smart. How can he be smarter than his mother when he is so young?

I wonder if you have noticed how many biographies of famous people describe mothers: their mothers are gentle, virtuous and considerate, and she has always devoted herself silently to her children without complaining, and her mothers are strong, kind and opinionated, as if nothing can beat her. Are these words familiar? It is such a mother that it is possible to cultivate such an excellent child. Because children have an instinctive dependence on their mothers when they are young, their mother's personality, language and behavior will affect their lives.

how can children's personality habits not develop in the opposite direction of their mothers' personality and inherit their mothers' advantages? The best way is for a mother to restrain herself in front of her children and become a real mother. In front of children, not at the negotiating table, mothers don't need to look at children with critical, critical and demanding eyes. Their aggressive attitude, harsh language, manipulative behavior and self-righteous judgment do far more harm to children's self-esteem and self-confidence than exam-oriented education. For children, from the moment he was born, the child's requirements for the role of mother are almost eternal.

Mothers affect children's life:

1. Before entering the house, mothers must remind themselves: forget all the unpleasant things in the unit, and now they are taking on the role of mothers. Children need their mothers to be happy, so don't pass on bad feelings that have nothing to do with children to them, because children are innocent.

2. When the child tells his mother cheerfully that he got a five-pointed star or a small red flower at school today, don't show boredom or disdain. Be sure to praise him as happily as your son. The most appropriate way is to say whether you can show your mother and share this happiness with him, because this honor is very important to children.

3. When a child comes to ask his mother such questions as how to pronounce this word, her mother had better not answer him immediately. The worst answer is that you don't even know this word. Mom had better take a look and say, Oh, I don't know either. Shall we look it up in the dictionary together? After several times, the mother taught the child to use the dictionary. At the same time, the child will have a great sense of accomplishment after looking up the word in the dictionary. After many times, he will develop the habit of consulting materials without relying on his mother.

4. When children come to ask their mothers questions, their mothers must not act as smart and capable as they are in the company. Pretending ignorance is a good way to encourage children to use their brains and think clearly about this problem by themselves, or mothers can consult books with their children or use the Internet. A mother can't tell all the answers like a spill the beans, and she is complacent while talking, which is not good for the child's growth. After several times, the child will avoid asking her questions and become very inferior.

5. When the child tells his mother that he didn't do well in the exam today, her mother must restrain her emotions and never get angry or look gloomy. At this moment, the child is watching her face nervously. Therefore, it is best for the mother to show no emotional changes, let the children take out the papers and analyze what is wrong with them. If the child has understood where the mistake is, the mother doesn't have to pester him any more. But in the end, encourage him: you see, you can't go wrong in the next exam if you understand it. If mom feels that she can't control her emotions, go to the bathroom to wash her face, look in the mirror and take a few deep breaths.

6. When the child shows timidity before the exam or before doing something important, the mother must not disapprove or scold him for being timid or acting more nervous than him, which will aggravate the child's psychological pressure and lead to the child's failure to play normally. At this time, the mother had better easily tell the child that no matter how you do, mom and dad are not as good as you when they are your age. Don't worry. At this time, the child will be very confident and confident, and he will play better than usual.

7. If the child is going to participate in important activities the next day, when the mother observes that the child is preoccupied and nervous, it is best for the mother to accompany him to sleep at the bedside that night, and tell him a story or read his favorite books with him before going to bed to relieve his inner pressure until the child falls asleep.

8. When the child suffers from failure or frustration, the mother should be strong and never give up, and calmly tell the child that failure only represents a moment, not a lifelong failure. Don't have children. Before she thinks about giving up, the mother first shows no hope. The worst thing is to use harsh language to dig at him, scold the child for nothing, and even count the old and new accounts together. Children educated by such mothers will feel extremely inferior and even give up their own bright future.

9. Mothers should not express their opinions in a self-righteous way before the children have clearly expressed what they want to say. Regardless of whether the children are willing or not, they should command the children in the tone that you must and you should, represent their opinions with their own opinions, and ask them to implement them. Mother must not be synonymous with autocracy. In this case, children who grow up lack independent opinions and the ability to judge right and wrong. Mothers and children should establish an equal relationship (equality is not unprincipled) and know how to respect each other.

1. Mothers should control the way they speak in front of their children. The mother knows the child best in the world, so the mother knows where the child's weakness lies best. If the mother often points at the child's weakness when speaking, satirizes, criticizes or threatens, or deliberately asks the child to do it knowing that the child can't do it, this is undoubtedly stabbing the child's pain point with the sharpest weapon. The child will be very hurt inside, because this injury comes from the person closest to him.

11. Mothers should control the number of languages in front of their children. Don't nag. In fact, what scares children most is the mother's silence. Therefore, instead of talking endlessly to children, it's better to tell them in short language what he made a mistake or what he should pay attention to. Next, the mother's silence is definitely more useful than continuing to talk. Don't think that children don't understand. Although he pretends to be indifferent, he is actually observing whether his mother takes what he said seriously.

12. In short, a mother is a mother at home, not a professional woman. A mother should take good care of her child's daily life, pay attention to the ups and downs of her child's heart, care about her every move, care for her childish feelings and cultivate her character. If you want your children to surpass themselves in the future, then the most capable mother must be ignorant, stupid, slow and gentle in front of the children. In this way, the children will feel that he is more knowledgeable, clever and agile than his mother. He feels that he is surpassing his mother every day until one day, he really surpasses his mother. The word controller likes the mood: the leaves fall to the roots and are finally buried in the fallen leaves of his life

. Now when I try to recall that laughter, it becomes very vague, just like a pencil drawing with an eraser, leaving only mottled traces, which makes people feel sad.

2. Eternity means that the time to kill something is over, but it is still there.

3. In fact, people are easy to compromise, sometimes even without pressure.

4. In my dream, I am a person who loves to walk. I walked through all the villages and cities written in the book, and even the vast grassland with flowers but no one. Through my four seasons, through my sorrow.

5. The good times of crowded wooden bridge with thousands of troops and horses have passed, and we are all tightrope walkers.

6. In fact, people's real and perfect life should be written in words, living like a movie, living like a novel, and living like a TV series at the last time.

7. Really, many times small happiness can easily overwhelm us, but we often ignore it out of numbness.

8. Some things are destined to be single-handedly, and you can't say it, and you will be wrong as soon as you say it. Then you have to continue to use language to correct the mistakes made by language, which is too troublesome. So I learned to be quiet. For seventeen years, I really realized that I should be a quiet person.

9. Youth without laughter is incomplete, and youth without tears is a kind of disability.

1. Those lively winds, those lonely people.

11. Life is smooth and quiet, like warm water, which is neither exciting nor degrading.

12. I am such a child. I am honest and I don't lie. But if one day you meet a child looking up at the sky in the street, it must not be me. Because when I look up at the sky, no one sees it.

13. I just need Anne to puncture my soul with a sharp posture and appropriate strength at the right time to prove that I am not numb and that I am a good boy.

14. Until one day I found the pleasure that writing brought me, so I began to write constantly. It's like chasing the black happiness blindfolded.

15. My friend said that she can fly freely in the music, flying all the way over the sun, the moon, Cangshan Mountain, the endless rivers and black peaks, until the dark clouds are cleared and the sun shines.

16. I don't think I have that freedom. I can only curl up a little tighter and tighter in music. I fell asleep until I opened my eyes and all my troubles disappeared.

17. Time sweeps everything like a scourge, leaving behind something that seems to be as hard to catch as air. As for what slipped through my fingers, no one thought about it and no one dared to think about it, and my heart was in a panic.

18. There is a kind of weather in this world called cloudy day, and there is a feeling called loneliness in cloudy day. In the loneliness of cloudy day, there will always be an obedient child looking up at the sky ...

19. Time keeps turning silently like a cat's paw landing, flowers bloom and thank, windows are opened and closed, and I am nirvana again and again in spring, summer, autumn and winter. I grow up day by day, grow old day by day, day by day. You are the most beautiful person in my life.

First, some good friends are really alienated unconsciously, and you don't even know why.

second, don't give me the tenderness of being cold and hot, I'm afraid of catching a cold.

Third, the advantage of being sick is that you can naturally coquetry others.

Fourth, I have no time to hate those who hate me, because I am busy loving those who love me.

5. Some people, when they see it clearly, look down on it.

6. A good man is one who has a losing mentality when quarreling with his daughter-in-law.

7. When God gives you a big gift, he always uses many difficulties as a package.

8. Breaking up is not terrible. What is terrible is that you leave alone, but you still stay where you are and wait for someone to turn around. It is not terrible to be lovelorn, but to lose the ability to love again. Love can be lost, but love should continue.

9. Life is an all-encompassing song. Every day, there are endless joys and sorrows, and the melody that keeps flowing is the ups and downs of fate. If you want to write beautiful and beautiful songs, learn to let go of what you should forget and remember what you should remember, and you will find that life can live a sunny life because you don't care.

1. For the same reason, when comforting others, you always feel that what you said is very reasonable, but

Xi. If you cling to one thought, you will be trapped in one thought; Once you let go, you will be in your heart.

thank you for being so busy and hurting me yourself.

thirteen, there is no need to argue with your girlfriend. She is wrong. If you let her go, she will appreciate you. In fact, she knows that she is unreasonable.

Fourteen, a person amuses himself while crying and laughing, saying that it's really nice to be alone.

Fifteen, you're an iron horse and clean up the mountains and rivers; I single-handedly, abandoned my troops and armour, dear, forgive me for singing your Kay into a farewell song.

XVI. Wait in gloom, and keep silent.

XVII. Some friends once had nothing to say, but now they have nothing to say.

18. We can lose our childhood, but we must never lose our childlike innocence.

19th, when I am more and more polite to you, we may become more and more strangers.

2th, I don't know until my heart aches if I want to know how important a person is.

president Roosevelt: be the master of time, the master of fate and the helmsman of the soul.

twenty-two, seeing someone like you so much, I really should be happy for you, but I can't smile, because that position used to be mine. . .