What does the saying "Don't discipline your son before meals, don't discipline your wife before going to bed" mean?

In the past, there were many interesting sayings passed down from our ancestors. Some of them were just one or two simple sentences, but they contained great truths. This sentence "Don't discipline your son before eating, don't discipline your wife before going to bed" is one of them. So what is the meaning of this sentence that is often said by the elderly? Let's learn together here.

What is certain is that the purpose of this proverb is to tell us how to get along in a family. If we understand it purely literally, it means that parents should not teach their children before eating, and should not complain and scold their wives before going to bed. In addition, what this sentence wants to tell us is not only the way of getting along in the family, but also It’s also for everyone’s health.

Let’s first understand the meaning of the first half of the sentence? Don’t discipline your children before meals?, because children will inevitably make some mistakes in life, and as parents, it is natural for them to criticize and educate their children. Yes, but some parents like to criticize or reprimand their children during meals. This is wrong. Because children need nutrition when they grow, and the main source of nutrition is three meals a day. If you scold the child before or during meals, the child will eat with a low mood, thus affecting his appetite and absorption and digestion of nutrients. , which is harmful to children's physical and mental health.

Let’s talk about it again? Don’t discipline your wife before going to bed? As the saying goes, teeth and tongues will fight? What’s more, between people, especially between husband and wife, it is unavoidable because of daily life. Quarrels over trivial matters are normal. But it should be noted that you should try not to quarrel with your wife before going to bed, because people can only guarantee high-quality sleep when they are calm, relaxed, and emotionally calm. If there is a conflict before going to bed, both of them will be very excited. , women are more likely to go to bed with resentment. On the one hand, the quality of sleep will not be good. Sleeping with stagnation in the heart will also affect physical health.