When comparing menstruation with menstruation, the children's answers are naive, but true.

Socialization is ubiquitous in today's society, and there are "social rules" among friends, colleagues, family members and even relatives. For children, at their present stage, socializing means too much to them, and the people they face are not so huge.

Children and their relatives often move around. In addition to kindergartens and places to go out to play, the rest is to visit relatives' homes.

But sometimes when you spend more time with your relatives, it is embarrassing for your child to be asked questions. Besides being asked "who is better, grandma or grandma", menstruation and menstruation have also become new comparison objects.

Maybe there was no concept in the child's mind at that time. If you are an adult, you can find a "three rooms and one living room" in the current situation!

Comparing menstruation with menstruation, the children's answers are very true.

A few days ago, when I was playing with my children in the community, I overheard them talking about this topic:

Bao Xiao turns 10 this year. She is a clever little girl. Speaking of this question, she replied that she liked her aunt! The reason is that she and her aunt share the same surname, which means closer. Moreover, menstruation belongs to my mother's family, and her surname is different.

This answer surprised me a little. There is still a serious "traditional color" in the current family education. Is this good or bad? I think the answer of the second child is more in line with the law of contemporary interpersonal communication!

The child said-whoever plays with me every day, I am the best! I haven't seen my aunt for a long time.

The last child said, aunt, of course! The reason is, because we live in a community, I often go to his house for dinner!

It turns out that besides school hours, my mother will take him to menstruation's house, and menstruation will buy him all kinds of snacks and cool clothes! It is difficult for a 6-year-old child to resist the temptation of good food.

When asked about her aunt, Rourou said that she and her aunt would only meet when they returned to grandpa's house for the New Year, and she could hardly remember her appearance. The answer is obvious. She and her aunt have deeper feelings.

In fact, any choice is changing in the times, and people's thoughts will change in the present. Children in the past and children now have different criteria for choosing who is closer to them.

Nowadays, the "connection" between them has deepened family ties.

People used to say that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. In fact, this truth is also true now.

In the current social environment, the social status gap between women and men is gradually narrowing, and there is no difference between their relatives. In the era of equal power, when children judge who is closer, they get along better and better with more and more people!

If relatives live close and get along much, children are more likely to accept it subconsciously. Even under the influence of "old times" surnames, "looks unfamiliar" is the biggest factor affecting the relationship between him and his relatives.

The rules under the traditional concept believe in "blood, surname and family"

Too traditional times, huge families also illustrate the present environment. When a woman marries a man, she will live with the man's family, and her uncles and aunts will often walk around because of the older generation.

Because of the surname, subconsciously, my father's brothers and sisters, and the next generation of children, are all "family."

Although Xiao Yan is her mother's sister, she has a different surname. Today's society is naturally not so intimate. As time goes by, people will naturally think that "menstruation" and "menstruation" are different.

The present era is both a social era and a network era. Faced with the complicated information in the world, people can only grasp the "present", and people and things that are too far away can only flash in the minds of adults, let alone children.

The reason why children choose menstruation or menstruation is related to their parents.

My husband and I have also discussed this question, and his answer is aunt! The reason is that her aunt's personality and personality are better in all aspects.

Although menstruation is also a relative, he grew up at odds with his family and had a bad personality, which led to his bad impression of menstruation. If your child develops better than hers, it may also attract her jealousy.

In my opinion, it is still close to menstruation. Because I rely more on my mother at home, I will get along more with my aunts and their children as I get older, and I will also get along with my aunts' children.

Facing a brand-new era, we can only adapt. Parents should not just stay in the past and simply ask their children who they like better and who they choose, so that everyone is embarrassed.

Now we just follow the principle of "getting rid of the dross and taking the essence", and we don't have to force children to divide their kinship into three or six categories and force them to make a choice just because of a title.

Today's topic has your child been asked this question?