What does it mean when a girl being pursued makes many requests?

The girls who are being pursued make many requests, "spend more energy on improving yourself and lose weight, and say it in detail." This is by no means "disgusting", but an encouragement.

"Improve yourself and lose weight." This is something that will benefit your own body. How can it be understood as "dislike?"

What she means is: You only need to follow her instructions If you work hard on these paths, she will be optimistic about you.

Set a goal to work hard, move forward bravely, make a plan for running and fitness, and put it into practice. After three months, you will have small results: your body will slowly lose weight, your career will improve. When you achieve something, the leaders of your unit begin to appreciate you. At this moment, who doesn't like positive people?

If you keep the status quo by yourself and invite friends to the food stalls to drink beer and eat barbecue every day after work, you invite me today and I will invite them tomorrow; there is no progress in sitting in front of the computer step by step at work. It gives the impression that you are just messing around. As the leader of your unit, you may not like your subordinates who are not striving to make progress.

(1) The girl you are pursuing can point out your physical problems in the future. What she points out is that she hates iron and cannot make steel. If you don’t strive to make progress in the future, you will just hang around like this every day. , this is not what she likes. Her requests show that she really considers you.

She "asks you" to improve some things that she thinks are bad. If you can really improve, I think she is likely to accept you.

If you slowly improve her "requirements" and gradually achieve results, who doesn't like motivated people!

If you hear other people’s opinions about improving yourself and improving yourself, it’s wrong to want to back down or even give up on yourself.

If you are less than thirty years old and have signs of gaining weight, these suggestions should be necessary to "lose weight".

Many bad living habits will tend to make people gain weight. It will be very beneficial to you to get rid of some of your bad living habits.

(2) None of the "requests" made by the girl being pursued are directed at herself. She is not like some girls who ask for three gold and four silvers at the beginning of their relationship, and often talk about cars and houses. What she wants from you is only six words: "Improve yourself and lose weight."

I think this is a very good girl.

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(3) Make an exercise plan by yourself. Don’t do it verbally. Make your own practical small plans, such as running, playing tennis, badminton, etc. These exercises can play a certain role in losing weight for you;

Don’t be like me, who can’t even keep up with running recently.

I made a running plan a few years ago and planned to run for three months. However, I couldn’t keep going after less than a month. I gritted my teeth and persisted for a month, but in the end I still couldn’t finish it. The three-month plan that was originally set. I remember when I was in the theater troupe, I would practice singing exercises every day, and get up before dawn to go to the city wall to sing my voice. How did you persist for so many years? No one forced themselves at that time, so why did they persevere? When I was young, it was for my own career, and the passion for struggle has been motivating me. Later, I couldn't persist because I lacked the enthusiasm to motivate myself.

I think you can now find a motivating force to support you in persisting in exercise. I think the "girl being pursued" should be the motivation to support yourself in persisting.

The "six words" she put forward to you can also be said to be a kind of motivation for you.

Follow the six words of a girl and work hard, I believe you will succeed!