How to treat people whose words will hurt others?

We should look at people whose words will hurt others in two ways. A person who hurts others by talking doesn't really want to hurt others. Some people just have a careless mouth. They speak without thinking, and speak wherever they think, so that they hurt others unconsciously. He doesn't know it. There is no need to be angry with such people. Just know him and know him.

then another kind of person is intentionally hurting people. For this kind of person who intentionally hurts people, you should stay away from him, because he is not a kind person, let alone a careless person. If he really wants to hurt you, there is no need to approach him, let alone become friends with him.

In short, no matter what kind of people, it is their own fault as long as they hurt others. Even if you are unintentional, you should actually change it. After all, mature adults should still have some self-control.