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Have a deep understanding of mother-in-law classics

As the saying goes, "every family has a difficult book", and one of them is called "mother-in-law's book". In the family, the most obvious and common contradiction and conflict between the two generations is in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a problem that many people shake their heads and sigh when they mention it. How to read the book "Difficult to chant Buddhist scripture" well, so that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can live in harmony?

In fact, it is not so difficult to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in my family. The following is my experience since I got married for seven years.

1. Play dumb.

When people are old and have poor memory, it is inevitable that they will make a fuss about one thing. At this time, playing dumb is the best way;

2. Husband's birthday

You needn't worry about preparing a birthday party for your husband's birthday. I bought a more exquisite gift for my mother-in-law and said to her, "mom, thank you for giving me the best man in the world." Today is your day of suffering. " This gift will not only make your mother-in-law happy, but also your husband will love you to death.

Listen carefully

All the old people lived their whole lives and ate more salt than we did. They must have had a good time when they were young. I often listen to them talk about "defending the history of water" and praise and affirm them from time to time. I tell my children from time to time how capable my grandparents were when they were young. I believe that when we are old, we also like to say: when we were young.

4. Education for children

If you have differences with your in-laws about educating your children, please don't refute them in person. You can find some data about educating children from newspapers and online to show your husband. Those data analysis is usually the most convincing, and your husband will naturally affirm your educational methods, and then he will come forward to fix it.

go/be away on official business

If MM students have the opportunity to travel or travel, don't forget to bring a gift to their parents-in-law (you can save your husband's share, but you can't save your parents' share). However, a friendly reminder: you don't need to buy expensive gifts when you visit your parents-in-law for the first time, because the days ahead are still long. It's the first time to send such an expensive gift, then your parents-in-law will have a problem.

6. Consumption differences

The previous generation was bitter. If you go to the mall to buy high-end things, they will be very sad. If you don't want them to be heartbroken, take off the price tag and tell them that they can get a 10% discount on the original price before entering the house. They will praise you as a good wife who can make a living.

7. Eating habits

The difference in diet is that your in-laws don't like your taste. You should also praise them, affirm their cooking skills, and then find an excuse to sneak out and eat for yourself. At the same time, we must respect their customs.

8. Good at communication

Study their dialects hard and communicate with them often. When I return to my husband's hometown, I will make friends with the old people there and praise them. Naturally, it will have a good reputation. (So it's very important for foreign daughter-in-law to learn her husband's local dialect)

9. Have confidence in yourself

You should talk more about your achievements at work in front of your parents-in-law, so that they won't think it's natural for you to rely on his son for food, but at least we live with dignity, and we can't let our parents-in-law look down on us and think that we have surpassed their son.

10. Dare to refute

Life will inevitably have some bumps. If you are reasonable, but your parents-in-law are unreasonable, you can have a big fight with them (be reasonable, don't swear, MM should grasp this degree). Later, when your parents-in-law feel a little sorry for you, you can go to the mall to buy a gift and hand it over, saying, "Dad, Mom, I'm sorry, we are."