Why do all friendships and family ties fade away after marriage?

Dear, after you get married, you will find that you have to face the real integration of your family, so your mind is naturally willing to spend. In fact, according to psychological findings, after marriage, kinship and friendship began to fade, but with the stability of marriage, we will gradually return to kinship and friendship, and their relationship is at its peak.

1, our socialization is actually spread at home.

When we get married, in fact, we have to face not only our husbands, but also our relatives, such as parents-in-law, sister-in-law and so on. Marriage means that our social scope is expanding, which leads us to gradually turn our attention to family relations within marriage. On the other hand, after marriage, people often think more. Buying a house, getting married and having children are all important events in life, and we all need to spend more energy to face them, while family and friendship naturally rank second.

2. A stable marriage brings about the deepening of the relationship between the two parties.

When getting married, a good marriage relationship will enable two people to enter a deeper level of development and communication. This is what we call a happy marriage. A wife and a husband are each other's partners, lovers and friends. The development of multiple relationships has brought them closer to each other and made other relationships begin to retreat. After Lin and Liang Sicheng got married, they both loved architecture and wanted to spend more and more time together, which led to Lin's estrangement from Xu Zhimo and Xu Zhimo's disappointment. ?

When marriage is stable, we still need friendship and affection.

Although marriage can bring us enough pleasure, it can't replace other relationships. So after a few years of marriage, our relationship has gradually stabilized and we are still eager for friendship and affection. Slowly, we will spare more time to devote to this piece. At this time, it is often to rebalance the marriage relationship, which needs more dimensions to develop steadily.

I am Tang Ruo, a national second-level psychological counselor, and I am willing to grow up with you.