It's only thirty. What are you afraid of?

Except for the thirty, it's a pity that the three heroines are between the ages of 30 and 30. Of course not * * *, I'm a man.

First, let's talk about Gu Jia. Gu Jia, a homophonic, cares about her family. Her family is the center of everything, and her friends have commented on her many times in the play. "Infinite devotion to family" is the theme of the whole play. Start a company for a better life; Buy a mansion for a better life; Enter a prestigious school for a better life; For a better life, live in a tall building; This step by step, is Gu Jia's plan, step by step, creating a seemingly gorgeous and enviable family. But everyone can see the ending. The superstructure in this marriage is magnificent, but the foundation in marriage is decadent. When Xu Huanshan cheated on her and San Xiao was forced into the palace, she was in great pain and her love faith collapsed instantly. The blow shattered the marriage hall she had worked so hard to build. She saw the true face inside and found that all her works were so shabby. I think her biggest regret is not that Xu Huanshan cheated on her, but that all her efforts are not worth it, and that all her future designs cannot be realized. Almost all the audience sympathized with Gu Jia and laughed at Xu Huanshan. But since all the audience are women, for me, a male audience who is forced to watch, Xu Huanshan will not be spit out by me, but I will spit out Gu Jia. Indeed, in the eyes of outsiders, everything in Gu Jia is for a better life and a higher-rise mansion, but all this ignores Xu Huanshan and what Xu Huanshan really wants. Xu Huanshan is a designer full of romantic feelings. He just wants to design the perfect fireworks and fully display his talents. I hope everyone will be full of praise and worship for his talent. What he wants is not a rich family, a high-rise mansion or a sense of superiority. Lin's appearance has satisfied all his spiritual needs. Lin has youthful vitality, smiles and coquetry, and is a woman that men like. Men's emotional needs are not everything arranged and everything compromised. Even if a woman gives everything, she can only get gratitude from a man and can't get satisfied love. Of course, between Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan, maybe it was a mistake from the beginning. Xu Huanshan's idealism and Gu Jia's realism are contradictory. Xu Huanshan was the passive one since he started his business. Xu Huan Yamamoto can shine in an excellent team, and he can also get a good life. But Gu Jia is not satisfied with this, she needs more. This may be related to her thinking that her mother gave up treatment because she had no money at home, and she needed more money to buy this peace. She said that she was afraid that the present beauty would be fleeting, but the reason she thought of was that the fireworks company had an accident and needed various security measures. But isn't it because she chose to work for herself? If you want a higher income, you need to take higher risks, except for working for others. Her beauty is really fleeting, not because of fireworks, but because of her love life, which is her most confident thing. Therefore, from Gu Jia, I understand a truth, happiness and wealth are not directly proportional, and spiritual wealth is the foundation of marriage. This is why at the end of each episode, there will be a happy ending that is not rich, but the family is harmonious. This is the most important idea to convey in this play.

Let's talk about Wang Manni again. For this role, there is always a little hazy, unable to see what she really wants. She seems to be purely passionate about feelings and has a soft spot for singles. But the probability of both appearing at the same time is really low, which is also the reason for her single ending. Her conversation with her shaved grandfather made her more comfortable with her marriage. She thinks marriage is unnecessary, and she can get the life she wants. She met a noble person, and her life track changed from then on. In fact, I still don't understand why Lao Wei should help her so much. It is completely illogical and almost impossible to meet in real life. Of course, this also reflects a problem. If we want to succeed in our official career, it is very important to enter the relevant circles. The circle of rich people, their vision and values are worth learning. From this perspective, Wang Manni should also thank Liang Zhengxian for giving her the opportunity to enter the circle, and should also thank herself for her persistence over the years. I don't seem to have touched her much What she experienced was just an ordinary story in Shanghai, and there were not many profound things in her story. It just makes me a little envious that I can still be free in my thirties and study on campus. After the age of 30, most people are married and even have children. They are all working hard for their own lives. The so-called dream, the so-called freedom, has probably become a heavy pressure on their backs. I want to say a little more about her. As long as a woman is well maintained, there will be no 30-year-old candy, no leftover women, and only a beautiful flower surrounded by a group of bees and butterflies.

Finally, I think the ending of the clock is the best and touches me the most. Is it because she represents ordinary people, although I don't want to admit that I am ordinary people? She doesn't seem to have much revenge or higher desire. She always has a smile on her face. He is like a ray of sunshine. I'm a little confused about her reversal meeting with Chen Yu. Do you really have to wait until you lose it to know how to cherish it? Chen Yu became gentle, considerate and considerate overnight and lost her greatest hobby. The first part is the image in Zhong's eyes. He is a cold, boring and unsophisticated person. In the second half, I suddenly washed Chen Yu white. In fact, he has been quietly paying in his own way and silently loving each other. The most important thing in marriage is communication. Two people seem to be strangers. Why didn't she know those things were done? Why couldn't she find out? They met on a blind date and may get married soon. This is their running-in period, which should be the reason why flash marriage is easy to divorce. In fact, there is no difference between quarreling with husband and wife. My wife and I got married in a flash. I have been married for two months, and now it is the third anniversary. Although there are some minor quarrels, most of them are safe and relatively stable. There are also differences between us. She wants me to take the initiative to comfort her every time I quarrel, and I always like to be silent every time I quarrel, and I can giggle the next day. She said that she didn't like me like this, and I would giggle immediately after every quarrel, and she was relieved immediately. I chose silence at first because I felt that our quarrel never involved principles. That's just some trivial matters. Everyone has emotions, so we can adjust ourselves. There's no need to fight. Go online. But since she doesn't like it, I, as a man, can certainly make some changes, Pomeranian smiled. Zhong divorced because everyone felt that they were right, wronged and not understood. Later, when everyone calmed down, they all reflected and understood each other. I have always believed that as long as it is not a matter of principle, marriage can be solved through communication, and it is not a big deal. In addition, Zhong's experience also gave me some inspiration. Zhong has his own hobbies and sticks to them. Finally, this hobby came true and she became a millionaire. To tell the truth, I was influenced by her when I wrote this article. I also like writing. I like the feeling of typing. So I made up my mind to continue writing, maybe one day I will change the quantity and cause qualitative change. In life, having a hobby that you can stick to every day will greatly enhance your sense of happiness and accomplishment, and life will have more hands. The process of quantitative change to qualitative change may be only a matter of time.

It's only thirty in the end. What are you afraid of? Control your desires, do the things in front of you and find your own position, otherwise it will be over. Life is long, thirty, only one third. Don't be scared by all kinds of chicken soup that sells anxiety. Who is not thirty yet? How do those people in their forties and fifties survive? Don't think too much, life is alive.