Mother-in-law's leftovers are served to mother, and daughter-in-law throws bowls. Mother-in-law: Why did you let my son eat leftovers? what do you think?

Diligence and thrift is a virtue, especially for the older generation, who have worked hard all their lives and experienced years of tempering, knowing that life is not easy and making money is too difficult. Therefore, many old people have worked hard for most of their lives to make their children live a good life, but they never ask for food and clothing. Sometimes an old coat can last for years.

Many old people never find fault with their diet. Sometimes they cook too much food and can't finish it all that day. The next day, they will eat leftovers. Some people may say that eating leftovers for a long time is not good for your health. I believe many children will also tell the elderly about this health knowledge. The old man also knows the pains of his children, but he still can't change the problem of eating leftovers.

It may be a long-term habit for the elderly to eat leftovers. Now that young people have a good life, how many young people are willing to eat leftovers? Some old people associate leftovers with whether they will live. They think that if young people often throw away leftovers, it is called waste.

Eating leftovers is a sign of economy?

As a man, it is his duty to love his wife, so in our daily life, sometimes his wife cooks too much that day and leaves leftovers. Some women will throw away the leftovers, while others will save them for the next day. But the husband loves his wife dearly and is willing to eat leftovers, so that his wife and children can eat fresh meals. This seems to be a love for his wife, but also a small matter. What will mother-in-law think when she sees it?

It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are a pair of enemies. If the mother-in-law knows that her son is eating leftovers and her daughter-in-law is eating fresh rice, will she think that her daughter-in-law is bullying her son? Then the mother-in-law will definitely have a dispute with her daughter-in-law because she is partial to her son. At this time, conflicts are often easy to arise between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

In real life, some things seem trivial to sons and daughters-in-law, but once the mother-in-law intervenes, it will become a major event, which will easily intensify the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Today, I will talk about the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law caused by leftovers.

Xiaogang and Xiaoyu have been married for half a year, and they are newly married. The couple have a good relationship, and Xiaoyu and her in-laws have been living in peace. But the day before yesterday, Xiaoyu's mother came to see her from afar. Unexpectedly, Xiaoyu was very angry with her mother-in-law's behavior and became angry on the spot. So what did the mother-in-law do? Angered Xiaoyu?

College romance is about to turn into a positive result, during which it has experienced a storm.

Xiaoyu and Xiaogang are college classmates. They have been in love since freshman year. During the whole university, they had a very good relationship and supervised each other in their study and life. Although college is a place to fall in love, they are not addicted to making out with their children, but focus most of their energy on their studies, which also makes them admitted to two large enterprises after graduation from college.

After working for two years, their careers were stable, and Xiaogang took Xiaoyu back to his hometown to discuss marriage with his parents. It stands to reason that Xiaoyu's family is good, but Xiaogang's mother resolutely let Xiaogang break up. Why?

It turns out that Xiaoyu lives in the north and is the only daughter in the family. Her father runs a business with an annual income of 500,000 to 600,000. Although she is not particularly rich, she is a big family in their local area. At that time, Xiaoyu's parents agreed that they were together, but hoped Xiaogang could go there to develop. After all, they only have Xiaoyu's only daughter, and the foundation laid for so many years will be passed on to Xiaoyu sooner or later, so Xiaoyu's parents want to learn to do business with Xiaogang as soon as possible, and when Xiaogang can take care of himself, they give him the business.

Xiaoyu's parents' ideas are very real, but Xiaogang's mother objected, because in her opinion, her son went to the woman's house as soon as he got married. Isn't that a disguised son-in-law? This is unacceptable to Xiaogang's parents because they love face. If it gets out, how can they look up in front of their relatives and friends in the future?

Their marriage was postponed for half a year because of their parents' opposition. Over the past six months, Xiaoyu and Xiaogang have been trying to convince their parents. Finally, both parents took a step back and let Xiaoyu and Xiaogang settle down in Wuhan after marriage. After they reached an understanding, they got married soon.

After marriage, the husband contracts housework and is a good husband.

Xiaoyu grew up in a wealthy family, and her parents doted on her very much, so Xiaoyu never did housework, let alone cooked, so Xiaogang took on all the housework after they got married, including washing clothes, mopping the floor and cooking. In Xiaogang's view, there is nothing inappropriate for a man to do housework, which can better reflect his love for Xiaoyu.

Later, Xiaogang was busy at work, competing for leadership positions and often working overtime. Xiaoyu looked at her work, and when she had more free time, she began to learn to cook. Xiaogang was very happy to see Xiaoyu learn to cook by herself. He is glad to have married such a virtuous wife. But because Xiaoyu is inexperienced, she often cooks too much food. At first, Xiaoyu directly dumped the leftovers. Later, there were too many times. Xiaogang felt that it was a waste, so he took the initiative to contract the leftovers of the previous day. Xiaogang didn't mind, just didn't know that her mother-in-law was using the topic.

The mother-in-law stayed at her son's house to watch him eat leftovers and was dissatisfied with her daughter-in-law.

In May this year, Xiaogang's mother went to Wuhan for medical treatment. Later, after she recovered from hospital, she lived in Xiaogang's house for half a month. Xiaoyu has been cooking for half a month, but his mother is getting more and more angry. Why? Because she saw that her son ate leftovers almost every day, and Xiaoyu ate fresh rice. Although his son did all this voluntarily, his mother felt sorry for him.

Mother often tells her son not to eat leftovers. If the food is cooked too much, she throws it away. But Xiao Gang is a very economical guy. He felt it was a pity to throw away the food, so he didn't take her words seriously.

Half a year has passed in an instant. Xiao Gang's mother thought that she hadn't seen her son for a long time, so she brought some earth eggs when she went to Wuhan. Unexpectedly, her mother came the next day.

Mother-in-law came to visit, mother-in-law brought leftovers, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law came.

The next day, Xiaogang's mother said that her mother had finally come. She wants to show off and show her mother her cooking. Xiaoyu is very happy. My mother-in-law was busy for a long time. When she was having dinner in the afternoon, her mother-in-law actually gave Xiaoyu and her mother a bowl of leftovers respectively.

Xiaoyu was angry when she saw that her mother-in-law and Xiaogang were both fresh meals. She poured all the leftovers in front of her mother-in-law, and then her mother-in-law quarreled. She felt that this was a slap in the face of her mother-in-law and deliberately embarrassed her.

I didn't expect Xiaogang's mother to plausibly say: I let you and your mother eat leftovers, and you want to throw them away? Why did you let my son eat leftovers? Have you ever done this for your wife? Son eats leftovers, right? How many times have I been here? Every time I see my son eating leftovers, you are always eating fresh food. Do you think you can do whatever you want because my son is so spoiled? Don't you care about my son?

It turned out that her mother-in-law was angry for this reason, and Xiaoyu felt very wronged, because Xiaogang was always responsible for fixing the leftover food, and Xiaogang didn't complain, and Xiaoyu ignored it. Her mother-in-law's words made her wake up. Although Xiaogang is happy to eat leftovers and never complains, she has never considered her husband's feelings. Whenever her husband eats leftovers, she never stops. Xiaoyu realized that she didn't care about her husband too much.

The daughter-in-law realized her mistake and took the initiative to apologize, and the family made up.

Xiao Huan apologized to Xiaogang and her mother-in-law that day, and her mother-in-law didn't care. In fact, Xiaogang's mother just wants to tell Xiaoyu that she should care more about her son and her feelings.

After all this, Xiaoyu has a better relationship with her mother-in-law, and she cares more about Xiaogang.

Xiaoyu is a rich girl. She married Xiaogang with ordinary conditions. Because he never does housework, Xiaogang undertakes all the housework. This shows that Xiaogang is a good man. Xiaoyu knows that her husband is busy, so she learns to cook. Because of inexperience, there will be leftovers every day. Xiaogang scrimped and saved, and took the initiative to clean up the leftovers. What a nice man he is.

Xiaogang never complained about leftover food, but after her mother-in-law knew about it, she educated Xiaoyu through profound comparison, so that Xiaoyu's mother could feel the feeling of leftover food, thus letting Xiaoyu realize her mistake.

A deliberate arrangement by her mother-in-law taught Xiaoyu a lot of truth and made Xiaoyu understand that husband and wife should know tolerance, understanding and care. Fortunately, Xiaoyu can understand her mother-in-law's painstaking efforts and realize her mistakes in time. Her mother-in-law is also a reasonable person. After a meal, she resolved their resentment and eventually grew up. This shows that when mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, sometimes they can take a step back and broaden their horizons.

I think couples, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law learn to put themselves in their shoes. Take Xiaoyu to let Xiaogang eat leftovers, so that her mother-in-law will feel uncomfortable when she sees it. She thinks that her son has no family and is too bullying. If Xiaoyu can look at this problem from the perspective of her mother-in-law, then Xiaoyu may realize that it is wrong.

In fact, Xiaogang's mother is also a very wise old man. In order to make Xiaoyu realize the mistake of this matter, she let Xiaoyu experience the feeling of her mother eating leftovers, which made her feel like her mother-in-law saw her son eating leftovers. Through this personal experience, Xiaoyu can understand her mother-in-law's mood.

In fact, this matter is also a trivial matter. In the end, the reason why mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can make up is that both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will understand and make concessions, and know how to give each other a step down. If the mother-in-law can do this, how can there be contradictions?