Have you ever been tricked by Zhenai.com?

I have registered with Jiayuan. I believe the routine is the same, so I would like to share it with you. Because I wanted to find my other half, I registered. As soon as I registered, a prompt came: An excellent man has sent you a message. Take a look. I looked at it carefully and responded carefully to each one, and soon found something was wrong. Because there are only a few questions that come and go: I like traveling, will you travel around the world with me; I am filial to the elderly, will you come with me? Anyway, the idea is, I have a lot of money and love to enjoy myself. Would you like to follow me and enjoy it every day without having to go to work? This puzzles me and is so unreal. Then, the system tells you that the number of information you can view for free has been used up and you need to recharge. And keep reminding you that a man is showing his favor to you. Ignore it decisively. Then the matchmaker called and asked to pay to join the club. Since I was already suspicious, I wouldn't be fooled. N years have passed like this, and I gradually forgot about this matter. My mobile phone often receives calls from people selling real estate. That day, another call came from "Century Garden". I always wondered where this real estate was? I didn't understand, so I asked: Where is your property located? People say it's a good match, matchmaker. Oh, it suddenly dawned on me: I was deceiving someone about that good opportunity. The other party hung up immediately and no contact was made again.

My personal experience: Ads on Zhenai.com are everywhere. When I check my phone and see ads, I just click on it and enter my phone number, which adds to the mess. Okay, I’ll call you until you get annoyed. , until you go to the store, you are mainly single and in need of a partner. In addition, their so-called chief matchmaker is really good at eloquence. Seeing that I am hesitant about the price, I use her year-end bonus points to fund becoming theirs. Member, we chatted from 1 pm to 8 pm. People followed you when you went to the toilet. They used bombing tactics to delay time and make you tired. I paid 23,800 yuan and served for 6 months. At least 6 men were arranged to meet. 6 If you are not suitable after a few months, the service period will end. After the money is paid, another matchmaker will be hired to connect with you. Before paying the money, I will show you some photos of high-quality male members to make you tempted. Anyway, in the end you will You can't see the men you are attracted to. I arranged to meet two men, both of whom were inconsistent with my requirements. I immediately woke up. This is their routine. After Baidu, I found out that Zhenai.com has too many stores across the country. Moreover, there were complaints at every store. I immediately asked for a refund. I disagreed and said that I took the initiative to terminate the contract. Fortunately, I collected a lot of refund incidents from various places and pointed out their overbearing clauses. It is illegal to have multiple contracts. Regarding consumer rights, in the end, my classmates who moved out to work in the TV station gave them free advertising before agreeing to refund. They are afraid that you will go to the store to cause trouble, because there are many fools who will be fooled and go to the store, so now, as long as they see advertisements with "Treasure" Information, complain immediately, complain once every time!

A best friend of mine spent 18,800 to sign up, but all the blind dates she got were the wrong ones. The first blind date made an appointment to meet in a park at noon in the summer. You may wonder why they met in a park for their first date. The main reason was that they were afraid of spending money.

The second blind date was said to be a university teacher, but after meeting, she found out that the man was 10 years older than her. The man said that he had no car, no house, and no savings. Ask your bestie if she would dislike it. My best friend does have a house and a car, but she can’t let an old man live in vain!

After two blind dates, my best friend became angry and questioned the staff of Zhenai.com. The result was that they gave up and made various excuses, and promised to continue to introduce high-quality men. In short, after all is said and done, there is no refund. 18800 was wasted like this!

Later, my best friend still fell in love, and she found her by herself, with a colleague at work. Don’t sign up and be fooled if you have too much money. Most of the blind dates there are trustworthy. Single men and women, please do not blindly believe in advertisements, or be careful of damaging your wallet!

After reading everyone’s answers, I would like to share my personal opinions:

1. The person I hate most in my life is a liar. Whenever I encounter a liar, I really use the technique of using a thousand pounds to move four ounces to kill him, and I take the initiative.

2. I have registered with Zhenai.com before, but there is a feeling that the staff have been lobbying you hard. I am disgusted with this lobbying. Moreover, the quality of these staff is extremely low. This He is not qualified enough to lobby me, which is an insult to me. I don't want to say it's bad, but I really can't say anything complimentary about it.

3. Later, I also published it in the newspaper, but the effect was not good, and then I registered on a relatively famous dating website (I cannot say the name of this website, so as not to say that I am a stooge or an advertisement for others) , succeeded.

4. I think this is the information age. The younger generation is almost inseparable from mobile phones, computers, and the Internet all day long. Moreover, the population flow is extremely large, and many areas have immigrants. The population is even larger than the local population. If you rely solely on the previous model of introductions from acquaintances to go on a blind date, your contact area will be quite narrow. Even if you publish it in newspapers, it will no longer keep up with the times. Therefore, the Internet platform is indeed a good choice, but it is a helpless choice. .

5. This end of the network is the real you, and the other end of the network is also a he. Of course, this he is not virtual, but it may not be real. You can be sure that no one will casually treat themselves All real things, especially privacy, are put online casually so that anyone who doesn’t know them can clearly see them. But one thing is certain, on this network, there is a you who has such needs on one end, and there is also a person who has the same needs on the other end. Both you and him want to find the right partner for you. ——This fact has nothing to do with any website. Internet scammers use the platform to defraud, and the platform deceives subjectively are two different things.

6. Since both men and women have the same need to find a partner. However, you cannot trust the content on the Internet (even if you rely on the website staff, it is not reliable), then you can only rely on your own identification. In fact, it is not difficult to identify. Even if an acquaintance introduces you, you still need your consent before getting married, right? You can definitely use your brain and think of ways to identify people on the Internet.

7. There are many identification methods, for example,

(1) Appearance. Appearance comes from the heart. Appearance deposits a person’s history and inner world. From the appearance, one can gain insight into a person’s personality. A person’s true personality.

(2) Speech and behavior. Human character has memory, and human actions also have memory. The memory of this action is deeper, stronger and more direct than the memory of the brain. Through subconscious actions, one can identify a person's true face. This is more accurate than anything else. Even a professionally trained spy will reveal his true colors through inadvertent subconscious actions or words and deeds. This identification method was widely used in anti-special operations in the early days of liberation. For example, there was once a woman who asked three questions on the Internet to recruit a bride. I remember one of them was "How to accurately calculate my hair?" This is a very good method. Anyone who can pass this level will definitely not be a liar. You can also think about your topic carefully and wait and see how it changes. You can know the general possibility by watching the other party's reaction.

(3) Birds of a feather flock together and people divide into groups. You find someone who is comparable to you at your own level of ability and is a good match for each other. A BMW car towing a wooden cart behind it made no one feel comfortable. Therefore, on the Internet, you should not be greedy or dream about getting something for nothing through marriage. You will become a fairy overnight. Then, no one can deceive you.

I have already mentioned the rest in Wukong’s answer, so I won’t repeat it. In general, the Internet is the platform of the times and a helpless choice, and the same is true for the people on the other side. There is nothing wrong with the Internet. The website may have its purpose, but it does not affect the fact that you have the same needs as him in reality. The key is to identify yourself carefully and don’t dream of becoming a fairy overnight, otherwise you won’t be deceived.

I have also told my students many times that times have changed. After you go out to work, you should actively contact some people and actively fall in love, but don’t have the mentality of love at first sight or success in one love. , to accumulate more experience for yourself. Failure in love is better than failure in marriage. Don't stop falling in love because you are afraid of failure in love.

Me too, I have met Jiayuan before. On one condition, I am not a liar, but I am not very interested. I met another guy. He had evil intentions when we first met. We made an appointment to have dinner, and he reacted when we came out of the toilet. You know how to [cover your face], oh my god. I was so scared that I quickly found an excuse and ran away. The third one looks like he is in his thirties in the photo, but in real life he looks like he is in his fifties. When we met for the first time, he told me that he was the general manager of a listed company and that I wanted to be friends with him. 4 million, and he also gave me a sports car and a shop, but I ended up eating for 168. I checked the bill for five minutes and blocked him when I got back.

But I have a friend whose husband was found on Baihe.com. They have been married for five or six years. My friend is very beautiful. Although the man is not handsome, he is worth tens of millions. Neither man nor woman is a liar. It is one of the few successful cases and requires luck.

I have used both Zhenai and Jiayuan, and I have used almost all domestic dating platforms. I have full say in this, but Among domestic dating platforms, the most deceptive thing is not Cherish Lily. The flower fields will make you cry without tears. They all feel like fake people. Even in the early days of Asian dating, you can still talk to real people.

Although Jiayuan has a poor reputation in China, it was still reliable during the years I used it. Others say that there are many scammers in good relationships, but I have never met any of them. I marked this in my self-introduction: "I am engaged in the psychology industry, and I stay away from ghost hunters and monsters in love." Marking this information is to hint at potential potential. Liars, don't come looking for death, don't waste time and energy on me, the effect is very good, I haven't met any of them.

Many people use these platforms with the mentality of free prostitution. Like Jiayuan, when you start to register, the system will give you some stamps so that you can communicate with others, but these stamps are not Minutes run out. As the saying goes, if you are reluctant to let go of your children, you will never catch a wolf. The same goes for blind dates. You are too lazy to pay the cost, so you still want to cast a wide net and focus on training? This was not a blind date gesture, so whenever I used these platforms, I would recharge. I wanted efficiency. But even if I recharged on Lily Treasure, it was useless. I felt that there were more scammers there. Why? Because I spent money, I should at least meet someone among the vast number of blind date candidates who I can talk to, right? But no, there are a lot of zombie objects on Cherish Lily. Once the message is sent, they either don’t reply or pretend to be dead. What’s more, the system will push some robots to you, for example, objects that you have never seen or contacted at all. , will send you a letter out of nowhere, saying thank you for your message, thank you for reading his message. In fact, this is all directed and performed by the platform system. Its purpose is to let you top up money and make you active. Jiayuan also has this It's a problem, but relatively minor. This kind of routine is very tempting for people who have an urgent need for blind dates - when you are worried that others will not contact you, the system suddenly mercifully sends you a wave of suitable partners in all aspects. what would you do? You must contact others. If you contact someone, you have to pay money to become a member.

Of course, there are benefits to opening a membership. For example, opening a diamond membership, the usage patterns of Baihe True Love Jiayuan are similar. My usage posture has several tags: age range, geographical range, single, divorced without children, and bachelor degree or above. Set these conditions, search, and the system will recommend a large number of girls who meet the conditions for you. The rest is to send the pre-edited words to a group. Then start getting lucky and wait for beautiful women to contact you. If you don’t have a member and plan to engage in prostitution for free on the blind date, you’ll have to look for a needle in a haystack. On a platform like Jiayuan, there are still a lot of potential partners, and you may be tired of choosing one by one.

My love luck has always been good, so my success rate in blind dates is very high. I mainly use the two platforms Jiayuan and MarryU. I have played on other platforms, including Baihe Zhenai, and even 58.com and the second-hand information network. They are all a bit nonsense. I met a woman on 58.com. She was having a hot time with my child. As soon as I found out, I immediately blocked her and uninstalled the software. Overall, Jiayuan is pretty good. Jiayuan and later Baihe cherished these, but there are actually two reasons for the poor reputation. The first is that the platform is not strictly audited. Some women on it cheat money and goods, and some men cheat for free sex. The second is the personal personal feelings of the blind daters. The problem, as far as society as a whole is concerned, is that people who are eager for success and greedy for advantages are always the easiest to be deceived. Although scammers are clever in their deception, many of the problems lie within themselves, because some people have a constitution that makes them easily deceived. .

The reason why I say that Jiayuan is actually pretty good. What is so good about Jiayuan? At that time, as long as the person you met on a blind date was not a liar, there was usually a verbal back and forth with the person. Whether they were suitable or not, everyone would screen them based on basic information and photos. If they were suitable, they would meet and have a meal. , make an appointment, and if it’s not suitable, we won’t talk anymore and continue to look for a new partner. Everyone is very purposeful. This is why I say that a good match is pretty reliable. People who are serious about finding a partner on it are very serious. , inappropriate, and I will never talk nonsense to you.

I went on a blind date with a dozen girls on Jia Yuan, many of whom we met and had dinner with, and five or six of whom became friends in real life. In other words, everyone thought it was okay online, but in real life I thought it would be better to be friends, so I became friends. There was a girl among them, she was very funny. She was on blind dates with several men, including me, and they all became close friends. At that time, she also wanted us to get married, but I thought we could wait and let it go.

The last time I used Jiayuan was a few years ago. I saw my current wife on Jiayuan, so I contacted her decisively. After contacting her, we met, dated, got married, and had a baby. I’ve omitted the process, it’s more or less the same and everyone has experienced it. So from my experience, a good relationship can still be trusted. The premise is that you must have a certain degree of confidence in yourself and have the awareness and skills to guard against wolves and scammers. If you don’t even have the ability to identify the target, it will be difficult for you to date online and in person. What’s the difference between a blind date in reality?

If you want to go on a blind date online, when it comes time to meet, be open and honest, ask the other person to tell you their ID card and work unit, report to each other, and then check in person, don't be embarrassed. When I go on a blind date, I just show my ID card and report it to my workplace. Truth is always the most important step. Any behavior that defends falsehoods or conceals the truth must be zero tolerance, no matter how suitable this person is for you. , don’t be a bitch first.

Finally, let me talk about MarryU. This one is okay. A year before I met my wife, I met a second-generation official on it. He was beautiful and had good conditions, but he had a glassy heart and was an ancestor. , we got along for a year, and I resigned, naked. This platform is not as big as Jiayuan. It was originally made by individual developers and has gradually developed. There are some quality objects in it, and of course you need to screen them.

Finally, when online blind dates are difficult to succeed, almost all platforms will prepare offline services for you. I tried it once, and it cost 9,800 yuan. To be honest, I think offline services are probably more efficient. A little higher, but the matchmaking skills of those matchmakers are not even as good as mine. I met the girl several times, but I couldn't resist the persistent stalking of the marketers. In the end, it was better not to see her.

The platform's offline meeting process is as follows: the date will be set at the platform's offline service outlet, usually near the business district. The houses in the outlet are all cubicles, and the matchmaker will make an appointment for both parties on time. Arrive at the scene, go through the identity authentication process, and then chat with your partner in a closed room. The success of the chat depends on fate. It doesn't mean that just because a partner is arranged for you, it will definitely work out. Some people may think that there will be a lot of support in this situation. In fact, it is very difficult to be a support person. As long as anyone is interested, it is easy to find the person who is dating repeatedly. Besides, this kind of offline matchmaking thing starts with a few thousand fees, and can reach tens of thousands. If someone has a platform, they will be responsible for you to some extent.

In short, don’t be afraid of blind dates. No matter where you go on a blind date, whether on a platform or in reality, you must be willing to spend money. Secondly, you must practice the art of observing people. If you are deceived, it must be because you have learned the art. You're not smart, why haven't others been deceived? It’s better to think more about your own problems.

Last year, I saw an advertisement for Zhenai.com on Douyin. I clicked on it out of curiosity and left a phone number. The next morning, a staff member called and said that a boy was very interested in me. The staff invited me to meet at the store to talk about the basic situation. I specifically asked if there was a fee. The person who called at the time said it was free and then went. When I met the matchmaker, I asked about basic information, such as work, etc., and then showed me pictures of successful proposals that they introduced. After looking at the proposals, I looked at the photos of high-quality male members, and asked me what type of boys I like. After I said that, I started to say that becoming a member can introduce you to the boys you like in the photos. Then he started to lie, saying that you should find a boy with better conditions because of your good conditions. No matter how fancy the matchmaker said, the only purpose was to get me to become a member of 18888. I have always thought that I was just an ordinary person, and I never thought about looking for someone rich, handsome, and so I thought it was too unreliable at the time, so I refused decisively. Then three people took turns to participate, and in the end I didn't become a member. After that, I called him every day to brainwash him. On the third day, I was so annoyed that I just told him that he had found a boyfriend. He was introduced by a classmate and never called me again.

Century Jiayuan is a scam store. Do not go to offline stores and try to persuade you to pay. After paying, you will randomly recommend two people, and they are not members, and then ignore them. Don't be fooled!

Those who charge fees are all scams

I am a member of Zhenai.com, and I only signed up after being persuaded by my relatives and children. I think I have to be careful to distinguish the information. If it is a public institution or civil servant, it is easier to identify. I talked to a few and checked to see if they were real people, but they were all eager to meet. I won't meet without talking to a certain extent. You can brag about other professions—I don’t care. However, no matchmaker called me. But after your membership expires, the platform will continue to send you messages. Who sends you messages and who matches you. You were so excited that you paid another 388 yuan in membership fees. After submitting, there will be no information. Now, I only look at it occasionally, but I think it is not registered. I don’t think about it anymore, I feel comfortable living alone.