How to comfort a girl who has a crush on you when you are lovelorn? Can I chase her?

I believe many people have the experience of secretly loving others. If a boy happens to meet a girl who has a crush on him, it is actually a good opportunity to show his love. Be sure to comfort him and don't chase her.

How to comfort a girl who has a secret crush?

1), when she confides in you, you don't have to say anything or do anything, just listen carefully and nod your head occasionally. At this time, accompanying her and listening carefully is the best comfort.

2) If she says she wants to get drunk or sing karaoke, then you can accompany her to meet her requirements and let her vent her emotions.

3) Remember that it is enough for you to vent with her once. Don't listen to her endlessly every time, or you will become an emotional trash can inadvertently.

The girl who secretly loves me is lovelorn. Can I chase her?

Don't chase it. The girl just lost love and lost control of her emotions. The negative emotions of sadness are bound to haunt her. It's normal for you to want to comfort her when you have a crush. You might think, "I'll comfort her and stay with her, so maybe I can be with her." It is human nature to have such an idea.

But what I want to tell you is: "it takes a while for a lovelorn person to get out of emotional trauma." Your comfort at this time can't make her feel good about you. Although it seems to be a warm man and a gentleman's behavior, your comfort will only strengthen her psychological consciousness. I am unhappy, sad and depressed. Instead of playing a positive comforting role, it will aggravate her sad and sad negative emotions. " Besides, you know, sexual intercourse depends on attraction. Women value feelings very much in love. It doesn't mean that you comfort her, accompany her, please her, and she will feel the taste of love from you. On the contrary, you may become a woman's emotional trash can and fall into the role of a spare tire, making it difficult to turn over.

What should I do if the girl I secretly love is lovelorn?

1, listening partner

A lovelorn girl is bound to be sad. Don't ask her, "Why did you break up? Why are you so sad? " At this time, let her cry enough to vent the negative emotions accumulated in her heart. If she always advances her boyfriend in front of you, you should take the initiative to change the subject or make a clear statement. You can say to her, "Don't mention the past, I don't want to see you sad." If you want to successfully attract her curiosity and affection for you, you must dare to say no and challenge her initiative.

Step 2 provide a good mood

When a girl's mood is stable, it is best to bring her positive energy and happy good mood, so that unpleasant things can be put down in her heart as soon as possible. When she is in a happy mood, she will only dilute the sad memories. On the other hand, she can create memories between you. If a girl is a foodie who can't resist the temptation of food, then you can take her to explore food together; If this girl is an artistic young woman, you can take her to a movie or an art exhibition. If a girl's personality is reserved, then you can take a walk and climb mountains with her to relax.

The wrong way to comfort a girl who has a crush on love.

1, "Your ex-boyfriend is really a scum. It's so kind of you that he has the heart to abandon you. Such scum doesn't deserve your love at all, let alone your sadness for him. " The above is to comfort her by scolding her ex-boyfriend, but have you ever thought that the reason why she cries so sadly is not because she still loves this man in her heart? Comfort her like this may not understand your kindness at all, and may even break up your friendship.

2, "Don't cry, don't be sad, don't be sad ..." Imagine a lovelorn person not sad? If you comfort her like this, you may cry, and the sad situation will get out of hand.

3. "You don't need to feel sorry for such a person. Besides, you still have me, and I will always be by your side. " This kind of comfort is actually a confession of changing relative girls. The subtext is like saying, "You are my goddess. If I like you, I will be your spare tire." Once you become a spare tire, it is difficult to turn over.