If the communication between children and parents is not smooth, both sides will be very painful. What if the child refuses to communicate with his parents?

In any case, parents and children are the closest relationship. If communication is not smooth, both sides will suffer. Each of us should reflect on the present situation and take the initiative to communicate, exchange and untie. If you can't communicate well, you can find someone you trust and let them go there. Day after day, inner suffering is the most painful and should be taken seriously.

First of all, create some pleasant and warm scenes to communicate with children. We often see parents educating their children while eating on TV, scolding their children in public, and teaching their children in front of teachers and classmates in school classes. In fact, these are all inappropriate practices. Parents usually communicate with their children in inappropriate and inappropriate occasions, which is of course counterproductive.

Second, when children enter the rebellious period of adolescence, parents should correct their relationship with their children. Parenting is not a job, not a carpenter, but a gardener who grows flowers. The essence is love. The purpose of this kind of love is to give children a safe, warm and free environment and make them different.

Third, parents usually need to know more about their children and know what they like and are more interested in. After knowing his preferences, you can look up some information about it. In this way, your children will have a common language and topic. When your child talks about something that interests him, he may be able to talk about it. This can not only communicate, but also enhance the parent-child relationship.

Fourth, let the children finish, and you can also express your views. Remember not to expel the child directly, but let the child accept your opinion. Because she is an independent individual with her own ideas and opinions. Even if you force him to accept your opinion according to his current cognition, he may not have the right opinion. Under the pressure and authority of his parents, he may have to agree. In his mind, he may not accept it. Moreover, he will not be willing to share some of his ideas with you in the future, because what he said is also in vain and may be scolded by his parents.

Fifth, learn to listen to children's expressions, understand children's emotions and their "empathy". When children tell you happy things, you should be happy with them. When children encounter sad things, you should show understanding and propose solutions. The child will tell you later.