Is there anything you shouldn't say to your child? Will these words have a shadow on the child's psychology?

Foreword: When we educate our children, there are some things we can't say. Once said, it will do some harm to the child's psychology. Parents must pay attention, we need to pay attention to our words and deeds. Children can imitate, and their imitation ability is very strong. Maybe parents didn't realize their little habits, so they were learned by their children. The following small series will share with you what you can't say to your child?

First, it implies that parents don't want children. Many people have said this to their children. For example, mom prefers her brother to you. Some neighbors also like to play jokes on children, such as your parents don't want you. These jokes are funny to adults, but waiting in children's eyes is a kind of harm. These words are easy to say, and they can also achieve the expected purpose in children. However, these words are very harmful, and children are very dependent on their parents. When these words are said, children will lack a certain sense of security.

Second, label children. When children do something wrong, it is easy for parents to label their children with many bad labels, such as: You are a bad boy, why do you always hit people, and so on. If you talk too much, we will all agree that this child is a bad person in our hearts. But also give the child a hint that the child can't. We want our children to be good children, but these bad labels will make them what we say.

Third, it implies that children can't do it. Many families like frustration education. When children start learning, they have made progress, but their parents are still not satisfied. I even think that children are particularly bad and will be compared with children of the same age. Parents say this to encourage their children, but it does great harm to them. Children often feel that their qualifications are average, and no matter how hard they try, there is no way to satisfy their parents.