Du Fei in "Love in the Rain" is romantic and dedicated, why is he not worthy of trust?

The ending of "Love is Deep and Rainy" is very satisfying, as perfect as a dream. But judging from the original work, it must be false, because Qiong Yao herself is not a romantic love story of the Republic of China. For example, Ping's suicide, Shu Huan and the scorer, and wandering overseas for half a lifetime, this is their truest ending. Perhaps taking into account the influence of the TV series adaptation, the screenwriter made a lot of changes and added many comedy elements, the most obvious of which is the character of Duffy.

Du Fei is set as He Shuhuan's good brother, and he is also a person who is good at making jokes and regulating emotions. Her efforts to pursue Ru Ping became a big joke in the TV series, and her wedding to Ru Ping was a scandal. Compared with Chen Hao who abandoned Yunke from beginning to end, Shu Han wavered between Ru Ping and Yi Ping. Du Fei only had eyes for Ru Ping from beginning to end, and her loyalty alone was enough to keep others away. However, I think Duffy still lost, he just chose Ru Ping to be second best. Whether he can be promoted to the first place in Ru Ping's heart in the future depends on his efforts.

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In fact, when I was watching this drama, I had this question: Du Fei's appearance is not bad, and his character is very good. Compared to He Shuhuan, who is very thoughtful, he looks silly and gives people a sense of security. He has many advantages. Even when he found out that He Shuhuan and Ru Ping were ambiguous, he had no objection. When He Shuhuan encountered difficulties, he reached out to help. Such a good man, especially with He Shuhuan, I don't understand why Ru Ping didn't choose him. After many reviews, I realized that Du Fei may be impeccable as a friend, but he is not suitable as a partner.

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First of all, the most realistic point is family background. Du Fei, who also works in a newspaper, compared with He Shuhuan, who received higher education since childhood, his temperament reveals that he comes from a small rural area. Although we all know that family background cannot explain a person's character and future development, for Yi Xue, who is standing behind Ru Ping, she is unwilling to endure such suffering for her daughter and Du Fei. Secondly, it's Du Fei's character. It's not about how bad his temper is, but the flaws in his character that can affect his future.

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Du Fei, who has an impatient personality, has just taken a job as a reporter that requires high emotional intelligence. So when he goes out for interviews, he often conflicts with the other party. Either the camera is smashed, or he offends others, which brings a lot of trouble to the newspaper. From this perspective, Du Fei is not a reporter, but he still goes all the way to the dark side, which shows that Du Fei is very stubborn. The same goes for Ru Ping, who pursues loneliness and bravery. Such persistence can be interpreted as obsession, but on the other hand it can also be interpreted as paranoia and fear.

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In contrast, He Shuhuan's maturity and stability make it easier to win the favor of the opposite sex. This kind of personality can give the opposite sex a sense of security. In the adult love world, reliability is easier to win favor than romance. Du Fei didn't seem to get Ru Ping's favor by giving gifts or making Ru Ping happy. It's not that he didn't give it well, it's just that Ru Ping wanted it. Duffy's gift was the right gift, but it was given to the wrong person. This also proved that he and Ru Ping were really from two different worlds. If it weren't for Ru Ping's family accident, even if she didn't choose He Shuhuan, she might have married another man who suited her family.

Du Fei's feelings for Ru Ping are as low as dust. Just lowering his attitude will not attract the love of the opposite sex. This is why many people hate dog licking. Du Fei's love for thoughtfulness makes him regard him as a natural spare tire, which is naturally like being ignorant, but Du Fei does not show his importance. He felt that as long as he could stay with Ru Ping, how could Ru Ping take his love to heart?

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A trustworthy partner needs to be reliable and mature, and most importantly, he must have confidence in himself; we can make friends with various personalities, but when it comes to marriage, Marrying has to be put into practice in the end.