How to get my boyfriend back?

How to make an appointment, how to make an appointment, in what way, and how to deal with some situations? How to improve your relationship in dating?

Just dating is useless. You have to improve your relationship after the date. That's all that matters.

The first stage is self-description.

What we do is pave the way for consistency. At first, we made a self-description. I want to be friends with you. In the first stage of this month, there are about eight exchange opportunities a month. We are doing consistency for eight communications.

Because you know, at the beginning, it was the other party who rejected you, not you. I often joke. You didn't dig his ancestral grave. Why does he hate you? He hates you only because of an emotion or instinct, and instinctively rejects you. Why does he instinctively reject and guard against you?

First, you have the identity of an ex-girlfriend, an unhappy experience with him before, and an understanding of you. He thinks that you brought him this unpleasant experience, so it is unpleasant to contact and communicate with you. I don't want to be sad.

Don't want to be saved by you, don't want to be worn by you, don't want to waste my good mood, and don't want to ruin my good mood when chatting with you, so he refuses to communicate with you. So this person is really rejecting you at this time, and this rejection is not fake.

So we need to make friends through a self-description, give each other a step and an excuse to accept you, and then show him a different self every time according to our eight communication, breaking his previous cognition of you, breaking his expectation, breaking his cognition of you, showing his new side every time and providing him with positive emotions.

Then after eight times, boys may think that you are not as bad as I thought before. Is it because I had too little contact with you before, or have you really changed? At this time, he has an idea in his heart and wants to continue to fall in love with you, but remember that this is just an idea, but it is good to have an idea. I'll do it if I have an idea. How can we make him make it a reality?

The second stage is to show your value.

Let's ask him out on a date, let him know more about you through dating contact, let us show our emotional value, even sexual value, and then let him turn this idea into the world and let him catch up with you.

When we can communicate with you normally and let our guard down, we will start to look for obvious signs that the other party will no longer reject you. As long as the other party doesn't refuse you, you can send an invitation. When can I make the first appointment? At the end of the first stage, the other party will no longer refuse to communicate with you, and will not test whether you are wasting it. You can try the first invitation.

First, how to make an appointment?

At the beginning of the first invitation, you must find a reason and an excuse. This is the same as self-description. We need to find an excuse for the other party to accept, interact with us to accept and communicate with us. We need to make excuses for each other to come out and make excuses.

For example, maybe the other person is good at choosing clothes for girls, but of course the average boy is not. I am just giving an example. Please help me choose a dress.

If you find that the first invitation can't be sent, give an appropriate reason. If the steps are not done, it can only show that the other party still has scruples about you. The bedding and comfort you did in the first stage are not enough. Go back and do it again.

Don't be time-oriented. Maybe your situation is different from others. Maybe your conflicts have accumulated for three years. Others have accumulated for three months, and they can ask out in the first month. I can't make an appointment for three years.

Don't look at the time to see the effect. If the effect is not good, we would rather take it slowly, don't worry, just hold your horses, and we must hold our horses when we are rescued.

If you find that the first invitation can't be made, it can only be that your previous preparations are not done well and exposed, which makes the other party suspicious. The waste test failed, so we have to go back and do it again.

This is the date time. When we went on the first two dates, we had to find a reason to ask each other for help. If you can't find the reason, then think about Baidu yourself.

Only you know the communication and life between you best, and only you can understand it. If you think with your head and your heart, you will certainly come up with a very good method. When you are careful, it is also a process of learning and paying.

You should learn to stop thinking about letting others help you, and learn to pay with your own feelings in your own way. This is your own emotion, you should learn to give.

At the beginning of the invitation, there is such a taboo: don't go with you two, it is best to find a friend, even two friends, and it is best to go out with four people.

These four people went to play or did something. If you show your emotional value, let him have a look, find a few people to date and make excuses. How long can it last? Two or three times! It is best not to go out alone for the first three times and the first two times. Find a few friends and lower your guard against each other!

It will also break each other's expectations. At first, the other party wanted to ask if you asked me out alone. As a result, when I saw several people in the past, the other party first had a feeling of expecting to be broken and was a little lost. I thought your sister couldn't forget me, but she still wanted to date me. As a result, I saw a bunch of people after the appointment, and my heart was half cold. Look at me!

At this time, if she thinks too much, just like when we first described ourselves, she thought you didn't want to let go. As a result, you suddenly called me a friend, and he fell behind. At this time, he wants to catch you. Next time you ask him out alone, he will be more active.

Like what am I going to do? You come with me. No dating. You can do whatever you want as long as you don't mention dating. You can think of any reason. Don't mention that I'm going out with you. Don't mention it at first. When you start for the first time, you should find some friends to go with you. You'd better go with the group.

Then show yourself in this group, show your emotional value and concentrate. From the fourth time, when a person is dating, I can suddenly find an evening or weekend and tell her what I want to eat. Can you go out for dinner with me? I'm in a little bad mood. Just ask him out and see if I can ask him out. Don't go unless you go out. Just go with him.

If you don't go, we'll make bedding when we invite you next time, which shows that this bedding is not enough. Every time we invite you not to hug me, we get him out. I don't think so. Every time is a temptation. No, I'll change it next time. If you can ask him out alone, you can ask him out alone

Second, when is the appointment?

Invite on weekends, make an offer on Saturday and Sunday, and be sure to say it on Thursday!

I can't say on Friday. A lot of girls will do. I will invite you on Friday. Why not? What do you think we will do on Friday night? There will be all kinds of friends sharing all kinds of activities, playing cards tomorrow, playing football tomorrow, shooting arrows or riding horses tomorrow, or going skiing or soaking feet tomorrow.

Many male friends will reserve board games, games and various venues for you, and the leader will treat you to dinner or something, which means that his venue will be full after four o'clock on Friday night, and basically filming will start from four to five o'clock.

There is a critical invitation time. If you want to go out with him on Saturday and Sunday, you must make an appointment on Thursday, starting from Thursday afternoon, after Wednesday afternoon, or before 1 1 on Friday morning.

If you have an appointment on Thursday afternoon and Friday morning, be sure to remind him again. It doesn't matter if you make an appointment at another time. I said the weekend, and then why.

If it's Friday morning, how to remind each other? You can say whether I should wear this shoe or that shoe to go out with you today. If it looks good in that skirt, it still looks good in this skirt. Ask him. Remind him indirectly that we have an appointment today.

We found the date. In what way and for what reason do we ask each other out? As I said just now, you can accompany me to buy a dress, or you can help me fix the heating, help me with my things, and help me fix a bookshelf.

Be sure to find something that the other person can't refuse and must be done by the boy so that he can go with you. The first invitation must be like this. No matter whether the previous discussion is good or not, the first invitation is likely to be rejected.

What if I refuse?

You can play a little trick, play a little trick, you can do this. We have an appointment on Thursday. Tell him that you will move with me on Saturday and I will move at home on Saturday. I really can't move. Can you help me? Then I said I had something to do on Saturday. I may have to work out the details. Can we take a rain check?

Do you think you are free on Sunday? Or next Monday is fine. You can give it to her again, say next time. At this time, I felt that the other party would feel guilty. You said you just refused once, you said it again, and then handed it in. Be thick-skinned, do it step by step, and then arrange time. At this time, the other party has an 80% chance to promise you.

If you still don't agree, well, we'll talk next time. Thank you. Have a good time. Bye. Respond politely, respect each other's decision and leave politely.

3. How often do you date?

Once a week, not too often. And the first time you two went out alone, looking for a coffee shop and a restaurant. Even if you pay for it yourself, don't let him send it, but stay relaxed and happy throughout the chat!

Make the other person comfortable, make the other person feel comfortable and energetic to communicate with you. If your position in the other person's heart is a little too high at first, then you should brush cute and pity, say something soft, show your gentle and lovely sister side, and then take it and lift it up immediately.

Let's get this straight, because you won't be Mrs. A Qing, you will only expose your weakness a little, and then stop and talk about something else at once. The first time you just started dating, choose the place. If the distance between you two is ten kilometers, put it five kilometers away from you and him, and put it in the middle. Then after the date, gradually lead it to your home, bit by bit, once every kilometer, once every two kilometers, gradually lead it to your home, and finally let him come to you near your home.

At first, you can give him some usability, hold his hand and hug him, but it is best not to slap him. You should show your sexual value at the beginning of dating. You can dress him up beautifully and sexy, and you can seduce him. It doesn't matter, but don't hit him. If he asks you, why don't you slap me, then what is our relationship now? We are friends. Don't do this to me.

If he questions you, why don't you slap him? Just tell him that I feel good and safe when I hold hands, hug and kiss with you, but I don't think my present state is suitable for developing intimate relationship with you! After this sentence, change the subject and continue to show him the availability. I will continue to hang him until he kneels for you. Almost hit him.

Fourth, what should I do if I can't make an appointment?

1, the other party is really busy.

Distinguish whether the other party really has something to do or whether the other party doesn't want to come out. If something really happens to the other person, it only means that you chose the wrong time. Next time pick a time when the other person is free. Don't be discouraged. Don't think I can succeed in the first few times. I don't think so. Don't always hope that I will win. You are not a Japanese Kamikaze team. Don't bump into it like an ostrich. You can't make an appointment. It doesn't matter.

2. The other party doesn't want to come out

P 1- The other party is still refusing your comfort.

Your circle of friends is not painted properly. In most cases, there is no new love, that is, the circle of friends is not brushed in place. He's a man, right? He is not a monk, is he? He has no desire for women. I don't believe that he is in love with you! This is your own love, no one says you are lazy. This may be harsh, but it is practical. How to invite this? What should we do after the invitation? How to communicate with each other?

Don't expect to hook each other back in a word or two. Impossible, because people have done a lot of groundwork before, and the last thing I show you is the most brilliant.

P2-The other party has a new lover.

At this time, if the other party has a new lover and doesn't ask him out, I will tell you that your girlfriend is also in charge of this. I was not so narrow-minded before, and the poor child was so strict. Tie a heart anchor.

Nowadays, many girls make a particularly big mistake when tying the anchor, that is, they tie it with special force and check it with special care. You have to stab the other person into a hedgehog, he is not the target. Skills can't be seen by the other side, and if you let the other side say what you let the other side see, it's not called skills, and you will laugh.

He has to think about many things himself. Needless to say, when he touches his heart, he doesn't have to be particularly cruel unless he refutes that you are bad and very opposed to you. If the other party refutes you, it will give you the initiative to cancel the test. If the other party fiercely resists you, you must respond fiercely at this time. Don't be so timid!

You don't know what to say. You dare not say! You need to know what kind of mentality the other party is giving you a fierce initiative to cancel the test. You need to agree and seek comfort. Only when there is a demand for you and your heart is in a state of great fluctuation will you take the initiative to cancel the test.

P3- What should I do during the active waste test?

Rationalize him reasonably. Why do you think he is afraid of his wife? Why do you think his girlfriend cares about him? He turned you down fiercely, and so did you. You have to go back in time. Don't be a soft persimmon at this time.

In fact, this time is not the time to agree, this time is not the time to admit cowardice, this time the other party is hesitating, what should I do when hesitating? Rationalize usability, then take him away with a wave of your hand, let him follow his train of thought, and be sure to go back with him.

At this time, the other party will be persuaded by you next time. If that's true, then why did you refute it? Because that's his girlfriend, what you said is to bury his eyes, especially when he is with his ex-girlfriend, he will feel that his eyes are not good.

But if he doesn't tell you this at ordinary times, you must never say that the woman is not good. You say that the woman is not good, and you have already died. The other party will think that you have other ideas, and the other party will feel sick. Usually, you should praise that girl's kindness. It's poaching. It's a no-no on dating.

5. How to date and what to do? What to do on a date?

1, skilled in communication

P 1- conquer men

Conquer men. How come? In addition to conquering his desire, it is very important to take care of each other's vulnerability and sadness. Men also need to be cared for. Many girls make such mistakes. When the other person describes your sadness, they describe your vulnerability. It doesn't matter if you have a lot at this time. It will be all right in a couple of days. After you finish this sentence, I guess you can make the other person angry.

I feel sorry for these people. I finally think you have changed. Let me talk to you about my inner weakness. You say that. Empathy, by the same token, to conquer a man, you have to conquer his desire and accept the fragility and sadness of the other person. Men also need care. How can you accept it?

P2- Communication is emotional and produces * * * sounds.

What's this called? Zoom speech, bring the topic here with zoom speech, and make a * * * sound with each other, also called * * *. * * * sensibility, * * sex, and then encourage each other.

P3-Relieve stress by making fun of ourselves, each other, our relationship and saying something interesting.

If it's a rescue, what should I say when decompressing? Make fun of your relationship or your future, make fun of some interesting things around you, decompress each other, and finally be with yourself. What kind of state do you think you are in his heart at this time?

On a date, the other person may say such things to you.

The first is fairness, the second is learning to encourage, and the third is decompression.

Decompression can help Doby and Doby to talk about some pleasant experiences. Share some of the same experiences when you are in love. If not, make it up.

2. During the dating process, always give yourself three points of mystery and give the other person seven points of peace of mind.

If I tell you, I can kiss you, hug you and hold your hand. I just don't slap you, hold hands, hug and kiss you. These three are for your possibility and peace of mind. If you chase me, I may still be yours, but I won't slap you in the face and leave you with a mystery.

Why? If someone asks you why you don't slap me, you should tell them that we are friends now. I just feel comfortable hugging and kissing you, but I think you're right. We are really not suitable for developing intimate relationship. It's actually good for us to be friends. Give each other a push

And when I pull it back, I really don't want to fall in love now. I really feel quite comfortable. Can we just keep it that way? You should take care of me.

Leave three points of mystery and give the other party seven points of peace of mind. There are two knowledge points, one is called apposition. Do you know what appositive is? One is called screening pre-selection, and screening pre-selection plus parity. You will tell him that I have a suitor around me, you can describe the suitor around you, and you can send him a photo of a boy. I think this man is so handsome or something. It is the first time to play this with me every day!

Sometimes you give me pictures of boys for the first time. You feel so handsome. It does help, but don't use too much. If I am one of her suitors, I will feel bad, and I will live with this girl directly. If you followed me for the first time, why?

I'm telling you, when you were in the same position, you took pictures of others. Do you think this boy is handsome? I like her very much. How did we meet! But at this time, you are missing one step. How do you talk about appositive? Give the other party a pre-selection, and then do parity, and then the other party's shortcomings are your strengths, and your strengths are the other party's shortcomings, so that you can always have seven points available to balance the other party. Does the other person think you like others? The other party feels that it is not available, and many men give up directly.

Men are very concerned about needs and real life. At this time, you directly gave the availability. People think you are chasing someone else. At that time, I was impossible for you! Remember what we mean, as long as you play with other boys, don't move and die easily.

At this time, you must first learn to give each other usability. How to get is that the other person's shortcomings are your strengths, and the other person's strengths are the other person's shortcomings. You have to give each other availability in this way, and there is also pressure. If you say that, the other party will be smooth, and the other party thinks that I may continue to chase you myself. You hang this man like this.

Hanging boys will arouse men's desire and interest. If you want to hang them like this, don't shoot them to death at once, it's not fun. From a male point of view, between you and your boyfriend, your boyfriend is very insecure. Why?

Because you may do a lot of this kind of thing, you just filtered it and didn't give it usability. Remember to give it readability next time. Oral dialogue, do one piece in advance. Leave three points mysterious and seven points comfortable.

Don't completely expose yourself. I am yours. If a man thinks you are mine, he won't care. Leave some mystery, even when dating and communicating in peacetime. This is how the pre-selection should be played. This is the second stage. Always give yourself three points of mystery and seven points of peace of mind.

3. Only one of them is active in language or action. On the one hand, he can give, and the others are passive.

P1-active in language and passive in action.

What should we do in the first stage. Take the initiative in action, you always go to him, we take the initiative in language, which is what we did in the whole first stage, but we take the initiative in language, so shall we invite him? No invitation.

You take the initiative to invite me again in language. When you receive any feeling that you need to help me, you will put yourself into your own state! You've lost all the mystery. Why? Because the first stage is verbal attack, and you attack in action, then what are we going to play? What cards do you have to play? You have lost all your strength in the first stage, and all your emotions have been released.

P2-Active in action and passive in language.

What should I do at this stage? I can ask you out, but I won't chat with you Remember, as long as I can ask this boy out, I won't take the initiative to find you. Boys ask you, I talk to you, you don't talk to me, I still ask you out.

In the second stage, we should take the initiative in action and be passive in words. How can we reflect the sense of existence at this time? If the other party doesn't look for me, how can I show my sense of existence, how to praise the other party's circle of friends, and how to praise the other party's Weibo! Give each other space comments, Weibo comments, friends circle comments, friends circle likes, Weibo likes! Don't do anything else

If the other person still ignores you and brushes your circle of friends and Weibo, he will definitely look at your circle of friends and Weibo, and you will always brush your sense of existence.

The first phase of our language initiative has been completed. You don't need to do more. Eight times of communication is enough. Too much is boring. More, there is no mystery. Isn't it an emotion you are playing? Isn't our whole salvation to fuse each other's emotions? Is it interesting that you show all your cards to each other? How to play this game? It's like playing werewolf killing. You show all your cards. I know you are a wolf. I know what you are. What game are you playing? I guess what you are. This is the interesting part of this game.

Falling in love is the same as redemption. Let the other person guess what you think. All your thoughts are exposed before the other person guesses. The other party wants to guess whether you want to save him or not, and whether it is still interesting to him. In the process of guessing, the other party is just investing in your feelings. You exposed yourself before people could guess. What else does he invest in? This man thinks you are his in his heart, will he still care about you?

Men are very practical animals. So be sure to make one of them passive and never make mistakes again. In the first stage, I know many of you can make an appointment, but don't make an appointment, because in the first stage, we are playing a language offensive. If you can make an appointment, if you don't, he won't go with you.

Because we must remain passive and mysterious, what should he do if he is angry? After the failed test, you care whether you need you or not, so you will be angry with you.

4, can't be selfish and boring

Women can be old, women can read less, and they can be ugly, but one is not too selfish, and the other is not boring. To save are two * * * characteristics, the first is very boring.

Sometimes you can't talk about each other's emotions. Looking at your photos is very emotional, attractive, tempting and sexy, but when chatting with you, you just can't get in, and you have no emotional value and lack emotional value.

Why? There are too many boxes in my heart to open. Look at the photos and people. Before you speak, you are a very attractive girl, but as soon as you speak, some girls will give men this feeling, which is silly, interesting and fun. Then some girls talk very aggressively. Are you a firecrackers or a bomb, carrying a powder keg or eating a bomb?

The charm of women lies in weakness, and the charm of men lies in leadership. Learn to let men dominate, and learn to let your men achieve your goals through your weaknesses.

You want a bag, learn to be cute, learn to be a gentle little woman, not that I want you to buy it for me quickly. Learn to be cute, interesting, humorous and interesting! Read more jokes. There are so many interesting variety shows.

Then I said that one more thing is not to be too selfish. Some girls are very self-centered. Why doesn't he love me? Why are you ignoring me? Why don't you go out with me? Why didn't you talk to me? Why didn't you answer my phone? Why do people date, go out, answer your phone, and why do you want to tell me why?

Many girls, who are very sensible, have finally saved most of these selfish and unreasonable girls, and they can't be saved in the end because you can't change your nature! Everything you learn is superficial, and it will break with a poke.

But you will definitely do this to others, and you will definitely do this to your boyfriend. After you have done it to your boyfriend, your boyfriend will label you selfish and ignorant.

A woman can have no charm and no connotation, but you can't be selfish and interesting. How many girls died on this self? I think so. The other person is good to you, the other person likes you and the other person loves you. You deserve it.

People's popularity comes from themselves, people's feelings come from themselves, and they are praised by people with their own efforts. Between people is how you make me comfortable, I will make you comfortable, and I will make you twice as comfortable.

5. Action is more important than words when dating.

The first premise of flirting is to learn to touch. Imagine that you are having dinner with your ex-boyfriend in a restaurant. At this time, I will feed you with vegetables. Open your mouth. It's a warm gesture, or when you go out, if you are chatting at this time, you can ask him to hold his arm and let me take it.

When you cross your arms, you can touch his ribs with his hands. If the man reacts at this time, if your boyfriend suddenly reacts to you or admits it during the date, you can touch his position.

Then the next time you go out with boys, didn't I teach you a lot of these tips before? Touch him, touch his hand, touch his stomach, touch his face, and then learn to touch some insensitive memories, touch its insensitive position more, don't touch his sensitive position, let him have associations and ask him to have associations.

You can even look into his eyes, one is moved and the other is looked into his eyes. When you talk to you and show your value, you can look at him with your eyes. Then when he looked at you, Xiao quietly lowered his head to show his embarrassment. Then look at you, then secretly look at him, and then lower your head, especially when dating several people.

The premise is that when your atmosphere is good, this teasing can warm up your relationship and make your sexual value higher.

Even when I go back at night, I drop things and let him pick them up for you. He will lower his head to pick it up, and he will look at it when he picks it up. Or how to highlight a certain part of yourself, in fact, I will teach you a trick, bring the clavicle chain and show it to him. Do you like it? He looked at his neck and instantly saw his chest.

Or show him the bracelet on your hand, you can show everything and learn to show your various parts indirectly. Then, to sum up, if he doesn't send you back on a date, don't let him send you back, and don't take the initiative to let a man send you back to take a taxi. If he insists on sending you back, let him send you back.