"The First Half of My Life": "I will support you" is the most poisonous love words for men

In the past two days, I have been addicted to watching dramas and can't help myself. I deeply feel that I have become a more useless cat than my cat, and I despise my lack of progress.

People still have to be diligent. If you can’t stand up like Zijun, your life will be dull.

Speaking of the show "The First Half of My Life", apart from being nothing like the original work, it is actually quite positive and energetic. How many housewives have been slapped and slapped, and I don't know how many housewives it can be called. Wake up a few people.

I don’t know if they can understand that when a man says I love you, there is a time limit, maybe ten years, maybe eighteen years. One day, they will lose everything to you. Love, when you look at each other coldly, I don’t know how you will live with nothing. I don’t know if they understand it or not, but one day you will have to step out of your comfort zone, because no one will be your safe haven in this life, only yourself is your last refuge.

Zijun in the play is a woman who has no ability to survive and relies only on men to support herself. By the way, this woman has a domineering personality. She stares at her husband every day for fear that he will cheat on her. She also has an arrogant personality.

Every day, men are forced to swear that they have not fallen in love with other women.

Patting her thighs to teach her sister who is in a poor marriage and living in poverty: Is love useful?

I made more than a dozen calls to my best friend who was in a meeting just to ask her to check the information of my husband’s interns.

Yelling at the nanny and the shoe store attendant is uneducated.

This is a woman who acts coquettishly and mischievously with a Shanghainese accent anytime and anywhere.

After reading this part, I finally laughed without conscience when I saw He Han complaining about her, "Whoever marries such a wife and doesn't have an affair is a miracle."

This is the truth!

Asking myself carefully, if I were a man, I probably wouldn’t love such a woman anymore. I like women who are beautiful, smart, independent, elegant, mature, confident, sensible, have their own thoughts, are gentle, cute and considerate (wake up, there is no such woman in heaven)...

Ahem, I forgot that I am a woman. Well, what I actually like is a handsome, tall, handsome, wealthy man who is so devoted to me that I can live with him (cross out, there is no such man in the world). .......

OK, just a joke.

I don’t know how long the shelf life of love is. But when I saw Junsheng saying this to Zijun, I still felt quite sour.

Because Junsheng also said this to Zijun.

Zijun, who is deeply in the pain of her husband's betrayal, may not understand yet that it was not the third party Ling Ling who defeated her, but herself.

Zijun always remembered that Junsheng told her that he wanted to support her, so she gave up growing up and attached herself to Junsheng, becoming a silk grass. She kept wrapping around Junsheng, the big tree, getting tighter and tighter. Finally, the big tree could hardly breathe. The tree couldn't bear it anymore and made up its mind to escape from the grass.

As a result, the silk grass has no branches to rely on.

If the wormwood cannot turn itself into a tree, give up growth, and give up itself, then she will eventually wither slowly.

When the meaning of life comes from others, you no longer have the initiative, so you will be timid, unconfident, fearful, and at a loss.

Just like Zijun's monologue in the play: I asked myself why I was so afraid of being abandoned by him, afraid of losing this family, and afraid that Ping'er would become a child of a single-parent family. Are there any other reasons? I don’t know how to describe it, it’s like you throw a fish into the desert, and you ask whether the fish is afraid of it...

This is the root of all fear, with empty hands and nothing to rely on.

I have always thought that it is terrible for a woman not to have a career. When you reach out to men for every penny you spend, then you are already a useless person.

A woman who depends on you for survival and has no bargaining power, apart from morality, what reason is there for her to be loyal to her.

When a man says to marry you, you only need to take care of yourself at home, and I will take care of the rest, so you can happily wash your hands and make soup.

The man turned his head and felt that independent women are still attractive and heartwarming. The soup you have spent for more than ten years is not as attractive as the beautiful reports that others stay up late to make.

Where can I find some reason? There is no reason to do so.

This is the naked reality. Moscow does not believe in tears.

In this era, society is changing rapidly, traditional concepts are constantly being challenged, and market competition is so exciting. Men and women in the city clearly know what their bargaining chips are. If they don’t advance, they will retreat. Don’t say Women should be wary of mistresses, but the same goes for men. If you are not doing well and your wife meets someone better than you outside, you have to face the differences. The fate of possibly being eliminated.

We accuse others of being unable to be single-minded and loyal, and we say so righteously, but when it comes to ourselves, can we really be like the Joan of Arc we perform? The easier it is to set a flag, the more severe the slap in the face will be. All feelings are conditional. Everyone is slowly realizing this.

Oaths are the most unreliable things in the world. Only fools can believe them.

"Stop working, I'll take care of you." I used to think it was a romantic statement, but now it seems like it's just sugar-coated chronic poison.

The incubation period lasts for more than 10 years, from when you are in your early 20s when you first graduated from college to when you are in your 30s and nearly 40 years old.

Let you gradually lose the ability to live independently in the "happy life" of a housewife. No matter how you take care of your skin, the city life that is separated from society will slowly wear away your personality charm and remove you from your mind. Turned into a yellow-faced woman. ?It has worn away all the feelings of the man who vowed to love you at the beginning.

At this time, you have nothing but cooking a table of dishes, what else can you do? I have no workplace experience and am as pure as a blank sheet of paper. I can only work hard at the grassroots level with the girl who just graduated.

It’s really a dead end.

I once met a self-made boss. He and his wife were not very educated, but from his words, I began to feel that he began to dislike the other half for standing still.

I don’t know when he will change his wife, or whether his lover and his wife will fly together. Anyway, it’s possible.

Whether it is marriage or life, it is actually a practice. Husband and wife grow at different rates.

One person slowed down and stayed where he was, while the other person moved forward quickly, not wanting to look back.

This caused the two people to drift apart.

Gradually, the two people who originally loved each other turned into two people in completely different worlds.

They don’t have the same language or the same hobbies, they just became two strangers living together.

This is really a terrible and realistic thing.

Some people say that Chen Junsheng is a scumbag because he cheated on him first.

I agree with this, he is indeed a scumbag. And Zijun is not without fault.

Consistent life goals and values ??should originally be part of love.

Don't be a grass, because it will be easily torn from the trunk of the climbing tree. Be a tree and stand side by side with the tree next to you.

A real urban girl should be independent, calm, love herself first, and then love others. She should have her own clear goals in life and grow up with her lover.

This is the best life.