What I want to say about cyber violence

Hello, everyone. I remember that I haven't been here for a long time. During this time, I thought a lot of questions and things, but today I want to talk to you about cyber violence, a common problem, but few people feel the seriousness of this matter. Cyber violence is not far away from us, but very close.

? The reasons for the formation of cyber violence: we are still very free online, and more importantly, our identities are hidden online, which makes online swearing cheap and extensive. Secondly, the online environment is a good place to vent. Some people who may not swear online may change because they see some comments, and they may choose to join them because they see many people cursing a person online, but others only see the truth in front of them, but they don't.

? I remember watching a video, in which there is a domino with many mobile phones. Pushing the first one gently will affect the second one, so it will continue until the last mobile phone is pushed straight. The last mobile phone is different from the previous one. It has a photo, so I think of one? A girl in a foreign country chose to commit suicide because she illegally endured the abuse of netizens. Is the network really so harmful? One person scolds two people, three people scolds dozens of people and hundreds of people, but no one will take any responsibility. When I mentioned abroad, it reminded me of something that has always been painful to me, that is, the departure of my only goddess Sulli. At that time, when I saw the news, I felt that everything had stopped, and it was a nightmare. When I slowly pinched myself with my hand, I woke up from the nightmare, and when I looked around, I felt that the world was black. Then I rowed my arms wildly, my body began to somatize, my heart began to ache, my tears began to flow out, and my mouth kept saying, This is not true, and my brain gradually began to be blank and unable to think. During that time, I was in a technical school. I remember that my classmates joked about it. During that time, I didn't talk much and I didn't have any spirit in class. I remember that I smoked a pack of cigarettes in less than a week, but it didn't reduce my pain at all. Everyone may think that this matter has nothing to do with cyber violence, but it was from that time that I began to hate cyber violence. When reporters interviewed those who attacked the goddess online, they said, It's none of my business. I didn't expect her mentality. When I saw this news, I really wanted to wear it to the screen and hit them, but it was impossible, and violence could not make my dream come true. My dream was time to go back, so maybe some tragedies would not happen again. ? Later, my mood began to improve, and my brain could think about some problems. I think my goddess didn't want me to do this for her, but when I remembered my heart, it still hurt. Later, I began to post some comments on the Internet to stop people from cyber violence. As a result, I was inevitably scolded by a group of people. It's none of your business, are you sick, and so on. Many people scold me and say something about me, but none of them agree with me. To be honest, the feeling of being scolded is really unbearable. I remember that I used to think that swearing on the Internet was very harmful, and even I used to scold people on the Internet. At that time, I saw a person posting something insulting girls on the Internet, so I started to scold him at that time, but I didn't scold him as a result, but now I really hate cyber violence. It is simple to want to hurt a person on the Internet, without any reason. The Internet provides a good environment for Keyboard Man. Even if a person just attacks others and publishes positive energy in another place on the Internet, no one will know that someone may find some sense of existence on the Internet. When a group of people are scolding a person, If you participate in it, you may feel that you have suffered a lot. I remember reading a sentence on the Internet: Ten people scold one person as a bully, and a hundred people scold one person as justice. ? If those who attack others on the internet think they are exercising justice, I want to say: this joke is not funny at all. ? Wang Maolei, who plays Yuan Chunwang in Story of Yanxi Palace, was scolded by netizens for not going out, Kathy CHAU was scolded by netizens for quitting the entertainment circle, and Li Mingqi, who plays Sister Rong in Princess Huanzhu, has been attacked by others for a long time, the son of tomorrow? NoNo was scolded and cried by netizens, Jing Bo Ran was scolded for quitting Weibo, Sun Li and Deng Chao were scolded for donating money, Mabel Yuan was hacked by netizens, Sean Xiao was attacked by black powder, and Jing M.Guo was attacked by the strongest brain. Two projects, Beauty of Light and Star Trek, were scolded for expressing their views, super brain's dream-chasing old boys Li Yong was scolded for being slightly emotional on the show, his son Li Yunlong was also scolded for crying first in the battle with Andre, and the digital geek Lin Jiandong was scolded for letting Shen Yifan fight against Henry Bohr. Rotten group of betta anchor was attacked by netizens with abnormal language, and Tianyun, a female commentator in the glory of the king, was also attacked in this way. Girls were scolded because of COS characters, some people were scolded because they didn't play well in the fifth personality game, and some people were scolded because they hung up. Many people in the comment area of king of fighters Destiny Game scolded developers, and those who won by Naruto always ridiculed those who lost. My world players and mini-world players often scold each other online. Pork fishing is scolded because some people say that the game is fun. I told everyone not to swear and be scolded because of the play in the middle of the tour. Well, there are a lot of things to say. If I were allowed to talk about cyber violence, I could talk to you for a day. ? The attack of human language is very powerful, which reminds me of a distressing thing. A 19-year-old girl committed suicide by jumping off a building because she was dissatisfied with her life. At that time, firefighters were trying to comfort her. When the girl got better, the people below were taking photos and videos. Some even said: Does Nima still jump? It's so hot, don't lose time. At last, when the woman jumped downstairs, the fireman was heartbroken, but the people below were cheering and clapping. I remember when I saw the news, I had an indescribable feeling inside, like pain? Sad? Helpless? Anger is mixed together. To be honest, if I see a person bullying another person on the street now, I will probably choose not to care, but I will really blame myself because I am weak and cowardly. Don't those people blame themselves? There are also people who attack others in online language. Won't there be a trace of remorse and sadness in their hearts?

? I remember once I said something in a game that I shouldn't swear at random on the Internet. As a result, I was scolded and said that I talked a lot. I only said one sentence, but no one said that those who scolded a few words on the Internet had a lot of scolding and praise. I want to say: The game brings people happiness. Don't care too much about winning or losing. What is important is the process of participation. Don't swear because others don't play well. To tell the truth, players who scold others are still far from you. If you have the ability to score points with your teammates, in fact, the truth of the game is a negative and rewarding experience. There is nothing wrong with players who charge money and work hard to lose time to win, because is it really worth it to hurt others after winning or losing the game? Don't you have to win a hundred games, others think the same as you, and everything is up to you, so you won't swear on the Internet? We all have our own troubles in life, everyone is working hard and everyone is under great pressure. I want to say to those who give negative energy to others on the Internet and attack others with words, if that is what you want to be scolded by others? Don't people hurt when you use words? Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. There is a saying in Ten Deaths: No snowflake thinks it is my responsibility during an avalanche, but if I am a snowflake, I think I have a great responsibility. In fact, I often wonder: Why don't I have super powers? So I can do more things. I even learn from Zorro and get myself a symbol. My symbol is 5, but I'm still useless. ? For Keyboard Man, you only made a comment and a sentence, but for the person you commented, it was not a sentence, but a sharp knife, just like a drop of water is just a drop of water for ordinary people, but it may not be that simple in the eyes of scientists. Do you know how much harm your words have caused others to those who comment at will? There are also stars and public figures. Since everyone can't hurt at will, can I tell you a story? Once upon a time, there was a little boy who liked to be violent to others. One day, his father said to him: If you are violent to others, nail a nail on a wooden post. After a while, the wooden post was covered with nails. At this time, his father said to him: If you are not violent to others, get a nail. After a while, he removed all the nails. His father said to him: Very good, but you see that the wooden post is not what it used to be. Every time you are right. So I hope everyone can think about it before posting their comments online. To be honest, I don't want many people to read this article, but I hope that some people can feel it. If a hundred people read a hundred articles that like me but have no idea, it's like a person who doesn't like it, but he is touched. There are too many examples about cyber violence. I don't want to say too much. I hope everyone can start from their own small things. We all live under the same sky. Shouldn't we understand each other and cheer for each other? Some people may not listen to what I say, but I hope those keyboard men can learn to respect. Let's work together and come on.

Of course, everyone has the right to comment on himself, but that doesn't mean you can maliciously slander others at will. In fact, when everyone takes a selfie, they must be praised and appreciated in their hearts. Many people are willing to share their lives with their good friends. Even if the comments are well-intentioned, you can turn a blind eye if you don't like them, but don't say some vicious and hurtful words under the comments. When you stand on the moral high ground and comment on others, please reflect on yourself first. Resist cyber violence, please protect yourself! Never be a person standing in the shadow.

A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word is cold in June

You never know what kind of psychological harm those words you type on the keyboard

will cause to others.