Don't tangle with rotten people.

Don't pester yourself when you meet something broken.

What do you think of a girl sharing a room with two boys?

The relationship between three people is a couple and a man's cousin. Do you think it's appropriate?

Colleague a Li met a broken thing, and her boyfriend's cousin wanted to live with herself and her boyfriend.

Cousin love rat talked about a girlfriend of eight years who was still cheating on her mistress. She has lost her job, and her family owes more than 65,438+yuan. Now she wants to live with Ali's boyfriend.

Ali and her boyfriend rent a two-bedroom apartment. Boyfriend means that if there is a vacant room, let cousins live together.

If you want to have better living habits, you can live together for a while, but this cousin is really terrible.

Littering, take-out in the living room, keeping cats without shoveling shit.

Smoking, drinking, chewing betel nut, spending 1800 yuan every day, with no source of income and relying on various online loans.

Once, I tried to get San Xiao back to live with her, but Ali refused. Moreover, she raised all the bad habits brought by her boyfriend and smoked cigarettes that she had given up before.

Ali is really helpless and gets angry every time he talks about it.

Originally, it was agreed to live temporarily, but now it is said to live permanently. Ali really can't stand it.

It is strange for a girl to share a room with two men, and her boyfriend has no idea of taking his side. I also told her that it was really difficult to add myself between my cousin and my girlfriend.

Ali wants to leave, and leaving means breaking up. She doesn't want to break up for an outsider, but she really can't stand the scum of her cousin.

This matter has dragged on for a long time. From the end of last year to this year, Ali has been reluctant to part with her boyfriend, and most of the rent is paid by her boyfriend.

Two days ago, I heard that Ali has found a house by herself and has not broken up yet. I don't know what will happen in the future, but she has been in a much better mood recently and is quite happy to see the house.

This matter sounds very difficult to handle, similar to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, one is a cousin and the other is a girlfriend, but it is a bad thing for Ali.

If you can't solve it, just stay away.

If you don't dwell on bad things, you won't be able to solve them, but it will also affect your mood, which will not pay off.

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Never mind when you meet bad people.

Ji Xianlin, a master of Chinese studies, once had dinner with Cang Kejia in a small restaurant.

The next table is a woman with a child. After eating for a while, the woman went to the bathroom and put the child on the stool.

When the child reached for the peanuts on the table, his foot slipped and he fell to the ground, crying with pain.

Ji Xianlin saw it and quickly lifted him up.

I didn't expect the mother to come out of the bathroom. I mistakenly thought that Ji Xianlin made the child cry, so I opened my mouth to scold:

"Why should an adult bully a child? If my son is injured, I won't end with you. "

Ji Xianlin didn't refute, listening to the mother's cry, quietly returned to the position.

People around you can't stand it anymore, accusing the mother of being unreasonable:

"It was your child who fell down. This gentleman is kind enough to help you help him up. You started cursing. You really have no conscience! "

The child's mother left in despair.

Afterwards, Cang Kejia asked Ji Xianlin, "You are obviously misunderstood. Why didn't you talk back when she called you that? "

Ji Xianlin smiled and said:

"Answering a person who scolds you is followed by endless arguments. This is a bad start."

It is better to stay away from it than to pester it. It is the best solution to meet bad people and not care.

As the saying goes, dogs bite, but people can't bite dogs.

A long time ago, a couple met a drunk and had some arguments. They don't want to be chased by drunks with knives, resulting in tragic consequences of one death and one injury.

Stay away from garbage people and avoid biting dogs. This is the most worth learning.

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Don't argue, don't explain, don't pester

The professor told a joke in class and everyone laughed.

Half an hour later, the professor told the joke again, and only half of them smiled slightly.

When the professor told the joke for the third time, no one laughed any more.

Finally, the professor said, "Yes, since you never feel happy because of the same joke over and over again, why do you always feel sad because of the same reason?"

Since you won't laugh at the same joke again, why are you always obsessed with the same stupid thing?

There are two impressive characters in Ba Long Cloth. They are not protagonists, but they have a tangled love story.

Tian Muhe is a brother and sister, and they both fall in love with the handsome boundless child. In order to compete for the love of the five ducks, they turned against each other and killed each other.

From jasper years to white hair, I struggled all my life for a person and a painting.

Tian Lao thinks that Five Ducks love themselves and Li Qiushui loves herself. Two people think that competing with each other can make five ducks like each other.

Unexpectedly, it turns out that the man has always loved being younger, which has nothing to do with them.

I have loved and hated all my life, but it's nothing after all.

If only two people learn to let go, life will be different.

They are no longer the fearsome grandmothers of Tianshan children, nor the queen of Xixia who can't express her feelings. They will meet their lovers again on the road of life and spend the rest of their warm lives.

Put down what you can't get, and say goodbye to what you lose. It's not that you don't insist, but that you can let go.

Lightweight, because put down, because you have to wait for yourself to meet.

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A person's life is only over 30,000 days, and every minute is particularly precious. Do something that makes you happy.

It is a pity to waste time on people and things that are not worth it.

Mr. Jiang Yang said, "I don't argue with anyone, and I don't care who I argue with." This is the wisdom of life, but also a person's generosity, calmness and clarity.

Often compete with the same hobby, not a fool talking about shortcomings.

Don't argue with bad people, don't entangle with bad things, spend time on people and things that are worth it, and let life see more beauty.

Life is short and time is limited. May you meet the person you like, do what you like and live a comfortable life.