The cheapest thing in the world is the tenderness of a man who has accomplished nothing.

As the name implies, this sentence has recently appeared frequently on platforms such as Tik Tok. In my opinion,

For men, this is the most cruel and heartfelt sentence.

Seemingly inspirational, it is actually the most naked exposure and deconstruction of the relationship between men and women.

There is a short video, the road is slippery on rainy days, a man wants to take off his coat for his female companion to step on, a rich man drives over, and the woman gets on the bus and follows the rich man, leaving the poor man on the road. The video says: "The cheapest in the world." .

Boyfriends are good to girlfriends, but poverty is the label of this man. No matter how good he is, he can't provide his girlfriend with any service he wants to buy. You have to choose cheap cosmetics and bags.

No matter how much a boyfriend cares, in the eyes of women, it is just useless affectation; No matter how ambitious a man is, in the eyes of a woman who can't wait, he is just a fantasy of a poor man.

Finally, the woman couldn't stand poverty and chose to leave the man.

If you wait, my career will turn around soon.

"Wait? I've been waiting for you for three years. How long do I have to wait? "

The woman left in a hurry.

Three years later, a woman who hasn't found true love went to a company for an interview.

The woman peeked at the boss of the company through the door. He is personable and has a beautiful female assistant beside him.

And this boss is the ex-boyfriend he abandoned.

Although the story is a bit too idealistic, it is really thought-provoking. How realistic love can be, and how unreliable this reality can sometimes be.

In fact, love has always been so cruel. Some people bet that telling a one-sentence joke can make everyone laugh. He did it. The joke he told was:

I believe in love.

Yes, believing in love has become a joke. Because the story of breaking through parents' life and family prejudice like in ancient times and being brave and desperate together no longer exists. Women are becoming more and more realistic emotionally.

After all, in ancient times, you could live in seclusion in the mountains without money; In modern society, women don't have money, they can't even afford daily cosmetics, and they can't even afford to eat, let alone buy a house or a car in first-tier cities.

If you are with a man who is in poverty or even an ordinary family, these are extravagant hopes.

So, they are so realistic. They always say that men are not motivated and responsible enough. In fact, in the final analysis, men's ability to earn money is not enough to meet their expectations for a happy life.

Undeniably, the era of "loving only one person all one's life" is gone. City life means greater consumption, and it also means the price of feelings. Marrying love has given way to marrying economic interests.

These are understandable, because when you come to a big city, even in the countryside, you will feel how wronged it is to have no money.

Walking into the bustling shopping mall, I felt out of place and even blushed. Those fashionable boys and girls are dazzling, and the economic conditions can be seen at a glance.

The waiter in the luxury store looked at himself up and down, knowing that I didn't have 500 yuan in total and that I was a poor man who couldn't afford their products. Sometimes I feel ashamed of myself, especially the cheap shoes.

I have read two sentences: if you have money, you will know what temptation is like; You have no money, so you can only say that you can stand the temptation.

Therefore, for men, instead of trying to pick up girls and chase girls, the most practical thing is to make money by all reasonable means, which is the ultimate weapon to win "love".

The writing is extreme, just to express my opinion on this sentence, so don't blame everyone, especially women.