Japanese anti-routine short film burst into red: being abused into a dog by life, watching the resurrection of blood.

I often hear jokes that the promotion of contemporary young people depends entirely on koi fish.

In TV series, the heroine gets an offer in ten minutes and becomes the project leader in twenty-four hours.

The netizen expressed jealousy with red eyes: "I hope good luck can happen to me."

Occasionally, I will hear the story:

Being seen as a person who is methodical, hardworking and observant, he immediately changed from a small secretary to a department head.

Luck is simple and rude, and the logic is full of loopholes.

Similar chicken soup is regarded as a lifesaver, and many people use it to relieve their anxiety.

Sorry, there is no miracle in life

Some time ago, a two-minute Japanese short film was screened on the Internet.

The protagonist is a young girl who is going to the interview site by bus.

At this moment, an old man with red socks and black shoes got on the bus.

because there is no seat, he can only hold the handrail.

The hostess stood up and offered her seat to him. Grandpa looked at her with relief and nodded again and again.

At the interview site, the hostess was surprised to find that the interviewer was also wearing red socks and black shoes.

is ... is he the one who was given his seat?

Look up slowly ... The hostess was soon disappointed-a complete stranger.

The interview ended and the hostess failed.

She walked out of the company in frustration, and a cleaner stopped her.

it's grandpa on that bus.

At this time, several people rushed to the back and shouted:

"President, why are you still doing cleaning work!"

the hostess suddenly turned her head: is it possible that he is the president of the company?

before she rekindled her hopes, the staff pushed grandpa away and ran to the real president.

I thought too much ... The hostess smiled wryly and was ready to leave.

At this time, the president shouted in the direction of Grandpa Bao Jie: "Brother, stop fooling around and go home quickly!"

Don't you ...

Reality is striking again-the president's brother just happened to stand behind the grandfather.

The reversal in the play is still going on, but the result is no exception: Grandpa has nothing to do with all the executives.

until now, subtitles slowly appear on the screen: miracles rarely happen.

The short film seems exaggerated, but it is undeniable that many people will take chances when applying for a job.

Imagine that even if you don't have enough ability, you can overtake in other ways.

in a talent show, there were two contestants.

They claimed to have been wandering singers, which was misunderstood and even regarded as beggars.

nevertheless, they persisted in their dreams, firmly believing that as long as they didn't leave any regrets for themselves, it was enough.

The speech won a lot of applause, and also moved the guests to tears.

Suddenly, judge Han Hong interrupted them: "Have you played enough?"

Seeing that they still want to refute, Han Hong listed their experiences.

it turns out that the two have been in the entertainment industry for many years, but their strength is not enough for too many people to remember.

In the ironclad fact, the two men had to walk off the stage under the criticism of the audience.

The reality is not a film and television drama. If you are opportunistic blindly, you will often "lose your wife and lose your soldiers".

it's easier to create miracles by improving your ability in a down-to-earth manner.

When Mulan's casting list came out, many people questioned:

Why did Liu Yifei, who looked so weak, be chosen among more than 5, actors?

Disney officials gave reasons.

They have set the following standards for actors who play roles:

They know martial arts, understand English and have star appeal.

and they happen to be available in Liu Yifei.

The seemingly easy opportunity actually comes from her accumulation over the years.

Li Jiaqi, a beauty blogger known as "Brother Lipstick", has set a sales record of "selling 15, lipsticks in five minutes".

When asked about his experience, he admitted that he had been a cosmetics shopping guide for three years and knew the consumer psychology of women and the characteristics of cosmetics like the back of his hand.

does Li Jiaqi talk about sales experience? /

Most of the sales miracles he created came from his accumulated experience.

There is no miracle in life. Even if there is, it must be a powder ornament of strength.

"Miracle is just another name for strength."

Every stage of life can't escape sharpening

In our subconscious mind, there seems to be a turning point in life, after which the future will be smooth.

There are similar descriptions in film and television dramas:

After all kinds of hardships, I got together with the hostess and lived a happy life from then on.

I tried my best to find a job, and since then I have reached the peak of my life.

Even the teachers who taught us in middle school like to say, "Work hard in high school for three years, and you will never have to worry about it again."

Talking about "Henceforth" is a common way for us to motivate ourselves.

sometimes, they do play a role in pushing.

but more often, it will have negative effects.

China Youth Daily once conducted a survey and found that 54% of high school students have high expectations for universities.

Freedom, romance, and relaxation ... The imaginary university is like sunshine, which removes a trace of fatigue from their study and life.

It's just that the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment.

another set of data shows that among those freshmen, only .2% feel that the school fully meets their expectations.

The remaining 99.8% people are disappointed in different degrees after entering school.

The words "It will be easy in the future" are inspiring, but they are not in line with the reality of life.

Every stage can't escape sharpening, which is the real state of life.

In the Korean drama "Romantic Physique", the work of screenwriter Zhenzhu was taken by famous writers and recruited as an assistant.

to her great surprise, she vowed to her family that she would become a big shot from now on.

unexpectedly, reality soon slapped her in the face.

after entering the company, Zhenzhu found that writers were picky and often reprimanded employees, and she was scolded for her carelessness.

I work overtime every day, and I even have to bring my luggage when I go to work.

summon up courage to fight, and you can only get the writer's advice of drawing a pie.

The gap between fantasy and reality makes Zhenzhu hard to accept.

after working for two years, she finally couldn't help it. She talked back to the writer from time to time, which made her unable to step down.

As a result, Zhenzhu was quickly fired.

Although it is only a drama, it truly records the mood of some people when they first enter the workplace.

I am hopeful and full of expectations, thinking that I will make great achievements from now on.

it was later discovered that it was just another beginning of suffering.

At the opening ceremony of Tsinghua University, Professor Yu Xinjie compared life to a marathon: "I have been running and growing."

running fast in the next second doesn't mean success.

You have to endure fatigue all the time and keep the speed at all times in order to win the final championship.

this may also be the true nature of life.

There is no shortcut once and for all, and there is no turning point that "it will be easy to walk that way".

it is the normal state of life to keep running and not slack off.

A soulful person may be love rat.

Since childhood, I have heard chicken soup not only in life, but also many famous sayings and aphorisms related to love:

"You are the only one who loves you."

"Even if you say something casually, he will remember it."

after listening to it, it is inevitable that you will take this affectionate look as a model of true love.

In the Korean drama Romantic Physique, Han Zhu met such "true love".

She used to be the beauty queen of a university and was regarded as a goddess by many boys.

Badminton courts, cafes, as long as she appears, will be surrounded by boys like stars holding the moon.

Han Zhu, who is so popular, is with an ordinary boy.

He is plain-looking, and his education is not high, but he is very devoted to Han Zhu.

At the beginning of our acquaintance, we got the nerve to go to Han Zhu and ask her preferences seriously.

Even if rejected, I still insist: "As long as you answer, I will leave."

Han Zhu casually replied: "Boys who like funny."

He signed up for a funny troupe and pestered his predecessors to learn drama.

even if you are often scolded, you don't care.

Han Zhu was gradually moved by the boys and secretly went to see his performance.

The acting skills are poor, but there is a hidden intention in his eyes, and he even looks a little cute because of his clumsiness.

She believes that boys are sincere to themselves.

not long after, Han Zhu got pregnant unexpectedly.

as a last resort, she had to drop out of school, get married and have children.

Unexpectedly, just after giving birth to the child, the boy filed for divorce.

"This is not the life I want. I want to be happier."

Han Zhu asked incredulously: What about my happiness?

Why do you ask me about your happiness?

if the first half of the story describes the beauty of love, it reveals its true side here.

In many chicken soups, the feelings of "only seeing you" and "willing to give everything for you" are sought after as true love.

So many people kidnap their partners morally: If you don't pay for me, do you just don't love me?

Too much effort can really show a person's deep affection, but without a sense of responsibility, deep affection can easily disappear.

Like the boys in the play, the persistence in pursuing the mistress is really sincere, and the determination in abandoning the mistress is also sincere.

it is easy to misjudge the weight of affection if you regard short-term affection as true love.

Sternberg, an American psychologist, put forward a very famous theory of love-love triad after years of research.

It is mentioned that love consists of passion, intimacy and commitment, and each part is indispensable.

Only intimacy and commitment are meaningless together.

only passion and intimacy will not last long.

The desperate efforts emphasized in chicken soup are often just out of "passion".

Only by getting along with each other for a long time in the future can we see whether it is true love.

Chicken soup tastes good, but it is also poisonous

There is a term in psychology called "placebo effect".

that is, the treatment given by the doctor to the patient is ineffective, but the patient's symptoms are relieved because he believes it is effective.

The poisonous chicken soup flying all over the Internet seems to have given us a placebo.

We can add a filter to our life and make us believe that everything will be fine tomorrow.

But it is said to be "toxic" because people who believe wrongly will have hallucinations and be blindly optimistic.

How many people are waiting for love in the imaginary chicken soup-

"One day, you will meet someone who understands you, who will not abandon your small temper, accept your willfulness and laziness, and love you without reservation."

As everyone knows, those girls who blindly believe in love and are desperate for love often lose miserably in the end.

How many people fantasize about a little luck in the workplace where they should fight for strength?

"A compliment from the boss is 1 times more important than your hard work: EQ in the workplace is more important than hard work!"

I don't know, however, that a truly discerning leader will never promote a person who only "flatters" but has no strength.

Many chicken soups are just under the banner of optimism, which makes the present situation worse.

Haruki Murakami once said that novelists are professional liars.

In this era of pursuing traffic, the poisoned chicken soup carefully cooked by Duan Zi's hands has made many people miserable.

Many "poisoned chicken soup" that have been clicked countless times are actually just routine sentences and shocking words.

it's useless except temporarily paralyzing your pain.

it is a compulsory course for adults to see the cruelty of reality clearly, but still love it.