What should Ma Bao do in the face of relatives who tease babies?

Babies are the pistachios at home. Not only did my family like it, but other relatives couldn't help thinking about it in Doby. After all, children's innocence always makes everyone laugh. However, when teasing children, we should also master the discretion. If you don't master proper limit, you will find out for yourself, which will hurt harmony and make it hard for you to face.

When the bear's relatives made a joke that it had gone too far, Ma Bao walked straight back.

Yao Yao gave birth to a lovely little prince last year, and the whole family was very happy. By the Spring Festival, the baby is over one year old and knows a lot of words. So this year my husband and I took the baby back to our hometown for the New Year. Relatives at home are very enthusiastic. When they saw the baby, they couldn't help taking it away. They had to hug each other, no matter whether the baby was shy or not, and they also used red envelopes to lure the baby to pay a New Year call to themselves.

A distant aunt, holding her baby, said to him, "Your mother doesn't want you, she wants to give you to her aunt." The little baby began to cry in horror, ran to hug his mother with a runny nose and tears, and said, "Mom, mom is obedient and wants her to have a baby." Yao Yao understood the baby's words and looked at her face flushed with tears, which made her feel uncomfortable.

Say something malicious to your aunt: "You are old, how can you talk nonsense in front of your children?" He is still a child. Did you tell the child this to make him cry? "

With that, she picked up the baby and went straight back to her room. In the evening, my mother-in-law said to herself, "Your aunt is particularly wronged and says that you are too powerful. I dare not joke with you casually in the future!" Yao Yao walked straight back and said, "Is this a joke? Not her baby, she naturally does not feel bad. "

Many relatives are very careless when joking, which will hurt the baby invisibly. In this case, the treasure mothers will only turn their faces.

In particular, teasing your baby in the following ways is undoubtedly a deliberate fault-finding, because you have touched the minefield in Ma Bao.

First, play some threatening jokes with the baby.

When many "bear relatives" tease the baby, the more intense the baby's reaction, the happier they are, but they don't know what kind of harm this will bring to the baby. For example, I often threaten my baby to say, "Mom doesn't want you, mom and dad have a younger brother, give him all your snacks and toys" and so on.

If it seems like a joke, it will actually make children feel great fear, lose their sense of security to their parents, and even leave a shadow on their young hearts. This kind of joke is purely to make trouble and destroy the parent-child relationship of others.

Second, play some dangerous games with your baby.

Many relatives like to throw their babies high, or play some dangerous games of pulling radishes, although some daring babies will be made to laugh and look happy. However, if you don't master the throwing height well, or make mistakes, it is easy to hurt your baby. Also, holding the baby's leg to pull the radish will lead to high intracranial pressure, increase the risk of intracranial hemorrhage, and the baby's brain is underdeveloped. These games are easy to hurt babies.

Third, force close contact with babies.

Some relatives and friends like to get close to the baby, give him a hug, let him kiss his face and so on. Some babies don't want to get in touch with people other than their parents, saying that children can't let go, their personality is too introverted and so on.

Babies have a natural sense of resistance to strangers. Since it is understandable that relatives want to be close to the baby, they should also respect the baby's feelings. Otherwise, the child's unsuspecting intimacy with strangers will greatly reduce the baby's safety awareness and give criminals an opportunity.

The baby is held in the hands of its parents. Although out of love for the baby, they will have a baby in Doby, but some practices will really annoy Ma Bao, and it will be very unpleasant to go back directly.

Teaching you how to go back perfectly today can not only solve this embarrassment, but also protect your baby from harm.

Find an excuse to take the child away first.

When relatives and babies play some dangerous actions, Ma Bao can ask the baby if he is hungry, wants to go to the toilet and so on. When she doesn't know how to face strange relatives, Ma Bao can find an excuse to leave with her children. Relatives' games will go away, which not only avoids confrontation, but also protects the baby from harm.

Second, throw the embarrassing question back to the other party.

The baby is very small and fragile inside. Relatives joke, they will take it seriously, afraid that mom and dad really don't want themselves. Relatives play this kind of joke, Ma Bao can directly calm the baby first, and then change the subject and ask whether the child should get married this year. Are you dating someone? Did you find a job?

It can not only ease the fear in the child's heart, but also block the other person's mouth invisibly and let the other person feel the pressure. Everyone is actually a relative, and it is understandable to care for each other.

Third, let children take the initiative to perform to divert attention.

Some relatives like to play with children when they have nothing to do. Since you like children, you might as well teach them some simple talents. If you encounter some embarrassing interactions, you can take the initiative to perform a program for everyone. This kind of treatment can not only make children look natural and graceful, gain everyone's appreciation, but also refuse the excessive jokes of some relatives with high emotional intelligence.

Teasing children is a way for many people to express their closeness, but crossing the border will not only cause Ma Bao's dissatisfaction, but also bring harm to the baby invisibly, so parents must stop it in time.